text丨Tao Xiaojing
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We all think that love will only bring beauty and sweetness. But reality tells us that in the world of emotions, beauty and ugliness are with each other, and sweetness and pain are dependent on each other.
No one’s feelings are always beautiful. Those who truly achieve happiness actually come through pain.
It is not necessarily the best choice to meet someone who will make you moved in the vast crowd.
Two people can come together hand in hand. It seems that they have embarked on the road to happiness, but they may not continue.
There are too many unknowns in the future. Even if two people truly love each other, it is difficult to guarantee that there will be a day when they change their minds.
All feelings in this world are like this. They seem to be beautiful, but in fact they are accompanied by pain.
Maybe the person you love promises to always love you, but will such a promise really be fulfilled?
People's hearts are the easiest to change. No matter how much you love someone, you should not believe every word he says, and you cannot place all hope on him.
If you walk slowly, you will find that the relationship between you has always been just you who are struggling to maintain it, and he doesn't care about it at all.
Don’t deceive yourself anymore. You have to know that if you treat you like this, you should give up.
deceives you again and again
Some people may think, but it is just a cheat. There is no big fuss, and we should not make a big fuss about being separated.
If you don’t take deception seriously, you will be hurt by deception sooner or later.
In love, even if it is just a kind deception, it will bring irreparable harm, so everyone cannot underestimate it.
If a person just deceives you once, then you can forgive him and continue to manage your relationship.
But if a person deceives you again and again, you cannot continue to indulge, but must decisively withdraw and leave.
Do not indulge others to deceive you, but are responsible for yourself. Only in this way can you not be hurt by your feelings.
Even if you have fallen deep in love, as long as you find that the other person has been cheating on you, you should give up.
Beat and scold you again and again
The reason why people pursue love is to make themselves feel happy. Maybe a relationship will only bring you harm, so what reason do you have to keep sticking to it?
No matter how deep you love, as long as the other party beats and scolds you again and again, you should give up on him.
Even if he admits his mistake every time, even if he promises that he will not hurt you again, you cannot be soft-hearted.
You have to know that if he really loves you, he will not be willing to beat and scold you. The beating and scolding he gave you is precisely the proof that he doesn't love you.
It is the greatest torture for you to stay by your side who doesn’t love you. Only by getting out of it as soon as possible can you truly be liberated.
In love, beating and scolding is the most intolerable thing. Even your parents are reluctant to beat and scold you. How can you tolerate others hurting you like this?
If a person beats and scolds you again and again, then you should give up and turn around and leave as soon as possible is the wisest choice.
Betray you again and again
Betrayal and beating and scolding are only zero times and countless times, and they are not worth forgiven.
Don’t think that your forgiveness can bring about the other party’s change of mind. The more you forgive him, the more he will betray you.
When he first started betraying you, he still felt guilty and would find a way to make up for you. But once you forgive him, he will become unscrupulous.Such unscrupulous as
will sooner or later hurt you, and you cannot be foolish.
No matter whether you are in a love stage or have already become a family, you cannot tolerate a person betray you again and again.
You can forgive him once, but as long as you find out that he has had a second betrayal, you must give up.
It is painful to suffer betrayal. One pain is enough to defeat you. You cannot continue to ask for trouble.
If a person betrays you again and again, then you better let go of your hands. Learning to let go is the best protection for yourself.
Xiaojing's thoughts:
For feelings, you can have fantasies, but you can't always deceive yourself.
You must remember that the prerequisite for loving someone is to love yourself. You cannot indulge him to hurt you, nor can you continue to immerse yourself in a relationship full of hurt.
If he only hurts you once and changes are made in time, then you can continue to give him a chance.
But if he deceives you again and again, beats you, and betrays you, then you should give up.
You should know that sinking into a relationship full of hurt will directly ruin your life. You cannot be so irresponsible to your life.
No matter how much you love someone, please stay sane. You will eventually understand that it is not difficult to give up. If the pain is so painful that it is difficult to restrain, the heart will gradually die.
