A Zen master said that fate begins and falls, fate gathers and disperses, everything is the will of heaven.
The so-called "fate" has both good fate and bad fate. When you meet good fate, you will be happy and good luck will come. And encounters bad luck, disasters are approaching, and bad luck is everywhere.
Employees working in the workplace only hope to meet a boss who is easy to talk to. Who knows that if they meet someone who uses any means and likes to take care of others, then they will be in trouble.
An ordinary person who is in a social scene only hopes to make a sincere and heart-to-heart talk friend, but unexpectedly meets a cunning villain. In the design of villains, many people are useless.
Even if a relative in a family is not happy with each other, he will even plot against each other, and he will be shameful to others. That method is even more ruthless than outsiders.
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encounters a bad fate, which is inevitable. The problem is that before we suffer losses, we don’t know who is the good person or the villain, so we are in a confused state and help count the money when we are sold.
For ordinary people, 45 years old is the turning point in their life. Unfortunately, when you meet these types of people, you should stay away as soon as possible, because they are all "desperate people".
1. The sudden appearance of "ex-in-law" is the devil.
When we were young, we broke up with our ex. Both sides went their own way and never had any contact with each other. Generally speaking, we won't meet with our ex again.
One day in middle age, my ex suddenly called us, complained to us, and asked us for help. Some people even mentioned "borrowing money". We are most likely particularly soft-hearted about our ex who are extremely embarrassed.
In our opinion, since we have fallen in love in the past, there is no need to be too ruthless now, and there is no problem in helping them. With this idea, we will get closer and closer to it and be misunderstood by our families.
Our partners will suspect that we are "unfaithful" and feel that our relationship with our ex is "resurrect". No matter how we explain it, the partner just doesn’t believe what we say.
If the relationship between husband and wife is affected, the family is likely to "disband". And some "malintentional" exes have also achieved their goals.
The appearance of the ex is either to collect debts or to take revenge . Don't contact it.
2. Children who always sing opposite to us are here to collect debts.
There is a saying among the people: "Some parents and children are enemies."
Parents and children should be relatives with "close blood relationships", but in theory they are "good fates", but why do they still have "bad fates"?
The appearance of children has different meanings for every family. Some children are here to revitalize their families and change their destiny. And some children are here to ruin their family’s money and ruin their families.
The former is a good child who "repays kindness". The latter is an unfilial son who "collects debt".
Some parents started from scratch and worked hard to make a lot of money to create a good environment for their children. I just hope they can live a happier and worry-free life. Unexpectedly, they actually cultivated a "prodigal son".
These prodigal sons have a characteristic, that is, they specifically sing opposites to their parents. When their parents say that they do this, they say that they do this, and the older they get, the more rebellious they get. They can only be said to be their parents' "enemy". Parents will only work hard for a lifetime and gain nothing.
3. People who have no gratitude are the ones who are destined to be evil.
When I was a child, the elderly at home always told us that is working outside, and it is best to date people who know how to be grateful, they are the nobles in your life.
didn’t understand at that time, so why did you interact with people who “know how to be grateful”? It turns out that there are too many unfaithful people in this world, and the grateful people are like treasures, very few.
Before middle age, we would be more indulgent to these ungrateful wolves who were not grateful and felt that meeting was a fate, and there was no need to be too stiff.
After middle age, we feel a little disliked by these ungrateful wolves. The more we get along with , the more we feel depressed in our hearts and don’t want to interact with them. The emergence of this change in
shows that we are becoming more and more mature as we live and mature as we are in the hardships of time. Only those who have matured to a certain level can see through the reality of human nature and not be lost by emotions.
For the rest of your life, don’t have any interaction with the ungrateful wolf anymore. Both sides wave goodbye and just be at peace.
4. The person who always makes things difficult for you is the one who is destined to be a bad person.
There is a kind of person who is very strange. He has a very good relationship with others, but he just likes to "make things difficult" us and has a bad attitude towards us, as if he has a grudge against us. People like
are what we often call "touching each other and getting tired of each other". We have different magnetic fields from them and their values are different, so we will naturally create unnecessary conflicts.
There is something that makes us wonder. They have different values from others. Why don’t they conflict with others, but only conflict with us?
Because we have a "bad fate" with them. The cause and effect in this evil fate must be borne by us and them. If that is the case, how can we live in harmony?
In real life, anyone who has no grudges with us and has no reason to resent us is the "descendant" in his destiny. If cannot avoid it, he can only face it calmly.
The emergence of all fate, whether good or bad, is an inevitable experience in life. Just be calm.
text/Shushan Youlu
