Author/The Rain Fragrance of Lotus (Henan Yu Xiaohe)
In winter, when you walk through the river of the New Year, when you come to the world, there is always a ray of cold wind that hurts life, and there is always a ray of sunshine that warms the heart.
Winter is the withered fallen leaves, with a little bleakness; winter is the falling snowflakes, with a little coldness; winter is the blooming plum blossoms, with a little scent.
Time flows, the four seasons change, from spring to snow falling, every season is a cultivation ground for life, let us understand life and be grateful for life.
French, rice, oil and salt are life, the stars and sea are the poems and distances in my heart, I hope to survive the mountains and rivers, and welcome the darkness of willows and flowers!
——Inscription on the Rain Little Lotus
01. Only when people live, they can be contented and happy. Peace and smoothness are happiness
00 The petals blown by the cold wind are letters sent in winter, allowing the seasons to outline the stories of the passing years and splash ink into poetry.
The plum blossoms blooming in the snow are the poem written in winter. Let the cold wind rag, the fragrance still floats.
In life, the withered prosperity precipitates into the scenery in the heart; in life, the bitterness swallowed nourishes the soil of the soul.
Life is short and life is not easy. No one’s life can be smooth sailing; no one’s life can be without any turmoil.
Don’t compete with others, walk your own life well; don’t compete with others for your own strengths and weaknesses, and live your own life well.
Mo Yan said: "Don't envy anyone's life. In fact, there is a dust in the bottom of the pot. It's not that others are in a glorious place, but that they are not showing them to others. There is no happiness or unhappiness in life, only contentment or not. Food and clothing are good luck, and no illness or disaster is blessing."
Perhaps, everyone has their own worries; perhaps, everyone has their own necessity. However, some people chose to tell, and some people chose to remain silent.
People live, only by being content can you be happy, and peace and smoothness are happiness.
02. Learn to relieve the dissatisfaction in life, learn to seek happiness in suffering and
Compared with glory and wealth, peace and smoothness are your own blessing; compared with glitz and three thousand, peace and stability are your own pattern.
Anyone's life will have wind, frost, rain and snow, and anyone's life will have a mess. Don't envy other people's lives, that is also made by others with all their efforts; don't laugh at other people's lives, that is also made by others gritting their teeth.
Learn more about other people's strengths, slander others' lives less, be a warm and pure person, be grateful and love life.
In life, if you encounter swaying wind and rain, you will go through wind and rain; in life, if you encounter joys and sorrows, you will bear it silently.
Learn to relieve the unsatisfactory life, learn to seek happiness in hardships, and live an ordinary life with a normal heart.
Maupassant said: "If a person can firmly be up to what he thinks in his heart, not compare, blindly follow, not be influenced by others, and be focused on living his own life well, he will be much happier."
Many times, you must be content with the situation and not compare with others, otherwise you will either compare worries or worry; many times, you must keep your heart warm and not follow the trend, otherwise you will lose yourself and lose your direction.
We must walk our own path well and not be afraid of other people's gazes; we must live our own life well and be content and always be happy.
03. We must walk our own path well and not be afraid of other people’s eyes
When we learn to settle down and let go from the joys and sorrows of life, we will become strong. No longer afraid of the ups and downs of life, no longer complain about the miserable fate.
Because we understand that fear and complaining are useless. It will only increase anxiety and affect the ability to think and judge.
When we learn to bear and persevere from the ups and downs of life, we will become wise. I will no longer be angry hysterically, and I will no longer tell my heartache everywhere.
Because, we understand that getting angry and telling cannot calm down at all. It will only increase worries and disrupt inner peace.
Our lives must be decided by ourselves and take control in our own hands; our lives must be experienced by ourselves and the seasonings must be evenly adjusted.
Yang Jiang Mr. Yang Jiang wrote in "We Three": "Life is half the fire, rice, oil and salt, half the stars and sea. If you put a little salt, it is salty. If you put a little sugar, it is sweet. If you put a little poetry, it is the distance in the eyes of others. Whatever you want to make it depends on yourself."
Life is nothing more than joys and sorrows, and no one can escape; life is nothing more than fire, rice, oil and salt, and everyone has to taste it.
When life is boring, add some salt to life and adjust your life; when life is hard, add some sugar to life and adjust your life.
04. May you survive the mountains and rivers, and welcome the darkness of willows and flowers
In fact, life is a cultivation ground, we must constantly practice ourselves and continue to grow; life is the stage, we must constantly adjust our mindset and adapt to the environment.
Some people and things, let go when they pass, turn around and leave, and continue moving forward; some love and love, let go when they fade, do not entangle or entangle, and find yourself.
people are experiences one after another, with struggle, joy; hesitation, indifferent. You have to mediate your own mood; you have to adjust your mindset.
In the end, all unpleasant things will become the past; in the end, all beautiful things will become the past. It’s time to let go of your obsession, let it go!
Mr. Yang Jiang wrote: What is past and what cannot be overcome will eventually pass. In the end, the years will underestimate the past that you can’t understand, see through, understand clearly, forget, or let go. If you can survive the mountains and rivers, the years will give you the bright future!"
Sometimes, let go of things that cannot be understood and things that cannot be seen thoroughly; sometimes, let go of things that cannot be understood and can't be forgotten, let go of things that cannot be understood, let go of things that cannot be understood, let go of things that cannot be forgotten.
Wait for a while, wait for the heart to be calm, and look back, you will have different opinions and understandings. May you survive the mountains and rivers and welcome the bright future!
text: The rain is fragrant with lotus. Another pseudonym: Yu Xiaohe
Picture source: the Internet, thank you!
