Marriage is just the beginning, and similarly, divorce is just the beginning.
What is the biggest harm of divorce?
makes you deny your past self, makes you doubt your past efforts, and makes you reshape your views. Probably not. The biggest harm is that you can see the most unbearable side of human nature. It directly tear your innocence in the cruelest way, throwing the naked reality towards you, and you have to accept it. Isn't it good? It may not be that this way of growth is too painful.
But we really forgot that divorce is just the beginning. Just like getting married. Life will not make things difficult for you just because you marry love. Nowadays, life will not bully you just because you are divorced. If you feel tormented, maybe you are still growing. My best friend sent me a message tonight: All those who can’t kill you will make you stronger.
Marriage is just the beginning. Fairy tales always like to say that the prince and the princess got married, and since then they lived a happy life. The original purpose of fairy tales is to let children feel the beauty, but accidentally blur the cruelty of reality. When we grew up, we suddenly realized that after the prince and the princess got married, they had a big quarrel over family trivial matters. In addition to Snow White's stepmother and the prince's biological mother, not all the children were cute, and there were countless homework waiting for you. You see, marriage is not a one-time solution. Marriage opens the door to another battlefield. Yes, you can upgrade and fight monsters.
divorce is just the beginning. Although you have seen a lot of reality that you don’t want to see and understand a lot of truths you haven’t understood, you are still kind. Some people say that after divorce, I gave up because of choking, and that bad marriages have changed too many people. I think the real statement should be that a bad marriage makes you grow, but the process is a bit painful. Things that have never been experienced in this world are in vain. You can become a better self. It depends on you, not on divorce.
people often say that chicken soup is poisonous. In my opinion, soft articles and chicken soup can be inspiring: I grit my teeth and pass. Sometimes people’s potential really needs motivation. Many children are getting better and better with praise, and the same goes for adults. If you say they can do it, they will do it even better.
Finally, I want to tell people who have thoughts of divorce but are still in marriage, or are about to enter marriage: marriage is a commitment relationship that forms a community of interests, and the only thing that can defend marriage is not about romance and love, but about increasing the cost of divorce. Marriage Law 's boundary for cheating is evidence of cohabitation for more than half a year and bigamy. It is unrealistic to expect to use the law to restrain the other party. It is even more nonsense to rely on people to influence the other party. But if you keep increasing the cost of divorce, even if you reach that day, you can tell your child that this is the country that I have built for you. As long as you are not divorced or you are not married, go and check out the marriage law. You will clearly know that it is better to do a career than to do anything, and it is better to do money than to do anything. Don’t talk about vulgarity, many of them are separated from each other. My friend said: After so much loss, have you changed? I replied: No. I understand more and learn more, but I still choose and respect my true heart. Only by seeing the insolent human nature can you know how to cherish people's hearts better. The best years have just begun. Isn't it good to go back on the road with experience and lessons?
