This is the case with Ms. Jin, 58 years old this year. She is a retired principal. Her wife passed away 7 years ago. Her pension is more than 8,000 yuan and some savings. Later, the old sister advised her to meet a suitable person and find someone to rely on for the rest of her life. But she shook her head and said, "I'm a good life alone." Nowadays, the old man has left most of his family wealth for his children. He only has the pension and lives with him. He hopes to share the living expenses with him and do housework for him. Maybe by the weekend, like an old mother, he will still serve his children and grandchildren. This is really uncommon.
Some old men find someone to live together. To put it bluntly, they just find someone to serve him. Ms. Jin said that she had a good sister around her who lived with an old man and gave a lot of money for his family. She had contracted all the housework. She wanted to get recognition from others, but she was disliked and had nowhere to tell her. I thought I would give silently and get some care and love, but I was squeezed out by the man and later forced to break up.
In fact, in old age, single elderly people also have many colorful lives, such as dancing, playing cards, traveling, drinking tea, shopping, and living a colorful life in their old age. How can they be lonely? The elderly who like quietness can learn to draw, learn guzheng , learn flower arrangement, reading and writing, which not only cultivates oneself, but also cultivates one's character.
Some people will say, what should I do if I get sick? Most elderly people have children! The children will take her to see a doctor, and they are sincere and honest in front of and behind the bed. Therefore, women must have a son and a half of their children, because children are their own support in their later years.
If you have to find a wife, to be fair, he is old, neither physically strong to take care of the woman, nor willing to pay for the fee, so he will treat you as a free nanny! Therefore, smart old people will never suffer from these tricks when they see through these tricks.
In short, lack of love is not considered pain, lack of money is the most painful. I didn’t meet love when I was young, can I still meet true love when I was old? Brigitte is still favored by the 42-year-old French President Macron . Who will have such a good life?
So, women must work hard to save more money after they are 40 years old. The confidence of a woman is a woman’s confidence, which means that you do not rely on men and can choose the lifestyle you like. Even when I can't take care of myself. You can ask a nanny to take care of yourself.
As the saying goes, young couples are not reliable, can couples be reliable halfway through? Living together and remarrying the elderly have a good life, but few of them are. Human nature is so real and cruel. It is impossible to appreciate each other without having to spend the rest of the moon.
neither has a emotional foundation, no experience of sharing joys and sorrows, nor the happiness of sharing results. No one lives comfortably and comfortably with an old man.
