What happened? It actually made a 69-year-old man cry to his 101-year-old father. Why is this happening? And let his father let him go, what did this father do to make his son beg him to let him go. If it were you, would you do that?
Let’s take a look at this matter together. At the same time, I hope that through this case, all young people can be conscious of it. It’s really not easy for parents. If you help your parents, you will help you in the future. Do you understand? The 69-year-old man cried to his 101-year-old father: Father, please let me go, I can't survive.
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69-year-old Mr. Li:
If someone hadn't come to me, I might have left this world. It's too difficult for me. Maybe you think I'm only 69 years old, so I need to leave this world in such a hurry? This world is so good, isn’t it good to live well? So many people want to live well, but I want to leave.
I can only say that you don’t understand. If you encounter these things, maybe you will be like me now. Not to mention 69, in fact, I wanted to leave when I was 60 years old. You don’t know how I got through these years. Just now my friend came to me, but my friend pushed open the door and saw me drinking. I planned to drink in the world. I really had no choice. I took sleeping pills while drinking.
My friend told me: What happened to you? Why do you feel like you are crying? Why do you feel so sad? Tell me if there is something. My friend secretly sent a message to my child while talking to me and asked my child to come back quickly. I didn't say anything. My friend saw that I didn't say anything, and then said to me: If you have anything, tell me, I will help you. What are you eating? Why is drinking and taking medicine so much like in a TV series? But you can't think of it too much, right? You used to be a very optimistic person, let alone you have a pension of more than 2,000 yuan, close to 3,000 yuan.
You have so much money and the conditions are so good, why can’t you think it out? Could it be that I can’t think too much? I should be thinking too much, right? You won't think that way, are you? This time I could no longer hold back, I cried, and I cried and said to my friend: I feel so uncomfortable. If I can, I don’t want to do this. I have no choice, so I can’t think it through.
I finally know why those TV series are filmed like this. It turns out that the old man really thinks that way, including me. I talked and cried. Then my friend kept comforting me, and even sat beside me to comfort me and patted my shoulder with his hand, and told me: There is nothing in the world that cannot be passed on. Don’t think so much, can’t you live a good life?
You and I are both old and it is already a very lucky thing to be able to live in this world. Some people are in their twenties and thirties or are gone as soon as they are born. It is already very good that we can still live in the future, so don’t think so much, okay? Also, if you leave, what will your father upstairs do? Your child is back soon. If there is anything, I will help you when they come back. Don't worry, I will definitely not let you do anything with me.
The more you are, the more uncomfortable you feel. I don’t want to do this, but what can I do? I also want my father to let me go quickly, but my father really refuses to let me go. Now my father is living well, but I don’t want to live anymore. I’m so uncomfortable. My father had a stroke and was paralyzed 10 years ago. I would like to say more here that when I get older, I really can't eat so many greasy things. My father just likes to eat those things and also drinks while eating those things.
At that time, I told my father: Don’t eat so much, okay? Eating so much is not good for our health, and we have many such cases around us.We have a relative who is a little younger than you. What happened at that time? Didn’t something happen? So in order to avoid the tragedy of , it is better not to eat so much. You can eat it if you want, but you must pay attention to eating a little bit of it a day.
My father told me: I know the case you told me, I know that person, I am also my relative, but can I compare with him, I have been in good health since I was a child, and I am now old. If I don’t eat now, when will I eat? If I don’t eat now, will I still have the chance to eat again in the future? So I can only hurry up and eat more. In the past, the conditions were not good and I couldn’t eat even if I wanted to. Now that I have better conditions, can’t I eat more?
I was speechless. I told my father: Don’t think so, okay? The days ahead will be long, and it’s impossible to eat a big fat man in one bite. If you want to eat, can you eat a little bit of a day? I don’t want you to be too tiring like that person. If you hurt yourself, you will also hurt your children. Why bother? What should I do if something happens because of this matter, and what should I do if my two younger brothers? Don’t harm us because of this incident. I’m telling the truth. It’s not a curse that something happened to you, do you understand?
My father was very angry when he heard me say this, and then said to me: You don’t have to worry about my affairs, I will do whatever I do. At worst, I can leave. Anyway, I have no worries about living in this world. You have your own world when you grow up, and you can’t control my affairs anymore, so don’t worry about my affairs, okay?
I just want to eat and drink well, and then all you have to do is live your own life. Please don’t care about my affairs. Only in this way can I live a long life, and only in this way can you be happy, right? Because of this kind of thing, I always make noise with my father. I don’t want to say anything more to my husband when I am old. Is my husband still ignorant when he is 100 years old? So I don't want to care about that much either.
And I have already said what I should say, what else can I say? He doesn’t want to listen. Is it useful? Don’t say that my father is like this. I think many elderly people have this kind of habit, and they all feel that they have no mistakes in doing this, and then they keep doing what they want to do.
As a result, my father had an accident because of this. At that time, in order to save my father, I spent a lot of money. I mortgaged all the houses in my family and spent more than 600,000 yuan. Maybe more than 600,000 yuan is nothing for you, but for me, more than 600,000 yuan is everything. Even if it is on average, it costs more than 200,000 yuan per person.
There are more than 100,000 out of the more than 200,000 yuan that I have deposited, and then I borrowed some money, including my father's house being mortgaged. After something happened, my father came to live here. Then, my two brothers and younger brothers gave them money, each of whom was 1,000 yuan a month, and then I worked hard to take care of my father. At that time, I thought this matter had expired and ended, but I didn’t expect it to be my naive idea. This matter did not expire, but just now after my father came to me, I found that it was the beginning of my nightmare life. I am so old that I am okay with taking care of myself, but it is too difficult to take care of a father who has suffered a stroke.
My wife was still there at that time. My wife always quarreled with me because of such a thing. My wife told me: We have given everything for your father. You secretly spent all your savings without hiding it from me. Forget it, you have to bring your father here. Do you don’t want me to live anymore, and do you don’t want to live with me anymore?
I told my wife: I don’t want to do this either. I can’t do anything about it. He is not only my father, but also your father, and my father is also very nice to you. Now my father is like this and can’t last for a few months. Just take good care of him.I said that, but my wife left, and my father didn't leave either. My wife left early because of taking care of my father. My wife used to be in good health, but she won't be in good health after taking care of my father.
My wife left and took the burden of taking care of her father on my shoulders. In the past, my wife shared the burden with me, but now I am alone, taking on everything. I really can't stand it. Many people say why don't you hire a nanny? Where can I get money to hire a nanny? My monthly pension is only more than 2,000 yuan, less than 3,000 yuan. Don't I need to live? If you live, you need money, so where can you still have so much money to hire a nanny?
My children don’t have money either, and I’m a brother, they don’t want to give money, they give 1,000 yuan a month. Is this 1,000 yuan enough to hire a nanny? Later, I couldn't stand it anymore, so I asked my brother to come back to take care of me. I never thought that my father would send me a black hair person twice, and my brother and I walked in front of me.
First of all, my brother left first, and my brother left after he left. They all left. Who else will take care of my father? Many people say that there are still those grandchildren? Why not let them come back? Do you think you want them to come back? They refused to come back at all. Give some money when they go, after all, they have their own world and their own lives, how could they come because of an old man?
At the beginning, I hated them very much, but later I realized that this was something that life could not do. If they came back, how could they say that I was young now and I was under too much pressure. There was a lot of pressure to wait for them when they came back to work? If you don’t have a job, where can you be rich? If you don’t have money, how can you live? Thinking of this, I gradually understand them. I understand them, but who understands me? All the pain is on my head.
I used to have brothers, and my wife was there. Fortunately, they could help me share the burden. Now they all left me alone, so I really can't stand it. I cry every day, and I want it to be great if my father left. I don't have to suffer so much if my father left. My father is already 100 years old, he is already a centenarian, and he has lived a hundred years old. Why haven't he left yet? I have been lying on the bed for 10 years, why haven’t I left yet?
The more you are like this, the more helpless it is. Sometimes I even complain about this with my father. Whenever you leave, you can let me go. If you don’t leave, I can’t survive. When my father heard me say this, my father would only cry. If there was a choice, I felt that my father wanted to leave, but he just had no choice. The more I feel like this, the more uncomfortable it is. Then I owe more and more money, I need to take care of my father, spend money, and I have to go to the hospital for examination every month and buy medicine.
These all cost money. Now that I have no money, I can’t even live my own life, and I don’t care about my father. The more I feel like this, the more uncomfortable it is. The more I want to leave this world, the more I want to leave, I really want to live, I want to leave and don’t want to worry about these bad things anymore. That's why I chose to leave and face this matter, can I leave? It's so difficult for me, if you do, you will be like this.
Conclusion:
is really helpless in the face of this matter. If we were to do this, it might be like this. After all, you have borne all the things by yourself. It is really not easy for you to survive for 10 years. It is too difficult for you to survive for 10 years for your father. Let me just say that, you can’t blame you for not having a filial son in front of the bed for a long time. Your father has been talking to you for 10 years.
There are many people who can't hold on for 10 years. You have been holding on for 10 years. It's already amazing. I hope that through this case, all young people can understand their parents more. The parents who take care of your grandfather at home will likely experience it in the future. So your parents help you to help you in the future, and it's not easy for your parents to raise you. Now your parents need your help. Shouldn't you help?
You are likely to experience everything your parents are going through in the future, so it is not easy for you to raise your parents in the future, and it is not easy for your parents to raise you. Now your parents need your help, shouldn’t you help?
