A couple who have been separated from each other for a long time is very unfavorable to the harmony of marriage and family. The longer you are separated, the relationship between the two will become weaker and weaker, and even the relationship will be completely broken. Most of the separation between the couples in the two places will result in divorce.
The most important reason for couples to divorce is extramarital affair, and extramarital affair is often the most unacceptable thing for their partner.
This is about a sister talking to me about a topic. Can you forgive a woman who has an extramarital affair?
My husband and I have been married for 11 years and have always had a good relationship. We always hold hands when we go out. In recent years, my family has bought a big house and the loan pressure is relatively high. I gave up my job again. So in order to make more money, my husband went to work in another place and we separated for two years.
To be honest, I know that my husband cheated on me, but after giving birth, one of my best friends accidentally discovered this secret.
He may have thought that I was mentally prepared, otherwise he would be very worried for my future, so he secretly told me.
At that time, I was really in tears, but in the end I just endured it silently and did not get angry on the spot. The reason is very simple. When a woman just gave birth to a child, she learned that her husband had cheated.
What should I do after I divorce? What should I do? These things require enough time to think about.
Until by chance, my phone broke down. When I was charging with his phone, a message popped up on WeChat, "Dear, I miss you." The note was a symbol. When I unlocked the phone password in my memory, I found that the chat history had been deleted by my husband.
I had a showdown with him and asked him why? He said I don't think so exaggeratedly. He was just playing around with the scene. None of them was true. My husband admitted his mistake and promised me that he would break it. He said that the female colleague would not pay attention to him when she found out that I had family affairs.
was considered because of some factors of divorce. I believed him.
. Thinking of this, I recently found that they still had contact, and they would still come together after get off work. Now the epidemic is not over, my husband is still looking for him at home. I treat him very well at home. Which posture does not satisfy him?
I just don’t understand why I still have to go out to find a mistress. It’s all caused by leisure. The couple used to work all day long for the family, and they didn’t even have the chance to talk to others. How many cheated?
Since then, our relationship has been not very good, but I don’t care. Maybe he feels that he owes me and compensates me and my children financially. My way is to pretend to be nothing, and everything is still treating him the same as before.
He said the company needed to work overtime, so I told him to pay attention to his health. He said he wanted to have a meeting and I would keep some food for him to come back to eat.
But the good times didn't last long. Since I had a child, after being baptized by food and food, my life became more and more dull, and I didn't even have a basic sex life.
There have been many times. I wanted to hug him from behind and want to be intimate, but he always refused and took my hand away on the grounds of being too sleepy. I still didn't give up later.
I began to slowly become proactive, my body was exhausted, my inner pain and loneliness, and I had been emotionally empty for a long time. I really hoped that there was someone who loved me.
In fact, others are kind and honest. They also have a certain economic foundation and social status. The hard days We have just passed, a beautiful life has just begun. I can say that such a thing happened is so painful, but there are still children and children. I am tortured by this relationship every day,
men become bad when they have money, this sentence is true. I don’t want to give up the marriage that has been running for so many years.
When a man has an extramarital affair, this is never a big problem. It’s not because he still loves, but because he’s divorced and finds another one? Let’s make do with it, as long as he still cares about his children and knows how to give his family living expenses, I’ll be satisfied.
Now the society is under such great pressure, let them continue to play. I know that it’s too difficult to love in this world, where can there be a lifetime of love?
I was in a low mood that day. The male colleague of the company happened to contact me, so I made an appointment with him and told him all the pain. My emotions made a 35-year-old male colleague feel that he was deeply moved. After listening to my story, he gave me a lot of care and comfort.
He hugged me in his arms, and I didn't refuse. He cried in his arms for a long time. The male colleague was single. He asked me to sit at his house that night. I promised that everything that shouldn't have happened that night happened.
"When I was younger, I would hug and caress my whole body, but I kept the moral defense line and opposed sexual intercourse without marriage. After maintaining a loyal marriage relationship for more than 20 years, I cheated for the first time, and the first time (including my marriage) (including my marriage) did not stop having sex after the other party was excited, and continued - for her and for me - it felt great!
I felt like a better man and lover. I had no guilt in the face of my wife and marriage (she didn't really want me anyway). And it seemed from a dozen or so! After the age of age, the sexual desire that stopped developing began to grow again. "
" I actually don't want to do this, I just feel that he doesn't love me anymore, and my heart is empty. During that period, I was very depressed. He was always with me. He couldn't notice anything unusual about me, or he didn't care about me at all. ",
" He can't even live a couple's life with me now, and he is very cold to me. Anyway, I feel that he is so cold to me. Having an extramarital affair makes me feel less uncomfortable. Anyway, he won't find out, and he doesn't think it's okay.
