"If I can't see you again, then I wish you good morning, lunch, and good night." - "The World of Truman"
What are the regrets in love?
One is: the person you love doesn’t love you. No matter how hard you try, it seems that something is wrong.
One is: In the end, the person who married you is not what you love.
There is another type: you love each other and end up separated; you can’t be a husband and wife, and you can’t become lovers.
Love but not get it, get it but not love it. How many people are deeply trapped in this emotional dilemma?
People who love each other cannot continue, how should we deal with the next relationship?
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"Forget each other in the world"
Fromm in "The Art of Love":
"I need you because I love you; I love you, so I need you."
These are two completely different loves.
The former loves you because you need you; the latter loves you because you love you.
Although they are all love, the degree of love for each other is different.
Forget each other, it is the "sigh" that two people who love each other have to make a lot of efforts after trying.
is like a hard work, struggle, and finally failing again; at that moment, the energy in his heart was vented, so he sighed.
is helpless, giving up, and even more "forget it".
What can I do if I love each other again?
Even if you really want to be with each other, what can you do?
The other party will move towards another life, and you will also usher in a new life.
What is the advanced love?
is I love you, but I don’t necessarily have you.
We love each other, maybe at this moment we are doing different things in different time and space, different environments, and different people.
But the two hearts are similar.
all hope that the other party will live a good life and hope that the other party will be safe and happy. The relationship like
is the real "forget each other in the world".
If we can’t be together and don’t have the chance to meet again, then I wish you good morning, afternoon, and good night.
This is love of blessing, love without selfishness.
Since you can't continue, you are destined to be "destined but not separated".
If you barely have your destiny, become lovers, and break through morality and responsibility, then all the beauty and feelings between you will eventually deteriorate.
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Love but cannot get it, so he "quit" each other's lives
Writer Zhang Xiaoxian said:
"There are some people who will never be together in this life, but there is a feeling that can be hidden in their hearts and keep them for the rest of their lives."
This is an enlightenment. The best respect for a qualified ex is to disappear from the other person's life.
voluntarily withdraws from each other's lives and does not cause too much trouble to each other. This is what we should do.
If you have to force yourself, after you separate, start a new family.
But you still can't let go of each other, and you still want to keep the feeling in your memory.
So, you choose to go to your lover and start your private relationship behind your back. Choices like
are the greatest harm to each other.
In the end, it will not only hurt their respective families, but also destroy the last hazy beauty in each other's hearts.
Stay away from the other person's life and keep enough distance from the other person. This is the best respect.
For example:
You are separated from your ex. After you are separated, you are single all the time, but the other party starts a new relationship and then gets married and has children.
At this time, do you still want to disturb the other person's life?
If you want to disturb it, it means you have never really loved the other person.
The person you really love will not hurt the other person.
Some feelings are only suitable for keeping them silently in your heart.
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In the movie " Bridge Dream of the Bridge ", it tells a story of contradiction and conflict.
About love, betrayal, extramarital affair, trade-offs, morality, choice.
Although Francesca and Robert had only had a short, few days of contact; but facing this man, Francesca completely fell into decline.
She couldn't control herself and fell in love with the other person in her own way.
When Francesca was faced with an invitation from the man to take her away with her, she was shaken for the first time.
She chose family in her sense of morality, family, marriage and love.
She said that her daughter cannot be unable to raise her head in the future.
She said: "I missed Robert, it was wrong to stay, but I couldn't leave; such exact love is only once in a lifetime."
Many times, love and morality coexist.
This is even more true in marriage.
If you pursue love outside of marriage, it means that you have to face the test of morality, loyalty and responsibility.
One step forward is a deep abyss; take a step back and return to the stable open space. The final choices of
will all belong to peace and rationality.
Love and freedom are similar to some extent.
What is the real freedom?
does not do whatever you want, but does not do whatever you don’t want to do.
What is true love?
is not that you do anything if you love the other person; it is that you love the other person and are willing to give up certain things. Since
cannot be together, why bother?
Today's topic:
Hot love each other but cannot be together. What would you choose?
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