Trust is an important air of friendship. As much as this type of air is reduced, friendship will disappear accordingly. ——Joseph Ru
This is true. Trust is not only the basis for the long-lasting friendship between friends, but also reflected in love. If two people in love suspect each other, this love will not last long. If one party is always full of doubts about the other party in marriage, this family may be in chaos and eventually end up in a mess.
What is worrying is that as people communicate more and more conveniently and have a wider range of communication, people's mutual trust in emotions is no longer as good as before, especially in the degree of mutual trust between husband and wife, because there is a fact that each of us has to admit: it is difficult for modern people to "learn bad".
Suspicion is undoubtedly toxic and even fatal. A couple in Wuxi, Jiangsu Province both fell to an irreversible level due to the crisis of trust: the couple fought fiercely in bed. Although neighbors who heard the sound and police officers who received the police knocked on the door and intervened many times, they did not stop the tragedy. What is even more unbelievable is that the creator of the tragedy was actually a captain-level figure in a local urban management department.
Dai Jun (all the characters in the article are pseudonyms), before the incident, he was the captain of the co-management team of a city management squadron in a certain place in Zhejiang, 30 years old; his wife Huang Mei was 25 years old, working in a packaging factory in Wuxi City, . The two have been married for many years. Dai Jun works all year round and Huangmei temporarily rents a community in Xinwu District, Wuxi.
September 1st Dai Jun returned to his wife's rented residence from Zhejiang Wuxi on vacation. The couple naturally got together and was extremely intimate. That night was better than the wedding wedding night. The next night, because Dai Jun and the tenant opposite were also old acquaintances, they gathered together to talk about their farewell. During the meal, Dai Jun drank 6 taels of bayberry wine, and after eating and drinking, he took his wife back to the room.
If you want to say that women like to flirt with alcohol, men will go crazy by drinking. Huang Mei lies on the bed when she returns to the house. Dai Jun sits beside the bed and suddenly remembers the unhappy things before: Huang Mei rarely contacts her during this period in Zhejiang, so she asks her wife what it is because of alcohol. Unexpectedly, Huang Mei’s words became the fuse of a tragedy, as the saying goes, disaster comes from her mouth.
I don’t know if Huang Mei said it was true or just wanted to take the opportunity to show her charm. She told her husband that a man in the unit expressed his admiration to her many times, took her out for dinner, and took the opportunity to hug her... But after hearing this, Dai Jun thought that he had put on the legendary invisible hat, so he was furious, picked up a slipper and climbed onto the bed and patted Huang Mei’s face.
In an instant, the small room became a battlefield for fierce battle between husband and wife. Dai Jun beat and scolded: I was tired outside like a dog. You steal someone for me at home, and you swell your face to see how you steal it in the future... Huang Mei sat on the bed and could only use her arms to slapped her, and she often patted her head, face and arms. The two people who had drunk alcohol together before obviously heard the difference in the sound of "slap" and quickly knocked on the door to persuade him, but Dai Jun still refused to give up and continued to slap Huang Mei with slippers in front of them.
The loud "slap" and yelling even reached the opposite building, and the kind-hearted person immediately called the police. Dai Jun continued to beat Huang Mei on the bed, and he did not forget to call Huang Mei's family to complain. Later, the landlord, police officer, and Huang Mei's family knocked in one after another. With everyone's consolation, Dai Jun finally put down his slippers and sent Huang Mei to the hospital with everyone.
After was hung in at Wuxi People's Hospital, the doctor on duty performed an X-ray and CT examination for Huangmei. No obvious abnormalities were found. He told him that he would not be seriously injured, and he would not need to prescribe medicine or stay in the hospital. He could go home to recuperate and observe. At around 1:41 a.m., Huang Mei returned to her rented residence accompanied by everyone. Seeing that Dai Jun was in a stable mood, everyone dispersed and went back to their respective homes.
However, a regrettable scene appeared half an hour later. From the surveillance video installed by Dai Jun himself in the living room, you can see that at 2:20 he walked towards the opposite door for help. Three minutes later, the two of them entered Huangmei's room. According to Dai Jun's confession, Huang Mei was still normal after entering the house. Later, she squatted on the ground and poured water to drink and then shouted "dizzy" when she stood up, then fell to the ground, making a loud noise.
When my friend entered the house, he saw that Huang Mei was not breathing, and immediately called 120 for help. Under the guidance of 120 customer service, Dai Jun began to perform artificial cardiopulmonary resuscitation for Huang Mei. Later, 120 emergency personnel arrived and confirmed that Huang Mei had lost her vital signs... After authoritative identification, the Huang Mei system died of brain injury caused by blunt external force and died at the age of 25. The police took Dai Jun away while copying all the information from the surveillance film.
This is a regrettable scene. A young life left this world like this. This is also a scene that the Huangmei family cannot accept. Yesterday, there were still talking and laughing, and the heavens and man were separated forever in a blink of an eye. This should be a scene that Dai Jun never expected and would not want to happen, but there is no room for recovery.
So how will Dai Jun’s criminal behavior be determined? Through the case, we can clearly see that Dai Jun did not have the intention to cause death, but whether Huang Mei's death was directly caused by beating or his head hitting the ground when he fainted, it is inevitably related to Dai Jun's intentional injury, so he may be considered as intentional injury or negligent death .
Subsequent Dai Jun was prosecuted by the local prosecutor for intentional injury. The trial party combined all witness testimony and evidence, and found that Dai Jun intentionally injured another person's body by violent means, causing one person to die constituted the crime of intentional injury. He sentenced Dai Jun to twelve years in prison in accordance with Article 234, Paragraph 2, Article 56, Paragraph 1, etc. of Criminal Law. Dai Jun filed an appeal dissatisfied and ruled to uphold the original judgment after a second trial.
It is sad that during the police investigation, Huang Mei was not found to have cheated on her, and there were only slightly ambiguous text information in online games. Therefore, the one that caused this tragedy was entirely Dai Jun's suspicion and self-conception. According to Huang Mei's family, Huang Mei has always been in good health, but Dai Jun has always been too suspicious and has beaten Huang Mei for more than three or two times. It was just because he could not bear to see Huang Mei having social communication. His actions of installing a camera in the living room of Huang Mei on the eve of his work in Zhejiang also show that he is very suspicious.
But this scene seems to be avoidable. If Huang Mei doesn't say that when facing the questioning, if everyone persuades Shijun to stop, if the doctor can let Huang Mei stay in the hospital for observation, if the two of them return home, Dai Jun can repent of her previous behavior and take care of Huang Mei carefully... Unfortunately, there is no if.
In fact, there are countless cases that can prove that suspicion is a taboo in the relationship between husband and wife, and it can even be said that suspicion is the source of all misfortunes, as the ancients said: Nothing is stronger than suspicion, this common problem in ancient and modern times! So, please let go of your suspicion. If you can’t let go, let go. If you continue, you will only harm others and yourself. Note: All pictures are from the Internet, please delete if infringed.
