In addition to emotional communication, couples also have physical communication. The relationship between couples is actually a reflection of husband and wife’s relationship. A good marriage will inevitably be a harmonious husband-wife relationship, but husband-wife relationships should also be restrained and rational.
Both partners can only have a relationship naturally if they obtain the other party’s consent. If one party is unwilling, the other party should stop immediately.
After carefully communicating with your partner and ensuring that you are willing to do so, this kind of joy can promote feelings.
Otherwise, it will be as funny as the next case. It is because the husband has sex too frequently and does not allow his wife to rest well at all, so his wife insists on divorceing her husband because she is in a miserable way. The wife even said: "Unless he can become a eunuch, I will live with him for the rest of my life." The male protagonist in the case of
who is unwilling to rest is Zhu Qiangjian, and Zhu Qiangjian's wife is Li Xueqing. Zhu Qiangjian and Li Xueqing were actually reorganized in a second marriage. Li Xueqing had an unhappy marriage before. Her ex-husband beat or scolded her. The two broke up because of this and finally agreed to divorce.
Zhu Qiangjian is the man Li Xueqing met after her divorce. When she first met, Li Xueqing had a good impression of Zhu Qiangjian. She was honest and gentle, tall, and looked safe.
As they get along, the two soon got together and entered a marriage state. Zhu Qiangjian is indeed honest. He loves his wife Li Xueqing very much. Because of his love, he wants to have sex with his wife.
But Li Xueqing never expected that Zhu Qiangjian's physiological needs were really terrible. They had to have sex almost every day. Li Xueqing is a normal woman. Sometimes she wants to rest when she is tired, and her husband Zhu Qiangjian still insisted on having a husband-wife relationship, regardless of her wife's wishes.
This made Li Xueqing feel that she was not respected at all.
What made Li Xueqing the most angry was that once she had just returned from a hospital for examination and was already uncomfortable and wanted to lie down and rest for a while.
But after her husband Zhu Qiangjian came back, he came up without saying a word and wanted to have sex with his wife Li Xueqing. During this period, Li Xueqing also made it clear that she refused to have sex with her husband, but Zhu Qiangjian was unmoved and insisted on having sex with Li Xueqing.
So afterwards, Li Xueqing was very angry. She thought her husband Zhu Qiangjian didn't know how to be considerate and respect herself at all. The excessive frequent couple's life made her miserable, and her husband's rest made her desperate, and she also became skeptical about this marriage.
The two have divorced
To be honest, his wife Li Xueqing is indeed not a woman with great desires, she can't bear such frequent couple life. If an ordinary woman encounters such a husband, she may be happy and feel that her husband is stuck with her and should not have the chance to cheat.
But in Li Xueqing's opinion, her husband's need is a burden that she can't bear for her. She almost can't sleep well every day, and she can't continue her normal life the next day without enough sleep.
Regarding his wife Li Xueqing's accusation, her husband Zhu Qiangjian said that he did not forcibly have sex without regard to his wife's wishes. Zhu Qiangjian told everyone that in fact, his wife and her husband's life is just twice a week on average, and they don't have sex every day as the wife said.
wife Li Xueqing said that her husband was too tormenting: "I want to divorce him. Unless he becomes a eunuch, I can live with him for the rest of my life!"
wife Li Xueqing insisted on divorce with a firm attitude, but her husband Zhu Qiangjian said that she loved his wife deeply and was unwilling to end the marriage. Faced with her husband's deep love, Li Xueqing was unmoved and insisted on divorce.
So in the end, the two gave each other a year cooling-off period . During the cooling-off period, the two can not divorce. It is not too late if Zhu Qiangjian really doesn't change after a year.
Author's opinion
If you want to maintain a good marriage, both husband and wife should remember to respect their partner's wishes.You cannot selfishly ignore your partner's emotional attitude and make your own choices, which will only push your partner further and further.
Anyone needs mutual respect. Only when you are respected can you feel that the other party puts you on an equal position and talks. This may also be the reason why Li Xueqing is obsessed with divorce. Her husband Zhu Qiangjian did not take her wishes to heart, but only cared about direct happiness, ignoring his wife's feelings led to the couple's disconnection.
Of course, in marriage, the joy of fish and water is also an indispensable step of emotional communication. We never deny the importance of the joy of fish and water. But we should have a certain degree in life and doing things. We are rational people and should know the truth that a forced melon is not sweet. A more pleasant relationship is actually that you and I are willing to love each other sincerely.
