text丨Tao Xiaojing
The spring breeze is not as good as you, Xiaojing is here, waiting for you!
Remember Lu Yao wrote this sentence in "Ordinary World":
This is life. When we are all children, one person may have a difference in family conditions, but the difference between children themselves is not obvious, but once they grow up, how much difference will each person’s life path be, some are even a world of difference!
The older I get, the more I realize that people are really different. Some people can live in a happy family, while others can only suffer in a broken family.
Although many people want to change the status quo of their families through their own efforts, one’s efforts are useless because home is not a person’s home.
Family is a whole, and everyone living in it is an integral part of the home. Only when everyone gets better can the home become better.
A good family cannot be separated from the efforts of every family member; a good family brings long-lasting happiness to the family.
I think this should be everyone’s pursuit. Even if the family is not that complete, I hope the family can get better and better.
Everyone yearns for the perfection of home, but only those who work hard to work in their family can truly see signs of better home.
Observation found that a home is getting better and better, and there will be these obvious signs, which are very accurate.
Every family can live in harmony with each other
The family is a small group, and people living in this group are closer than anyone else.
Regularly speaking, these close people can get along well with each other, but many families have various family conflicts.
The existence of family conflicts has a great impact on the development of the entire family. If no one finds a way to solve these problems, and if the family can't get along well with each other, the family will not get better.
A prerequisite for a family to get better and better is that every family can get along well with each other. As long as everyone can do this, home will become better and better.
As the old saying goes, "Those who are harmonious inside will have a prosperous family."
The prosperity of the family cannot be separated from the harmonious coexistence between family members. Only when every family can put aside contradictions and live in harmony can the family truly become a harbor of docking.
A sign of getting better and better a family is actually a harmonious relationship between family members. If everyone wants to make their home better, then maintain a harmonious relationship between their families from now on.
Anything can be discussed and there is a quota for anything
There is a saying that "the fire is high for everyone to pick up firewood", which means that when everyone is adding firewood to the fire, the flame will burn more and more vigorously.
If flames are regarded as a family, then the firewood added to it is every member of the family. If you want your home to be better, the participation of every member is indispensable.
Especially when encountering some big things, the participation of family members plays a good role.
When everyone is working hard for one thing, no matter how big the difficulties are, they can be solved. Even difficulties are no longer a problem, so home will naturally become better and better.
So, the sign of a better and better home is that no matter what happens, everyone in the family can solve it together in a qualitative manner.
A discussion between family members represents a kind of unity and respect. A family that is both united and respectful will inevitably get better and better.
Every family is working hard to work hard for a better life
I remember a netizen said: "I am not afraid of opponents like gods, but I am afraid of teammates like pigs."
Although this is just a joke, it is a portrayal of reality and is applicable in many places, including a family.
In a family, if there is a person who is always dragging his feet, even if other families work hard, the family will not be prosperous.
A family that can truly flourish is everyone who is working hard for a better life, and everyone is a teammate like a god.
Family is an inseparable whole. Only when everyone in the family thinks about the same thing and works together can the family become better.
It is the responsibility and mission of every family member to strive to make the family better. If one person is not strong, the development of the entire family will be affected.
If everyone wants to make their family better, then mobilize all family members and work together to move forward to a better life.
Xiaojing's emotional message:
causes a family to get worse and worse, which may be just a problem for one person. But to make a family better and better, every family member needs to participate.
Only when every family member regards home as his responsibility and is working hard to make and strive for the family can the home develop in a brighter and better direction.
Although this may be a long process, everything is in signs. Research has found that the signs of a home getting better and better are actually these three.
If your family has not yet had such signs, it means you are not united enough. It may be too late to change from now on.
If your family already has such signs, then protect the fruits of everyone's labor.
