Author丨Chiyu
Fellowship Most people have a common problem: When faced by themselves, they are prone to falling in love.
No matter how much you have theories or advise others, how reasonable and rational they say, you can say that there are many people who still act emotionally when you really want to do it.
So, sometimes as an outsider, you don’t have to laugh at others for being ridiculous. If you really encounter the same thing yourself, you may not be able to do it well.
people, often times they are unavoidable in double standards.
Last night, I met a netizen again and asked my boyfriend that I never took the initiative to look for her. Do you don’t like her?
She has questions because her sixth sense has given her the answer.
And she still came to ask others, mainly because her boyfriend refused to admit it. No matter how she asked, her boyfriend said that she was thinking too much. If she didn't love her, why should she be with her?
, but because the other party refused to admit it, she always felt lucky, so she wanted to find some answers from others.
To put it directly, the key point of the matter is that she loves the other person very much and is unwilling to accept results that do not meet her expectations, so she continues to search.
Therefore, if I tell her that her boyfriend probably doesn’t love her so much, she will definitely continue to give some examples to refute me, saying that some of the boyfriend’s behaviors to her and think that he still loves himself. I have encountered such a situation as
more than once.
Most people are not really trapped in feelings, but just fallen into personal obsession.
So, let’s talk about this topic again: Will a man really loves you, will he resist contacting you? Regarding this question, I have asked three boys, and they roughly told me the following psychology.
There is a common conclusion: If you really like a girl, it is impossible for you to never contact her actively.
Of course, the contact here must also be specific analysis of specific issues . Some girls need the other party to reply messages at any time. This kind of time will basically not happen after entering society when studying.
But if a boy always doesn’t contact the other party for two or three days or even three or five days, or is always cold and violent, it will definitely mean that the boy is not in this girl’s mind.
At this time, someone must continue to ask, since he doesn’t like it so much, why should he be with me and be unwilling to say it?
Say something heartbreaking. Many of the likes in this world are pretending to be, and there is not so much love that is necessary. Some people choose to be with someone, just because they tend to be suitable, or the other party likes them. Anyway, there is no suitable person now, so let’s try it together. It is a very simple state of not liking or disgusting. They are especially natural and very Buddhist in their relationship. They are unwilling to take the initiative to give, and they can be separated and together. Anyway, they all look at the other party.
didn't really like it, so naturally I don't have that kind of mood to the other person from the bottom of my heart. It doesn't matter whether I contact you or not.
But for the party you care about, you must long for sweet love. At this time, the difference between the two people's mentality here will inevitably be very big.
So, this question is very direct: If a person likes you, he will definitely contact you. If he doesn’t contact you, he will definitely not like you that much.
does not exist saying that a person clearly likes you, but he endures not to contact you. Although there is no obstacle, he artificially creates such an obstacle.
And those who don’t like it but don’t want to say it, their ideas are actually relatively simple.
First, they mostly think that there is no need to say too much or do things too much, and want to use actions to show their position so that the other party can retreat when they see the difficulties.
In the world of adults, those who always want to find answers and ask everything upright will only hurt themselves in the end, and most of them will not get the answer they want.
I have met more than one girl. They always hope that the other party will be together well if they like them. If they don’t like to say it, they can even say harsh words and don’t give me any hope.
But every girl who thinks like this basically makes herself bruised and bruised in the process of pursuing questions and answers, and boys never do what they wish, and they say either ambiguously or vaguely.
It takes a lot of courage to be able to directly admit that you don’t love. to a certain extent is denying itself.
And many people don’t have this courage.
includes those who once thought they had, but later faced the same choices and possible actions, which were also contrary to their previous imagination.
This is how human nature is.
When we make a choice, we will subconsciously make some choices that are beneficial to us and rationalize our original less reasonable behavior.
Second, some people obviously don’t like it at the moment, but still don’t say the reason, it’s just because they haven’t met a more suitable person at the moment, and they will definitely not give up everything they have in front of them.
So, in an intimate relationship, the answers you want are often already in your sixth sense.
Many times, no matter how much you listen to the other party explain, it will be useless at all, and people will definitely not tell the truth.
And the other thing is, if you need to find a reason, for example, you always want to prove that someone loves you, the essence already shows that this person does not love you.
If you really love you, you will definitely feel it and there will be no entanglement.
The thing about love cannot be hidden, but sometimes you can pretend if you don’t love. If you are willing to deceive yourself and cooperate tacitly with each other, you will definitely be able to continue acting.
, but the fantasy will eventually be pierced.
Therefore, I admire those who stop losses in time, very decisive, straightforward, and always take the initiative.
As for what kind of person you want to be, the choice is definitely up to you. But I still hope that you can love yourself as much as possible in an intimate relationship, not be too romantic, and be honest and can't keep someone sincere. Only with routines and strength can you achieve the effect of a king.
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