Xiao Zhou in the community recently encountered a troublesome thing.
Recently, Xiao Zhou discovered that his girlfriend had been talking to for two months and had a very close male best friend. Xiao Zhou was very unhappy. He advised his girlfriend, "Before falling in love, it was normal for you to date a male best friend. Now that we are getting along, you should not have too much date with other boys."
The girlfriend was also very unhappy when she heard this. She said to Xiao Zhou: "My male best friend and I are just ordinary friends with good relationships and have no ambiguous relationship. Since you fall in love with me, you must love the house and accept everything about me. You must believe me. You are a big man, don't be petty."
Xiao Zhou was snatched away by Xiao Wang and was speechless. But I was very dissatisfied. He didn't know whether he should accept this girlfriend who was difficult to let go of her male best friend.
The editor thinks that if the girlfriend insists on not giving up her male best friend, then Xiao Zhou should give up her girlfriend.
Let me first talk about what "best friend" is. "Best friend" means close friends in the boudoir, which is the name of a woman for her close girlfriend. "Best friend" was originally called "Best friend", but the reason why it is called "secret" is of course related to secrets. Many issues that are difficult to talk about and are ashamed to discuss with the opposite sex can open your heart to your best friend.
In this sense, a man who can talk to himself about these private issues "hard to speak and is ashamed to discuss with the opposite sex" can only be his boyfriend or husband, and he should never be a male best friend.
There are many good men now, but there are also many scumbags. Some scumbags are willing to become the so-called "male best friend" of girls, care for you, love you, and listen to your stories. It is not because of friendship or how noble it is, but because of ambiguous things under the guise of "male best friend". The ultimate goal is to get you.
As Xiao Zhou said, it is normal for girls to have male best friends before they fall in love. A male best friend is actually a prospective boyfriend. Many best friends of men and women eventually achieved success and became husband and wife. But after having a boyfriend, he has a famous flower and a master, so he shouldn’t have any male best friend, and he shouldn’t have too close friends. Because love is exclusive. Girls should also point to others. If your boyfriend has a very loyal confidante, would you accept it?
So, if Xiao Zhou loves this girlfriend very much, he should communicate with her well. If your girlfriend is stubborn, then Xiao Zhou should bear the pain of giving up and break up with her decisively. Although it will be painful for a while, it is better to have a short pain than to have a long pain. Otherwise, living with a woman who is not loyal in love will have great hidden dangers and constant troubles.
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