"You can't live this life!" Shi Xiaoxi held the suitcase in one hand and held the child in the other, and said to her husband Feng Lei.
Shi Xiaoxi gave birth to a child a month ago. Her mother-in-law came from her hometown to take care of her when she was one month away from her due date. The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law rarely get along before and after marriage, and don’t know each other’s temperament very well.
After my mother-in-law came, she said that she was not easy to use when her mobile phone was not useful. She said that she couldn't even grab red envelopes in the group, and her reaction was too slow. Shi Xiaoxi thought that she would have to trouble her mother-in-law to take care of her children in the future, so she took the initiative to buy a 5G mobile phone for her mother-in-law for 3,000 yuan. Her mother-in-law was very happy when she got the new mobile phone.
Feng Lei was also very happy to see his mother and wife getting along happily, and was glad that he didn't have to be angry between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law like what others said.
But the good times didn't last long. Shi Xiaoxi found that her mother-in-law was very addicted to playing with her mobile phone. She was old and getting up in the middle of the night was common. Then she found that her mother-in-law didn't sleep very late. She thought that her mother-in-law was also in her sixties, so how could she stay up like this? She asked her husband to persuade her mother-in-law. She was still a little unhappy and said that when the child was born, she would have no time to play. The old man said this, and they didn't want to say anything else, just let the other party not stay up late, which is not good for health.
When Shi Xiaoxi gave birth, she only asked one person to accompany her. Her husband Feng Lei took leave to accompany her in the hospital. She stayed in the hospital for 5 days before being discharged. After returning home, Feng Lei rested for another 2 days, explained some precautions to his mother, and went to work. He never expected that his wife had a fight with his mother during confinement.
Shi Xiaoxi had a cesarean section. Although she was discharged from the hospital for nothing, the knife still hurts, and it was difficult for her to get up without anyone helping her. The weather was a little cold at that time, so she closed the doors and windows and turned on the air conditioner. Apart from calling her to eat, her mother-in-law almost never stepped into her room door. She couldn't shout loudly when the child was sleeping. She was under the same roof, and she had to call every time she needed help.
The whole day, my mother-in-law almost never held the child, and all the changes were hers. She hoped that her husband could share the burden after get off work every day, and then told her husband that her mother-in-law didn't care about the child, but her mother-in-law said with confidence that she closed the door every day, and who knew she needed help.
Once she went to the bathroom, and the child woke up and cried very hard. My mother-in-law couldn't hear it at all. It was useless for her to shout loudly, so she had to call again. The house was so big, is there such good soundproofing in the door?
It turns out that her mother-in-law wears headphones to play with her mobile phone, watch short videos every day, and chats and sings with netizens on a certain karaoke platform. How could she hear Shi Xiaoxi calling her?
Shi Xiaoxi asked her mother-in-law, didn’t she say that she would stop playing with her mobile phone after giving birth? My mother-in-law said that she gave birth to the child, shouldn’t she take care of herself? It would be nice to be able to cook for her, at least she had ready-made food.
Feng Lei also communicated with his mother in private, but his mother said that Shi Xiaoxi had too many things to do, and she had eaten ready-made food every day, and she also did hygiene at home. What else do you want? Can the elderly have their own interests and hobbies, and they have to work hard and make Feng Lei have nothing to say.
Shi Xiaoxi endured it for a month. Even though people said it would be better to have 42 days of confinement, she didn't want to endure it for a day. Just after 30 days, she started packing her luggage and wanted to take the child back to her parents' home.
Feng Lei was so anxious that he was sweating. His mother couldn't say anything, but his wife and children couldn't ignore it. Seeing Shi Xiaoxi making a fuss, her mother-in-law just packed her things and wanted to go back to her hometown. She also said that she couldn't protect her from getting old now, and she just married her wife and forgot her mother.
Feng Lei said that he was so happy before, but he didn't expect that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was really a fate that no family could escape. He held his wife with one hand and his mother with the other, hoping that the two of them could take a step back for his sake.
Feng Lei persuaded his mother to play less mobile phones, and hoped that his wife could understand the elderly. Everyone divided the work and cooperated, and he would also share housework and take care of the children. He hoped that the whole family could work together to live a good life and make a harmonious family prosperous!
From then on, the mother-in-law will put down her mobile phone during the day and actively hug her children so that her daughter-in-law can rest for a while. The daughter-in-law will take the initiative to wash dishes and do housework after meals, take care of the children and cook with her husband on weekends, so that the elderly can rest well and play with her mobile phone happily.
In fact, everyone understands the truth. Sometimes they are unwilling to communicate well and always use confrontational mode to solve problems, which is often counterproductive. As a man of his son and husband, his role is very critical. He cannot be a leniency, but must be a good bridge of communication.
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