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Shakespeare once said: "An unsatisfactory marriage is like a hell. A chicken fights for a lifetime and cannot live in peace. On the contrary, if you choose a spouse who is satisfied with you, you will be harmonious for a hundred years and have endless happiness."
For a man, marriage is not only a major event in life, but also means a turning point in life.
A man can be happy and happy when he meets a good wife and spend the rest of his life in peace, but if he meets a bad spouse, he will endure the hardships of time and his life will be messy.
There are storms in life, and there are contradictions between food and food, oil and salt. These are inevitable. For men, occasional quarrels are nothing. What they really can't accept is probably the betrayal of their wives.
Chaucer once said: "A good wife, with a bright heart and a righteous action, should not be monitored; as for a bad wife, it is useless to monitor her, and she cannot be guarded."
Whether a woman will betray the family does not depend on the man, but mainly on herself.
Therefore, when choosing a partner, men must be careful and try to avoid women who are prone to cheating to obtain a stable marriage.
I have done research on the topic of "extramarital affairs". Later, I found that women who are prone to cheat have the same characteristic - the gluttony attribute.
Taotie attribute is greedy attribute
Taotie is a monster in ancient books. It has a human face and sheep body, which is particularly greedy and is extremely greedy, so it is often used to describe greedy people.
Greedy women have a greedy personality and an insatiable characteristic.
No matter how much she gets, she will not be satisfied no matter how happy she lives now, and will always turn her attention to the high place.
women with gluttony attributes are prone to cheating
As we all know, Ma Rong marries Wang Baoqiang Wang Baoqiang was already a well-known actor. At that time, he was successful in his career, rich and powerful, and was more than enough to match Ma Rong who was only a little bit beautiful.
Wang Baoqiang is a honest and honest person. He lives with such a person not only down-to-earth, but also has rich material conditions.
But Ma Rong is a greedy woman. She fell in love with Wang Baoqiang's conditions, but she disliked him for being ugly, so she was with her agent Song Zhe .
Ma Rong is a typical gluttonous attribute. It is difficult for women of this type to be content in marriage, and the risk of cheating is very high.
1. Restless women are prone to make mistakes
People are different from others after all. Even if they live a normal life, they know how to be content and be content with themselves and keep their families down-to-earth. Even if they cannot be rich and noble, they can still enjoy the simplest happiness in ordinary life.
Restless women always like to pick their bones in their eggs and always yearn for better days.
If a woman is restless, she is easily tempted. She can easily deceive her with better living conditions, romantic experiences, and sweet words.
A woman like this has very low concentration and is unwilling to live a constant life. If she has a restless heart, she will inevitably be prone to doing restless things.
2. People who are not satisfied will never be content with the status quo
Some women are particularly contented and live a happy life. Although there are not many material conditions, they can always find traces of happiness in dullness.
And some women are completely different. No matter how good their life is, they are not content with the status quo, and always want to fly to a high place.
And such women are prone to betrayal of their families.
Men don’t want to be green, remember three advices
For a man, encountering his wife’s betrayal is not only a breakdown of the family, but also an insult to his personality. Therefore, everyone must find a reliable woman.
First, avoid flash marriage
Nowadays, young people have always lived a fast-paced life, busy with life and work every day, and have no time to fall in love. When they get married, they go on blind dates and get married. This seems to have become the norm for many young people, which is also the main reason why the divorce rate is so high at present.
There are many things in the world that can be solved in a quick way, but they must not include marriage, because marriage is a major event in life and it requires a relatively long process.
Understanding a person cannot be accomplished overnight. It requires two people to spend time together day and night. Time is the best proof of whether it is suitable or not.
got married in a hurry, and later found out that they were not suitable for each other or the other was misbehaving. This marriage must be unhappy.
Therefore, everyone must get married only after fully understanding a person. It is very careless. Remember, only those who should get married have no age to get married.
Second, only choose, not change
The biggest misunderstanding for men is that they think they can change a woman with their own strength.
The ancients said: "The country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change."
The old man often said: "I see old age at the age of three."
Once a person's personality is developed, it is difficult to change. This is an eternal law. Even if he restrains it in a short period of time, it is deliberate. After a long time, it will still reveal his nature.
Therefore, there is no need for everyone to do such thankless things.
Instead of trying to change a person, it is better to choose the person you want, so that you can avoid many detours.
found the person who suits you the most from the beginning, instead of spending a lot of time and energy to transform a person who was originally completely different from what you imagined.
Third, find someone with good nature
Men are prone to immerse themselves in the gentle land. The so-called gentle land is the greatest tenderness this girl gives to a man, making him forget everything. In fact, this is a very dangerous thing.
Remember, men must find someone who is good to themselves when they get married, not someone who is good to them.
is good to you, but it may be just a temporary interest, but it will change over time. People with good natures will not do extraordinary things no matter how long it takes. This is destined from the beginning.
Don’t be blinded by everything in front of you. You must spend time and energy to understand the other person’s nature, so that you can be responsible for yourself.
Zhuang Die Xiaomeng/Emotional Column Original creator
May your life be full of surprises and may your happiness come as scheduled.
