1.
My name is Xu Qing, I am 28 years old this year, and I have been remarried for two years.
My first marriage was particularly unhappy. I was only 21 years old that year. I especially liked the kind of boy who was so angry that I talked about a little gangster who watched the construction site for others and got married without caring about it.
result. Unexpectedly, after getting married, my ex-husband often messed around outside and always beat me up when I was drunk. Usually, I didn’t pay a penny at home. Later when I got pregnant, he still raised his hand and punched him a few times. I rolled on the ground in pain... The child was gone like that.
I finally woke up and soon divorced my ex-husband.
In the next few years, I also met many blind dates, but I was not satisfied until I met Su Hao.
2.
Su Hao is two years younger than me and has divorced. Moreover, his ex-wife is even more "ruthless" than my ex-husband. Some netizens were blocked by Su Hao in bed. When her daughter gave birth to Su Hao, she went to paternity test for . After checking, it was not his at all.
is like this, Su Hao divorced.
and Su Haoting can negotiate, and our conditions are just right. His father passed away early, he still had a mother at home, and his sister got married. My mother passed away from illness two years ago, and my dad didn't look for a wife anymore.
What is not very pleasant is that after his mother met my dad, for some reason, she didn't agree with our marriage. But later, Su Hao got it all done.
learned from the first failed marriage experience. When I remarried Su Hao, I generously offered a 500,000 betrothal gift.
My dad said I wanted too much, and Su Hao's mother even spread her hands and said she had no money. In the end, the two companies finalized 300,000 yuan.
Although the 300,000 yuan bride price was entered into my account, shortly after the marriage, my mother-in-law cheated away all the money for my bride price.
3.
Not long after I got married, I heard that my elder sister-in-law Su Mei started to have a divorce. In less than two months, I got divorce certificate .
My mother-in-law told me that my elder sister-in-law moved out with her son and she had to buy a house no matter how hard she was. During the divorce, his ex-brother-in-law agreed to give him 500,000 yuan, but his business was a little tight for a while, so he couldn't take it out for the time being.
However, my elder sister-in-law Su Mei has a very suitable second-hand house and must buy it.
So my mother-in-law spoke to me and said she would take my 300,000 yuan gift first to save her. When my elder sister-in-law gets the divorce property, she will pay it back to me immediately.
I originally disagreed, but my mother-in-law and husband Su Hao rubbed me every day, and in the end I still compromised.
, but I didn't expect that I would never see this money again.
For more than a year, I repeatedly asked my mother-in-law for money. My mother-in-law always said that my sister-in-law had not received the divorce property and had no money to give it to me.
4.
Later one day, I became anxious and planned to rush to my mother-in-law's house to ask her for it. But as soon as I reached the door, I heard the conversation between my mother-in-law and my elder sister-in-law, which made me tremble all over.
Mother-in-law said to her elder sister-in-law: "Meizi, you can save the money you get from marriage. Listen to mom, don't pay Xu Qing back. The money is originally from our family. She is a second-hand man who has been married, and she is so embarrassed to ask for so many betrothal gifts! I didn't agree to her marrying her, and her father is not a good thing either..."
After hearing what my mother-in-law said, I knocked on the door wildly. After my mother-in-law opened the door, I pointed at her nose and cursed, "You old woman! If you don't pay my betrothal money, I will sue you!"
That day, I went back to my dad's house angrily and told him that I might be divorced. I had a bad mother-in-law who cheated me of my betrothal money to buy a house for her daughter. If I don't pay it back, I will sue her!
Unexpectedly, my dad was anxious and even scolded me for being a "beast"!
5.
I felt aggrieved - I was bullied, but my dad turned his elbow out, so angry that I turned around and was about to leave. My dad pulled me back and told me about his previous grudges, love and hatred between him and my mother-in-law...
It turned out that there was a reason why my mother-in-law disagreed with me marrying Su Hao.
My mother-in-law was my father's first love, but because my mother's conditions were good, my father abandoned my mother-in-law and married me.
But after my dad and my mother-in-law broke up, my mother-in-law suddenly realized that she was pregnant. She wanted to keep the child in her belly, so she got pregnant and married a man who was ten years older than her and had a dead wife, Su Hao's father.
And the child my mother-in-law was pregnant with my father back then was my elder sister-in-law Su Mei.
So, Su Mei is actually my half-sister, and my mother-in-law is full of resentment towards my dad and me.
. This is probably the reason why she gave my bride price to Su Mei.
Mother-in-law probably felt that my father had not made any contribution to her eldest daughter Su Mei for so many years, so she wanted to ask for it from me, and she felt balanced.
After hearing my dad's words, I gave up the idea of suing my mother-in-law. I understand her, but my bride price must not be lost in vain. My dad owe my mother-in-law, but I don’t owe it. Do you think this is the reason?
@Xu Qing, your experience is indeed very wronged, but you have no responsibility for this matter. It was because your father owed your mother-in-law back then. I think he should come forward to solve it. As the saying goes, the person who tied the bell must be untied, and the prosecution can be put aside first.
