"You...you guys, you think beautifully. I go to the nursing home by myself and don't live in your house." 65-year-old Mr. Guo shouted at his son and daughter-in-law with anger.
It is said that raising children to prevent old age. It is natural for parents to live with their children when they are old, but why did Mr. Guo make such a fuss with his son and daughter-in-law? What's going on?
Let’s listen to the self-report about Mr. Guo.
01
Hello everyone, my name is Guo Laifu, everyone calls me Lao Guo, I am 65 years old this year.
receives a monthly pension of 5,000 yuan and lives in a large three-bedroom house. I have saved some money over the years, and I have about 200,000 yuan.
I also have a son who graduated from college and is now a family and works in a bank. My grandson is already 8 years old.
02
Logically speaking, I have a good life. When I get old, I have money, houses, and savings. I also have a son who has a good job and a well-behaved grandson.
In fact, my life was indeed pretty good before the later incident.
Since retired, I have to go out for a trip with my wife every year, and my son and daughter-in-law will also take their grandson to visit us often.
At that time, relatives and neighbors envied me and said, "Why is this old man so lucky, I have a companion by my side, a filial son, daughter-in-law and lovely grandson, so I have no worries about food and clothing."
At that time, I really felt that I must have done too many good things in my previous life and enjoyed my life.
, this idea was broken by something unexpected.
03
"Hey, son, come back quickly, your mother... your mother is gone." I choked and said this to my son.
Maybe my first half of life was too smooth, so when I was 65 years old, the real hardship began.
My wife suddenly left due to physical reasons, and at this moment, I suddenly didn’t know how to live my next life.
Just when I was still immersed in the pain of my wife's departure, on a rainy day, I fell down due to walking due to slippage and lay in the bed for a full month. After recovering, I was not very stable and my health was not as good as before.
Fortunately, my son has been trying his best to take care of me, and his daughter-in-law often comes to visit me.
This made me cheer up. It is said that raising children to prevent old age. Seeing my son and daughter-in-law treat me like this, I feel comforted by old age. After that, I made up my mind to move to my son's house and let them take care of me in the future.
04
So, I started packing clothes at home and called my son: "Son, call your daughter-in-law to come, Dad, I have something to tell you."
"What's the matter, can't you tell me on the phone?" My son asked curiously.
"I can't explain it clearly on the phone, hurry up, your family is here to talk." I hung up the phone after I said that.
dong dong dong... A knock on the door sounded.
"Dad, what's wrong with calling us all this early? Are you feeling uncomfortable? Then hurry up and see!" My son thought I was unwell and said anxiously before he came in.
"No, I'm in good health. It's just that after falling last time, it's not convenient to walk." I waved my hand and said.
"I'm asking you here today. It's because my dad plans to live with you in the future to support me. I've thought about it. I'm older and your mom is no longer there. I'm old, so I still have to live with you."
"Dad, you can live in, but I have to make three requests. Don't be upset." Before my son could speak, his daughter-in-law jumped out and said.
05
Because my daughter-in-law usually respects me, I didn’t expect that as soon as I asked them to support me today, my daughter-in-law immediately stood up.
I suddenly felt a little unhappy: My son hasn't said anything yet, you, a daughter-in-law, jumped out and jumped!
"There are still requirements? Then tell me, what are the requirements?" I asked with a angrily suppressed.
"Dad, you can come to retire. As a son and daughter-in-law, you should also provide you with retirement. However, you have to agree to my three requirements."
"First, don't you have a monthly pension of 5,000 yuan? You have less money now, and your son and your grandson, and you will add you in the future, the expenses of this family are not small. You also know that your son and I don't have much salary every month, so you pay us 5,000 yuan a month, one is to serve as living expenses, and the other is to treat you."
"Second, don't you still have one more salary, so you pay us 5,000 yuan a month. One is to serve as living expenses, and the other is to treat you."
"Second, don't you still have one more salary. Is it a big three-bedroom house? Otherwise, you can transfer that house to our name. Anyway, yours belong to your son. If you transfer it earlier, there is no difference. "
" Third, Dad, you will leave the savings you have saved over the years to us for you to keep. Don't worry, we won't touch you at all. You know that the older you are, your memory is not as good as before. You don't have to leave so much savings, so you can't feel at ease. We will keep them for you and return them to you when you want to use them."
The daughter-in-law said three requests at once, and when I heard these three requests, I was angry in an instant.
06
"Daughter-in-law, you don't have three requirements. You are clearly dependent on your parents! I am old, but I can still see my eyes and listen to my ears. I want me to agree to these three requirements. If you think beautifully, I will go to the nursing home and I will not stay here!"
I said this angrily, and didn't care about the dispute between my son and daughter-in-law in the room, and rushed out.
Walking on the road, I couldn't help but burst into tears and asked myself repeatedly: Everyone says to raise children to prevent old age. Look, can I raise children to prevent old age?
@Emotional Story on the Pen Tip : Grandpa Guo, you don’t have to be sad. To be honest, you have a house and savings, and you still have a pension of 5,000 yuan per month. If your son and daughter-in-law really have difficulties, you don’t have to bow your head like this. You can go to a better nursing home.
The nursing homes opened in our country are now very complete, and the staff inside are also very responsible. The food is reasonably matched, the nutrition is balanced, and the elderly life organized is also very colorful.
So, you don’t have to compromise yourself in order to support your old age and make yourself lose your dignity and confidence. If you have savings, you can still live happily in your later years.
Friends, do you agree with Mr. Guo’s practice of going to a nursing home? Do you think the requirements mentioned by Mr. Guo’s daughter-in-law are reasonable?
