Every relationship can reach this point of marriage, it is extremely difficult. This is the ultimate destination of love and an explanation for each other. The two people who love each other enter the palace of marriage together, and from then on, they live their lives in love, and they feel romantic when they think about it.
However, in real life, feelings will become fragile due to the influence of various factors. It is not easy to get married. After marriage, they will still be disturbed by the outside world, resulting in the breakdown of the marriage. Some are not loyal enough to the marriage and not strict enough to their own requirements; some are because their own shortcomings are infinitely magnified in life and reach an irreconcilable level; some are because of the influence of the relationships of other people in the family, which eventually leads to the end of the marriage. Often, the most regrettable thing is that the marriage breaks down due to family reasons.
Diet divorce after three months of marriage. My wife scolded me for being incompetent, all because I have a stepmother
30-year-old Mr. Yang's self-report
I am a relatively dull person. Although I am very attentive in dealing with feelings, I always don't know how to manage them. I am also a straight man. In addition, I am not outstanding in appearance, so I have always seemed like an insulator of the relationship. I have never met the person I am right, nor have I had a passionate emotional experience.
continued until graduation and had no object. Seeing that everyone around me is already married, and even some of my children are already good at making soy sauce, but I am still alone, I feel uncomfortable. Therefore, I began to ask my friends to introduce them to me, and I actively went to blind dates. Fortunately, God paid off and finally found my own marriage.
The girlfriend I first talked about was an accountant, who was a good person who was good at calculating. I think it was actually quite good. They all began to fantasize about their married life and believed that they could give her the financial power of their small family to her with complete confidence after marriage. But after we got to know in depth, she learned that I had a stepmother's business, so she broke up with me because I also had a younger brother, who was brought by my stepmother. She said that this will be a troublesome thing in the future and she did not want to participate in such a family, so we broke up.
My second girlfriend is a kindergarten teacher. She looks very fresh and sweet, giving people the feeling of wanting to take care of her. The two of us get along very well. I really realize that loving someone is so beautiful. Because of the first time, I kept dragging her and not explaining to her this time that I had a stepmother’s situation.
Later we went back to meet the parents, and I knew I couldn't hide it anymore, so I told her about this situation. I really like her and didn't want to lose her, but I was mentally prepared to break up with me. Sure enough, she went home with me to meet the parents, but the stepmother's attitude was very bad and almost didn't give her a good look. Later, we broke up.
After two setbacks, I no longer yearn for my relationship as I used to be. I felt that because the fact that I had a stepmother could not be changed, I probably would have died alone, but at this time, another girl appeared beside me.
She is actually my junior high school classmate. Unexpectedly, we met at work and gradually developed a good impression of each other. She also knew that I had a stepmother with a son in the family situation. I asked her if she could accept it. If she could, we would continue to talk, otherwise it would not delay her. Unexpectedly, she told me that she could accept it. In this way, our relationship quickly heated up and finally reached the point of getting married.
I took her home to meet her parents. The stepmother's attitude this time was very different from before. Maybe my father said that she had said that, or maybe I was 30 years old and I was not married yet. The rumors and rumors in the village made her unable to stand it. This time, we got married smoothly.
Borrow gift money and all the expenses for marriage are my own savings from working for so many years. My stepmother also said that she can only rely on myself to get married. He and my father will not help me because they have a young son to raise. I didn’t want to have conflicts with them at all. In addition, my father has indeed been taken care of by her over the years, so I agreed. But I didn’t expect that I got divorced just three months after getting married because of my stepmother.
The day after marriage, my wife and I got up and found that the house was empty, the ground was still in a mess, no one cleaned up, and there was no breakfast to eat. My wife couldn't help but complain to me that she was giving her a warning.
When we lived on the third day, our stepmother packed our luggage that afternoon and asked us to go back to our home and not stay at her house. She said that she was in poor health and it was already hard enough to take care of her son and my father. My wife was so angry that she left with her luggage without looking back. I wanted to say something to my father, but she didn't want him to do it, so she left.
Later, my stepmother came to us to ask for money, saying that she was getting married, and she spent a lot of money on her relatives and friends. She also spent a lot of money on food and accommodation at home. She asked me to reimburse him. She also asked me to give him half of the money I received, which was my contribution to my family and it was also the hard work of taking care of my father for so many years. My wife couldn't stand her being so arrogant and unreasonable, so she argued with her, but she rolled around and even attacked her. Because he was a stepmother, I could only comfort my wife, but she had no choice but to her. My wife was so angry that she scolded me for being incompetent. After
, she came to her house to ask for money again and again. Every time she didn't give it, she would make trouble. She also fought with her wife more than once. I told my father that my father just told us not to have a good experience with her. I could only persuade her again, and the one who was injured was the wife. Later, she couldn't do it herself, so she would ask her mother's family to come together. As long as she didn't pay, she would stay at our house and stayed home. Her wife was so angry that she didn't go home later.
Three months passed, and my wife couldn't stand it anymore, so she filed for divorce with me. I asked her if she said she could accept it, but we got married? But the wife said: "I can accept it because I believe you will do something, but you will not be able to accept anything except for being indifferent. You don't want your father to do it, but you are willing to let me suffer grievances. As long as you are a woman, you will not accept it."
My wife's words made me reflect on whether I really didn't care about her enough, so that her long-standing suppressed emotions could not be released, so I wanted to divorce. I tried to keep her and promised her that I would care more about her in my future life, but he no longer wanted to believe me.
Now, we have divorced, and I am back to being single, but I think I did nothing wrong. We are young people, and it’s nothing to suffer a little grievance. I can’t let my dad be so adult and quarrel with my stepmother all day long, right? Are you right?
