I feel like I'm afraid of marriage.
met a girl who has been single for many years.
has also met someone who is pretty good and wants to try it out, but after taking the first step a little, he will soon stop myself and will not let this relationship last.
also longs for love, but more, she said that she is actually very afraid of marriage.
I think it’s not just this girl, but many young people actually have this feeling at the moment.
On the one hand, I want a sweet love and live a happy life with someone, but on the other hand, I can't really start with anyone. I will continue to do it well. If I really enter the marriage, I will instinctively shrink.
is not just women, but many men are the same. The attitudes towards marriage and many people are not so relaxed.
I am afraid that no one will treat myself sincerely.
Nowadays, young people have a good idea of what they look like.
knows that I have many shortcomings, knows that many people are better than me, knows that I am actually quite lazy, and knows that I don’t like trouble, and knows that my temper is not as good as I imagined.
For such a self, when someone says he likes him, he instinctively only thinks that the other person will do this, not really like him, probably just don’t understand his true self.
doesn't believe that someone will accept everything about him, and feels that once the other party understands what he actually looks like, he will not like him.
Many people have such concerns. In addition, in this era, many people are indeed quite insincere. They can say they like it just as soon as they meet, but they say they like it quickly and can change their goals. Therefore, young people are really not very confident about love.
will really worry a lot, fearing that after you show your sincerity, you will just be treated as a joke by the other party and become a fool.
Because I really have no confidence in myself and no one I meet, I would rather be alone than approach anyone easily, accept the other person's wishes, and show my sincerity.
will only live in its own small world. Although there is no love, it will at least be more at ease.
Worried about not being able to manage a good marriage.
Too many young people, their parents' marriages are just a mess, and the marriages of some friends around them are not very good.
has also witnessed too many marriages breaking down, and too many couples have turned from falling in love and becoming enemies.
As the people around you, it seems that there is no marriage for anyone. How happy it is, it is the way they want. Of course, they will not be blindly optimistic and feel that they are different from others.
As for marriage, whether it is to support yourself, be responsible for a family, or get along with someone, they think it is actually quite difficult. They really don’t feel that they can handle those things well.
So, compared to marrying someone and often quarrel over trivial matters, they often have to endure some problems between each other, they would rather not enter the besieged city easily.
These things in marriage make them feel tired. In addition, they are also afraid that if they meet bad people, the other party has a tendency to violence, they will often be cold and violent, have some very bad habits, and often like ambiguous things, which will make them even more uncomfortable.
They don’t think they have such good patience, and they are not so brave and dare to gamble easily.
A person who makes himself willing to tolerate everything and is willing to try it out once without hesitation, but he has never met that much.
doesn't want to give everything, but the ending is bleak.
Too many marriages are not very good, but they are just making do with it.
There are too many couples who can't even make do with each other, and in the end it just ends up.
When divorced, there is no way to leave safely. You may be plotted and entangled by the other party, because the other party owes a lot of debts and destroys his reputation by the other party.
No matter what I think, it is quite terrible. It seems that I just got married, but in the end I fell from heaven to hell. For many years, I have been trapped in it and have no way to get out.
Getting married is really risky, and many people will really lose both their money and money. Even if they separated later, the bad memories and pains that the other party brought to him would not disappear in an instant.
will really change your mood, rewrite your life trajectory, and make your future less bright.
After all, not everyone is so kind and knows how to get together and part. Many people are very gentle and considerate at the beginning, but later they will really change their appearance, how hateful it is, how hateful it is, how cold-blooded it is, how cold-blooded it is.
Human nature is too difficult to see through and too hard to stand the test, so young people shouldn’t tie their lives together with anyone.
This generation of young people long for love, but are afraid to love, and do not know how to love.
is not confident enough in yourself and does not trust the opposite sex.
is afraid of the end and the result is bad, so he simply rejects all the beginnings and is unwilling to love and get married at all.
When reality is like this, if you want to make some changes, you can only practice yourself first. At the same time, you should also work harder and find someone who you really think is not bad, obviously reliable, and worthy of being brave once.
does have many marriages, not so satisfactory.
But there are really some marriages that make each other more complete and make life more meaningful.
will have it, you must believe it. However, if you want to have it, you cannot always be reserved. You must first show your sincerity and know how to use your sincerity to exchange for the other party's sincerity. After being together, you can work hard with the other party and learn to manage it.
text/Tan Meng
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