My ex-wife Lin Fei and I reunite with each other unforgettable love
narration: Lao Xu
Written by: Brother Minghao
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Time flies, time flies, and in a blink of an eye, my ex-wife Lin Fei and I have been divorced for three years.
For the past three years, I have been both a father and a mother. I am busy at work during the day. At night, I pick up my son from the custodian to do his homework and take care of him for food, drink, wash and sleep. Fortunately, my son is well-behaved and sensible. Although he often misses his mother, he is not greatly affected by our divorce.
The reason why Lin Fei and I divorced was that I always disliked me for working honestly at the company, getting a dead salary and not making a lot of money. Compared to her best friends, some of their husbands are leaders of state-owned enterprises, some do business, live in big houses, drive luxury cars, and compare people with each other, which is so annoying.
I am content by nature and pursue a stable life, have food and clothing, and have a small house to settle down. I am satisfied and don’t think about doing big business or being a big boss.
For this matter, Lin Fei often quarreled with me, saying that I was useless. A big man, his wife and children are warm on the bed every day, and I usually give in to her and don’t quarrel with her.
Finally, one day, she did too much and stopped scolding me. She also said that my parents gave birth to such a useless son. I couldn't stand it. She got angry on the spot, smashed the bowl and cup, kicked the table and chairs, and of course, she also symbolically slapped her through the skin. This time she poked the hornet's nest. She firmly wanted to divorce me. The relatives on both sides failed to mediate, so I had to let her go solo, and since then they parted ways, and they were like strangers.
Lin Fei decided to go to South with her best friend to do business. She took away all the cash and left her son, house, and car to me, so that my son and I could have a place to live, and also to make it convenient for me to pick up and drop off my son. For the past three years since she left, she came back every year during the Chinese New Year and saw her son. She cried and wanted to stay with her for one night. I also cleaned up the room, but she refused and left resolutely.
Regarding her three years in the south, some people say she became a rich woman, some people say her business collapsed, some people say she has another man, the specific situation is unknown, and I don’t want to inquire, because we are now separated from each other, except that she is her son’s mother occasionally comes back to see her, we have no relationship and have not been in touch for a long time.
A colleague from the unit introduced me to a widowed woman, without children. We had a short time ago and had a good impression of each other. I was hesitating. After so long, I should let go of my ex-wife. Should I discuss it with my children and start a new family again?
Three years later, although I can’t say that I have a successful career, I have worked for many years and experienced skills, have been appreciated by leaders, have become a middle-level cadre, have been promoted and raised, which can also make up for my regrets. Every time my ex-mother-in-law comes to my house to see my grandson, she talks about her daughter, and shakes her head repeatedly, saying that she doesn't cherish it or mess around, and tells me not to find a stepmother for the child, and wait for her daughter to change her mind, and I can only smile bitterly.
One evening, I was cooking and eating with my son on the table. When I heard the knock on the door, I opened it and saw that it was my ex-wife Lin Fei. She was wearing her hair, wearing light makeup, and wearing a fit suit. She seemed to be more beautiful than before. She was carrying a bag on her body and holding a suitcase on her hands, but her face was a little haggard and looked tired.
The son rushed up quickly, hugged her legs and called "Mom", jumping and jumping. Lin Fei called her son, touching her head, her eyes were wet. I took Lin Fei's backpack and suitcase and let her in.
I asked her if she had eaten, and she shook her head and said, "Eat something casually." I cooked another dish, served it on the table, served it with rice, and Lin Fei tasted it in big mouthfuls, and it seemed that she was really hungry. Looking at this woman who used to sleep with her bed, I felt uncomfortable.
After dinner, I poured a cup of tea and handed it to Lin Fei. She said "Thank you". I asked her, "Why did you come back so early this year? It's still early to the New Year."
She didn't answer me, but just said to her son, "Mom won't leave, I'll be in this city, and I will see you often in the future."
The son was so happy that he hurriedly said, "Mom, don't leave tonight. You and Dad, I'll sleep with three of you, okay?"
Lin Fei said to her son, "No, I'm leaving, I'll see you in two days.""
The son pouted, showing a disappointed look.
I know that most Lin Fei went to stay in a hotel. My family liked to talk about her, and she was not at ease when she went back to her home. I said to Lin Fei: "It's so late, I'll clean up the room, you and your son will sleep for one night, he misses you too. "
Lin Fei hesitated for a moment and nodded in agreement.
That night, my son stuck to his mother, and had endless words, and he didn't want to separate for a moment. I lay on the bed in the guest room, and heard their playful and joking and laughing with my son, my nose sore, my eyes were wet, and I thought to myself, the child really can't live without my mother, I really want to go back to the happy days of the family of three!
On the morning of the second day, I drove my son to school, and Lin Fei took my luggage with us. After my son entered the school, I sat in the car and didn't talk for a long time.
Later, I asked her about her situation, and she finally told the truth. The business in the south was not easy to do, and I worked hard for several years, and I couldn't make ends meet, and she was exhausted. Her best friend didn't care, she was rich, and she was so rich. It was a drizzle for some money, but Lin Fei wasted all her wealth. Later, she closed the business and dealt with the aftermath and came back.
I asked her what she had plans. She was a little confused and said that it was difficult for her parents' home to go back. I rented a house first, found a job, and took one step at a time.
I felt a little uncomfortable and thought, why bother? Good days, I have been to this point!
I didn't go to work in the unit that day, so I took her to find a house, and entrusted a friend to help her find a job as a clerk. I paid the rent for the rent, and before leaving, I transferred her another 5,000 yuan to her mobile phone before leaving.
She felt a little embarrassed and said she would give it to me after a while. I waved my hand and said, "Stop talking about these things, no matter what, you are the mother of the child, take good care of yourself. "
After that, every once in a while, Lin Fei would come to our house to visit his son, or when he was not busy on Saturdays and Sundays, he would pick up his son to live in a rental house for a day or two, and saw that his son was much more cheerful and lively. During this period, my parents and parents-in-law were complaining and urging. Forget about remarrying, you are good to you and good to your children. But Lin Fei and I didn't let go.
One night, about ten o'clock, my son was asleep. I was playing with my phone, and suddenly a message came from the chat software. When I saw that it was Lin Fei: "I have a stomachache in and , so I can't stand the pain. I didn't want to bother you. ”
I looked at my sleeping son and quickly replied to a message: “I’ll come here right away. "
I drove to Lin Fei's rental house, parked the car, went upstairs and rushed to her door in three steps, knocking on the door. Lin Fei endured the pain and opened the door. I helped her downstairs, got on the car, and ran to the hospital. The doctor thought it was acute gastroenteritis, so he prescribed painkillers and other medicines, and suggested making an appointment for gastroenteroscope.
It was almost 12 o'clock after leaving the hospital. I was worried that my son would be anxious if he couldn't see anyone. With Lin Fei's consent, he drove it directly to me. It's home, I have a few days off for easy care. I went for gastroenteroscope a few days later, and there was no big problem, so I prescribed some medicine. Later I learned that Lin Fei was too busy in business in those years and did not eat as a meal, which made me feel sick. My parents-in-law came to see my daughter, and they felt distressed and complained. They reiterated the old words and asked us to remarry and take care of each other. We were speechless.
After Lin Fei recovered, she moved back to the rental house. Another Saturday, the widowed woman I was dating came downstairs to find me. We started to talk about our affairs, and didn't want to delay it like this. We were talking downstairs, but Lin Fei came to pick up the child. After seeing us, her face changed and she hurried upstairs to pick up the child and left. The woman saw it and left with me perfunctory words. Afterwards, I felt embarrassed.
During that time, Lin Fei did not come to see her son, nor did she pick her up. One night, the son yelled to miss her mother and had a meal I didn't eat or do my homework, so I had to drive him to Lin Fei's rental house. When I came to the door, I knocked on the door of the room, but unexpectedly she was not at home.
I took my son downstairs and waited downstairs. It was late autumn, and it was a little cold, and the wind blew on my body a little cold. I took off my coat and wrapped it on my son. His little face was full of disappointment.
From a distance, I saw Lin Fei coming from the other end of the street, so lonely and helpless under the light of the street light.The son shouted in surprise: "Mom", rushed over, Lin Fei squatted down and hugged her son, her eyes blurred with tears.
I walked over, helped Lin Fei up, and said to her, "Go back with us, let's do it again." Lin Fei nodded, and I hugged her and her son tightly. Lin Fei couldn't help but burst into tears. I wiped her tears and hugged them and walked towards the car.
People once had something that they didn’t know how to cherish and went around in circles. It turns out that what they lost is better!
