My brother Jiao will help you solve your problems. Let's explain the terms first. A boy refers to a single man who is eighteen or nineteen or twenty-one or twenty-two. The big woman mentioned here refers to divorced or married women in their forties or in their early fifties.
Boys who like big women are mainly divided into three types; ① Oedipus complex, loses maternal love since childhood, and when they grow up, they feel that they lack this love. When they meet a woman who treats him well in their daily life, they will be moved. It is not a primitive desire, but a dependence and spiritual sustenance. This emotion will make him unable to get rid of it for a long time in the future.
②Dislike him; his family situation is very bad, so bad that it is impossible to mention it. Since he was a child, no girl was willing to play and talk with him. The ignorance of youth made him also have a desire for women. Suddenly one day, I met a woman much older than him at work or elsewhere, and this woman was very nice to him. This kind of goodness made him unable to stop. (In fact, this woman is the same passion and care for many people. The boy misunderstood this care and thought it was love) By chance, he pursued her. Something shouldn't have happened at the wrong time and place. One loves to death, and the other loves powerlessly, and loves wrongly.
③Bail; the first step to his life, who is ignorant, is to take shortcuts and enter the glory of life. This shortcut is to approach those women who are not popular at home, and then care for her and make her intoxicated by herself. The next thing is to omit 10,000 words here.
The author’s later story is that sometimes you must have a destiny and no time. Of course, the next sentence is that you don’t believe in fate but only believe in hard work with your hands. Here I advise those boys who want to take shortcuts to earn what they want with their own hands and not to take any shortcuts. They are all empty and empty things. Only when facing the sunshine is upright will you welcome a better tomorrow.
