Question:
Which date will be better for a girl to try to hold hands?
What are some methods to hold hands and not be resisted?
Answer: What time will it be better to try holding hands with girls when they date?
This actually has no fixed answer
When you are dating a girl, do you want to try to hold the girl's hand? How many times have you dated with the girl, there is actually no direct relationship.
The key is to see: . Have you attracted girls at present, and see if the girl has already developed a good impression of you
You have attracted girls, and the girl has developed a good impression of you, even if you are dating a girl for the first time, you can and can successfully hold hands with girls;
If you do not attract girls, if the girl is not intimate or even disgusted with you, even if you have dated a girl ten times, this is not suitable for you to try to hold the girl's hand.
Because even if you try to hold a girl's hand, you are highly likely to be rejected by the girl (once you are rejected by the girl, then there may be no more);
So, when you interact and date with girls, you should first consider: how to interact with girls, how to bring a good date experience to girls, so as to attract girls, and make girls feel good about you
Generally speaking, only when you attract girls will you succeed in holding hands, hugging, kissing, sleeping, and confirming your relationship with girls....
Be careful not to be like some novice people. Because they like girls and want to chase them, their starting point and focus when dating girls will unconsciously focus on: promoting the relationship between themselves and girls
How can you promote the relationship between yourself and girls?
Then try to have physical contact with girls when dating a girl, such as holding a girl's hand
but I don't know that some novice people are prone to ignore it unconsciously and try to have physical contact with girls by themselves: At present, enough attractiveness for girls has been established for girls
2,
Some boys have certain interactions and dates with girls, and he has clearly established a certain attraction for girls (otherwise, the girl will not continue to meet him)
But when a boy tries to hold hands with girls, he may still be rejected by girls
Why?
You said you have established an attraction to girls, so what exactly does this attraction look like?
Although some girls will come out to meet you, they may just regard you as a good friend;
Some girls do have a good impression of you, but the current girls' favorability for you is not enough for her to accept you holding her hand;
So, in your interactions and dates with girls well, you have brought girls a good dating experience and good psychological feelings, and you have attracted girls to a certain extent.
On this basis, you need to consider the following factors:
1), How do you and girls know each other specifically, and whether there is a certain emotional understanding between you and girls
If you and girls meet on social software, if you and girls get together through friend introductions, if you are a girl you meet on a blind date......
then start from the first time At first, girls will have a corresponding psychological expectation about the interactions with you
As long as you do not rush through the interaction and date with girls, you are really attracted to girls
Then on this basis, you can naturally try to hold hands with girls
But if you have known girls for a long time, you have always been friends, and girls have always treated you as a friend; if you have pursued girls before, but you are clearly rejected by girls, girls will reject them. After you were eliminated, she expressed her willingness to continue to be friends with you
In this case, even if you interact well with the girl, you usually have fun playing together. However, if you interact and date with the girl, there is no ambiguity or emotional understanding between you and you have no corresponding psychological expectations for physical contact with her (not to mention expectation)
At this time, if you have no preparation, go rashly Holding a girl's hand, your failure rate will be quite high,
2), If you are a complete stranger with a girl, the rhythm of trying to have physical contact with a girl is often faster than when you are in the same social circle as you are in the same social circle as you are in the same social circle as you are in the same social circle as you are in the same social circle as you are in the same social circle as you are in the same social circle as you are in the same female, then the concerns of girls will often be more
If the progress between the girl and you is too fast, what will others think of her? (To put it extremely, if you hold hands with a girl on her first date, kiss on her second date, and sleep together on her third date, there will be no normal good girl, and you will think that this is such a glorious thing.On the contrary, if the boy in question sleeps and confirms his relationship with the girl on his third date, it will give others another feeling and impression)
If the girl ends up not winning with you, but she holds hands with you or even kisses before, how will this end? (Although the girl and you didn’t succeed in the end, something happened between her and you, and you belong to the same social circle, and you may have intersections again. The potential partner you will know each other in the future may be people you know, and these will make girls worry.)
The most extreme situation. If you and a girl are good friends, the girl may worry: If you don’t succeed in the end, you may be a person you may be. Therefore, even friends can't do
........ Girls often have some concerns about
. As the party who actively tries to have physical contact with girls, you will actually have corresponding concerns
. If you try to hold the girl's hand during the first or second meeting, what if the girl refuses you?
After a girl rejects you, she tells people around her about your behavior. What should she do?
And if you are completely strangers with girls, for example, you met girls through social software, chat, travel, and dating activities. If you don’t know her friends, she doesn’t know your friends, and she doesn’t know your friends. Apart from the name, you may not even know more information about girls. Since you are completely strangers with girls, and girls know you for the purpose of making friends and getting out of singleness, so as long as your own conditions are OK, you bring good psychological feelings and good dating experiences to girls during interaction and dating, and you attract girls, then you try to have physical contact with girls, and you will naturally be faster
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Because girls will have much less worries, and your worries will also be much less worries
Even if you try to have physical contact with girls faster, even if you don’t succeed, you will just not get the other person at most. In addition, this will not cause more and more serious consequences for you.
3), What is the personality of a girl, and what is the attitude and rhythm of a girl towards the progress of the relationship between men and women?
This article may be controversial, but I will share with you html from the perspective of personal experience and practice. 2
Some girls don’t actually take it seriously as a behavior of holding hands with boys; while some girls may even regard holding hands, which is equivalent to dating boys next
Some girls have their personality and state, which makes people feel that she is strong, confident, and has a clear distinction between love and hate; while some girls have their personality and state, which gives people a feeling of softness, no opinion, or even weakness
Suppose you have established the same degree of attraction for different girls
If a girl, she will not If you hold yourself and a boy too seriously, you can naturally try to hold hands with her faster (because opportunities are fleeting, if you miss the window of opportunity, sometimes, then there is nothing happening); while another girl holds herself and a boy, which is equivalent to two people dating, and even feels that she can hold hands with a boy after she has established a relationship with a boy. Then, if you try to hold such a girl's hand, you should naturally slow down the pace (because you advance the relationship too quickly, the girl may feel that you are not sincere, and even suspect that your purpose is impure)
A girl, she has no opinion, and when interacting and dating with you, she is habitually guided and followed your steps. The girl has a weak personality, and she may even be pushed away by others.When facing such a girl, if you are stronger and more decisive, it will help promote the relationship between you and the girl (such girls need you to be stronger. Sometimes, when facing her, you do not refuse, do not cooperate or obey, and your appropriate strength and persistence will change her rejection); while another girl has her own ideas, attitudes, and principles for the rhythm of the relationship between two people. When she interacts with you, she gives you a feeling of confidence, strength, and clear love and hate. If you are not attracted to girls at present, you should actually slow down the pace of physical contact with them appropriately (because you advance the relationship too quickly, girls may feel that you are not sincere and suspect that your purpose is impure. Sometimes, if such girls refuse, do not cooperate, or obey, you should just follow her and respect her instead of continuing to stick to what you want to do. Because such girls, your strength and persistence are often prone to anger her)
3,
3,
How to increase the success rate of holding a girl's hand?
1), You should try your best to attract girls to
If a girl really likes you, everything is easy to do;
If a girl likes you, many of your behaviors will be unreasonable (for example, when you first meet, you will hold a strange girl's hand), the girl will help you rationalize it
If a girl doesn't like you at all, everything is difficult to do;
If a girl doesn't like you, yours is very More behaviors, even if it is reasonable (for example, if you try to hold a girl's hand on a blind date on the fifth date), girls will think this is unreasonable
2), Before you try to hold a girl's hand, it is best to let the girl have certain psychological expectations for you holding her hand (if you can make girls expect it, that's even better)
a, you and the girl know and interact with each other with the girl with the purpose of making friends and getting out of singleness. Before you try to hold a girl's hand, you have had other simpler events with the girl. The level of body contacts
c. When you interact and date with the girl, you develop ambiguous feelings and atmosphere
3), allows you to hold hands with the girl, which is in line with the specific scenes and atmosphere when you interact with the girl
For example,
You have established an attraction to girls; girls know and interact with you with the girl with the purpose of making friends and getting out of singleness; when you interact and date with the girl, you develop ambiguous feelings and atmosphere
In the evening, at night, and at midnight, you and the girl are walking by the beach and river where the scenery is very good and there are few people. You walk with the girl while walking. When you talk about emotional topics with the girl
The girl reveals her yearning and desire for beautiful love. The girl now enters a state of emotional emotions.
At this time, you tease the girl: At this time, you should hold my hand, and take the girl's hand over and hold your hand (you can also just express this meaning and make this move, and do not directly take the girl's hand over and hold your hand. For the rest, let the girl make your own choice.
Question:
Which date will be better for a girl to try to hold hands?
What are some methods to hold hands and not be resisted?
Answer: What time will it be better to try holding hands with girls when they date?
This actually has no fixed answer
When you are dating a girl, do you want to try to hold the girl's hand? How many times have you dated with the girl, there is actually no direct relationship.
The key is to see: . Have you attracted girls at present, and see if the girl has already developed a good impression of you
You have attracted girls, and the girl has developed a good impression of you, even if you are dating a girl for the first time, you can and can successfully hold hands with girls;
If you do not attract girls, if the girl is not intimate or even disgusted with you, even if you have dated a girl ten times, this is not suitable for you to try to hold the girl's hand.
Because even if you try to hold a girl's hand, you are highly likely to be rejected by the girl (once you are rejected by the girl, then there may be no more);
So, when you interact and date with girls, you should first consider: how to interact with girls, how to bring a good date experience to girls, so as to attract girls, and make girls feel good about you
Generally speaking, only when you attract girls will you succeed in holding hands, hugging, kissing, sleeping, and confirming your relationship with girls....
Be careful not to be like some novice people. Because they like girls and want to chase them, their starting point and focus when dating girls will unconsciously focus on: promoting the relationship between themselves and girls
How can you promote the relationship between yourself and girls?
Then try to have physical contact with girls when dating a girl, such as holding a girl's hand
but I don't know that some novice people are prone to ignore it unconsciously and try to have physical contact with girls by themselves: At present, enough attractiveness for girls has been established for girls
2,
Some boys have certain interactions and dates with girls, and he has clearly established a certain attraction for girls (otherwise, the girl will not continue to meet him)
But when a boy tries to hold hands with girls, he may still be rejected by girls
Why?
You said you have established an attraction to girls, so what exactly does this attraction look like?
Although some girls will come out to meet you, they may just regard you as a good friend;
Some girls do have a good impression of you, but the current girls' favorability for you is not enough for her to accept you holding her hand;
So, in your interactions and dates with girls well, you have brought girls a good dating experience and good psychological feelings, and you have attracted girls to a certain extent.
On this basis, you need to consider the following factors:
1), How do you and girls know each other specifically, and whether there is a certain emotional understanding between you and girls
If you and girls meet on social software, if you and girls get together through friend introductions, if you are a girl you meet on a blind date......
then start from the first time At first, girls will have a corresponding psychological expectation about the interactions with you
As long as you do not rush through the interaction and date with girls, you are really attracted to girls
Then on this basis, you can naturally try to hold hands with girls
But if you have known girls for a long time, you have always been friends, and girls have always treated you as a friend; if you have pursued girls before, but you are clearly rejected by girls, girls will reject them. After you were eliminated, she expressed her willingness to continue to be friends with you
In this case, even if you interact well with the girl, you usually have fun playing together. However, if you interact and date with the girl, there is no ambiguity or emotional understanding between you and you have no corresponding psychological expectations for physical contact with her (not to mention expectation)
At this time, if you have no preparation, go rashly Holding a girl's hand, your failure rate will be quite high,
2), If you are a complete stranger with a girl, the rhythm of trying to have physical contact with a girl is often faster than when you are in the same social circle as you are in the same social circle as you are in the same social circle as you are in the same social circle as you are in the same social circle as you are in the same social circle as you are in the same social circle as you are in the same female, then the concerns of girls will often be more
If the progress between the girl and you is too fast, what will others think of her? (To put it extremely, if you hold hands with a girl on her first date, kiss on her second date, and sleep together on her third date, there will be no normal good girl, and you will think that this is such a glorious thing.On the contrary, if the boy in question sleeps and confirms his relationship with the girl on his third date, it will give others another feeling and impression)
If the girl ends up not winning with you, but she holds hands with you or even kisses before, how will this end? (Although the girl and you didn’t succeed in the end, something happened between her and you, and you belong to the same social circle, and you may have intersections again. The potential partner you will know each other in the future may be people you know, and these will make girls worry.)
The most extreme situation. If you and a girl are good friends, the girl may worry: If you don’t succeed in the end, you may be a person you may be. Therefore, even friends can't do
........ Girls often have some concerns about
. As the party who actively tries to have physical contact with girls, you will actually have corresponding concerns
. If you try to hold the girl's hand during the first or second meeting, what if the girl refuses you?
After a girl rejects you, she tells people around her about your behavior. What should she do?
And if you are completely strangers with girls, for example, you met girls through social software, chat, travel, and dating activities. If you don’t know her friends, she doesn’t know your friends, and she doesn’t know your friends. Apart from the name, you may not even know more information about girls. Since you are completely strangers with girls, and girls know you for the purpose of making friends and getting out of singleness, so as long as your own conditions are OK, you bring good psychological feelings and good dating experiences to girls during interaction and dating, and you attract girls, then you try to have physical contact with girls, and you will naturally be faster
0
Because girls will have much less worries, and your worries will also be much less worries
Even if you try to have physical contact with girls faster, even if you don’t succeed, you will just not get the other person at most. In addition, this will not cause more and more serious consequences for you.
3), What is the personality of a girl, and what is the attitude and rhythm of a girl towards the progress of the relationship between men and women?
This article may be controversial, but I will share with you html from the perspective of personal experience and practice. 2
Some girls don’t actually take it seriously as a behavior of holding hands with boys; while some girls may even regard holding hands, which is equivalent to dating boys next
Some girls have their personality and state, which makes people feel that she is strong, confident, and has a clear distinction between love and hate; while some girls have their personality and state, which gives people a feeling of softness, no opinion, or even weakness
Suppose you have established the same degree of attraction for different girls
If a girl, she will not If you hold yourself and a boy too seriously, you can naturally try to hold hands with her faster (because opportunities are fleeting, if you miss the window of opportunity, sometimes, then there is nothing happening); while another girl holds herself and a boy, which is equivalent to two people dating, and even feels that she can hold hands with a boy after she has established a relationship with a boy. Then, if you try to hold such a girl's hand, you should naturally slow down the pace (because you advance the relationship too quickly, the girl may feel that you are not sincere, and even suspect that your purpose is impure)
A girl, she has no opinion, and when interacting and dating with you, she is habitually guided and followed your steps. The girl has a weak personality, and she may even be pushed away by others.When facing such a girl, if you are stronger and more decisive, it will help promote the relationship between you and the girl (such girls need you to be stronger. Sometimes, when facing her, you do not refuse, do not cooperate or obey, and your appropriate strength and persistence will change her rejection); while another girl has her own ideas, attitudes, and principles for the rhythm of the relationship between two people. When she interacts with you, she gives you a feeling of confidence, strength, and clear love and hate. If you are not attracted to girls at present, you should actually slow down the pace of physical contact with them appropriately (because you advance the relationship too quickly, girls may feel that you are not sincere and suspect that your purpose is impure. Sometimes, if such girls refuse, do not cooperate, or obey, you should just follow her and respect her instead of continuing to stick to what you want to do. Because such girls, your strength and persistence are often prone to anger her)
3,
3,
How to increase the success rate of holding a girl's hand?
1), You should try your best to attract girls to
If a girl really likes you, everything is easy to do;
If a girl likes you, many of your behaviors will be unreasonable (for example, when you first meet, you will hold a strange girl's hand), the girl will help you rationalize it
If a girl doesn't like you at all, everything is difficult to do;
If a girl doesn't like you, yours is very More behaviors, even if it is reasonable (for example, if you try to hold a girl's hand on a blind date on the fifth date), girls will think this is unreasonable
2), Before you try to hold a girl's hand, it is best to let the girl have certain psychological expectations for you holding her hand (if you can make girls expect it, that's even better)
a, you and the girl know and interact with each other with the girl with the purpose of making friends and getting out of singleness. Before you try to hold a girl's hand, you have had other simpler events with the girl. The level of body contacts
c. When you interact and date with the girl, you develop ambiguous feelings and atmosphere
3), allows you to hold hands with the girl, which is in line with the specific scenes and atmosphere when you interact with the girl
For example,
You have established an attraction to girls; girls know and interact with you with the girl with the purpose of making friends and getting out of singleness; when you interact and date with the girl, you develop ambiguous feelings and atmosphere
In the evening, at night, and at midnight, you and the girl are walking by the beach and river where the scenery is very good and there are few people. You walk with the girl while walking. When you talk about emotional topics with the girl
The girl reveals her yearning and desire for beautiful love. The girl now enters a state of emotional emotions.
At this time, you tease the girl: At this time, you should hold my hand, and take the girl's hand over and hold your hand (you can also just express this meaning and make this move, and do not directly take the girl's hand over and hold your hand. For the rest, let the girl make your own choice.Some girls will cooperate very well, which is very good; some girls will hesitate, shy, and smile and say no. At this time, you will take the girl's hand over and hold your hand; unless your prerequisites are particularly wrong, you will rarely encounter women's attitudes resolutely and clearly reject you)
If you judge the prerequisites accurately and the atmosphere during date is well created, girls will often obey you
After that, you will still talk while walking, but then the girl holds your hand and chats with you
This small progress has been made, and if you want to hold hands with girls and hold hands with your fingers in contact with them, it will be easier and smoother. Why is this happening?
This is the
Because when I was young, I met many girls in this situation, subconsciously, unconsciously, or consciously and actively holding my hand
1, in that scene, the girl was really moved by me; secondly, it was also the influence of girls watching love idol dramas and romance novels for many years; thirdly, this is also the habitual behavior of girls in the past when they fell in love; fourthly, many girls are young When she is used to holding the hands of her best friend and parents
so a girl holds the hands of a boy she likes and chats with her while walking. This behavior is actually a very natural behavior for many girls
4), makes you hold hands with girls as natural as possible, making girls feel that this is justified, or it increases its fun
There may be controversy at all. From the perspective of my personal experience and practice, I will share with you
. The reason why some boys find it difficult to hold hands, hug, kiss, and even sleep with girls with high success rate is because they feel unnatural about holding hands, hug, kiss, sleep and other behaviors with girls
. If you think it is unnatural and too deliberate about holding hands with girls. , think you are taking advantage of the girl
This unnatural feeling of yours will actually be transmitted to the girl, so that the girl will not feel very good about the behavior of holding her hand
If you think it is natural and natural about the behavior of holding hands with the girl, you think it is just like this, you think that the girl just hopes you will treat her like this
Once you come, you will hold the girl's hand When you are in a situation where a girl does not cooperate with you, you will not be at a loss and feel hit hard because of the girl's discooperation, or even have self-doubt
You have to make the girl feel that she holds hands with you now. This is a very ordinary and natural thing. I have a friend, let's call him Wolf Brother
. Wolf Brother used to run a hotel, and he took the girl to a hotel. That's called It's a normal thing. When he checked in, it was a slightest one-time
. It was obvious that some girls were staying in a hotel with boys for the first time, but because of Brother Wolf's performance, he could make the girl come to the hotel room with Brother Wolf before she could feel her inner struggle.
. Brother Wolf was getting started early in the affairs of men and women. When he was young, he would occasionally meet girls who had not even received kisses. Later, when the two people interacted, Brother Wolf would often tease the girl and say: It turns out that you have not taken the kiss, so I can teach you
for free. When a girl is shy about Brother Wolf's jokes, she will be willing to accept
. Because Brother Wolf's own natural and natural attitude will affect the other girl, making the other girl better accept what Brother Wolf wants to do to her
. When Brother Wolf was not yet enlightened, he was obviously In his heart, he wanted to have physical contact with girls, but he felt that it seemed that it was not good to do this, and it seemed too fast. It seemed that he was taking advantage of girls
Wolf Brother's state was not only not conducive to achieving what he thought, but it would seriously hinder him from getting what he wanted
Hope can inspire everyone
love Sir
2022-11-15
