First sentence, all emotions break down because of the breakdown of interests
When you can bring benefits to the other party, the other party's humanity is friendly. When you cannot bring benefits to the other party, the other party's humanity is selfish. When you affect the other party's interests, the other party's humanity is ugly
Whether it is family affection, friendship or love, it is like this. The so-called emotional breakdown is actually because the benefits are not given enough
You can imagine the business tycoons who are busy flying all day long. How many of them have time to spend at home and talk about relationships with their wives all day long?
Then why haven’t I seen a few people who stand up and say that their relationship is broken?
Remember, people can have no time, but as long as they have money, you must not. If you don’t have money, you don’t have money, so what’s the use of asking for you?
What is more clear is that many times, people have no money, especially when you have no money
second sentence, ordinary people study how to make money every day, but they still have no money
You must remember that all those who study making money are just from your own perspective
you study how to calculate employees and customers every day. The more you calculate, the more you calculate, the more you are calculated by employees and customers
Real masters study human nature every day, study how to divide money, how to spend money on key talents, and how to help customers save money. As a result, talents and customers are all around, so that they can make big money
Remember, if you want to make big money, you must cultivate a ability, that is, to understand human nature
How to make others take advantage of themselves, referred to as Great wisdom and foolish
How to make others feel that they have taken advantage of themselves, which is more important than giving directly to others. Important
Third sentence, all behaviors of human nature are for survival
Remember, others leave you or are with you, this has little to do with character and morality
No one really wants to lie to you, no one really wants to cheat you, and no one really wants to treat you well, and no one really wants to be kind to you
All behaviors are because of interests, don't think too much, the other party just wants to meet his own human needs, which is normal, and there is nothing incomprehensible
If you can't understand, it means that you haven't understood yet human nature is not mature, and you still need to learn and grow
A person tells you that I love you, it means not to love you, but I need you
Strictly speaking, no one loves you, they just need you
All blood relationships are also survival needs, because the genes need to continue
This is like why children are obedient when they were young, but disobedient when they grew up. It's very simple. When a child is young, he needs you more. When he grows up, he doesn't need you that much.
Because for a child, the value of your need is reduced, he doesn't need to listen to you.
Only when you are needed by others, you are valuable.
Remember, how many people you need you will love you
