1. Learning to shut up is a lifelong homework.
Elders and teachers have taught me to be an honest child, because this is a good child.
The results prove that honesty will make me look like a second cake.
What's even more ridiculous is that some
things make you angry and powerless.
When I was a child, I was always curious about this and that. It was not until I found that the people around me were full of impatientness that I realized why my 100,000 were so annoying. Others are others after all, and they have no obligation to treat us 100% well.
When I was in junior high school, the school had a talent competition, but some of our class scored more than 90 points in the performance, but they were not included in the list of winners, and the principal just said one thing.
"What are you comparing with others?!"
I remember the girl who won the first place with a bad score was the only daughter of a big boss. Although I don't know how much money it gave to our school, the school has actually undergone earth-shaking changes, and everything is much better than before.
"What do you compare with what?!"
It is also the first time I know that this world can be used to be a father. The first time I know that it is useless to say more.
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2. Some people say nothing can change anything.
The same plants will grow in different regions, and the same will be true for people from different native families.
Some people can make you speechless, but nothing you say can't change people's cognition.
is ridiculous and sad, and it is impossible to change anything about them.
My parents are very traditional, so are the education methods.
Regardless of the child's feelings, then keep interfering with every decision of the child. What clothes they wear depends on what they like. If they say they don’t like them, they will say that if they don’t want to wear them, they will not wear them. It is obvious that my stomach feels uncomfortable after eating too much, but they always say it is my fault. If my stomach is damaged, my stomach will hurt. They don’t know what the university major is for, they just know that kindergarten teacher is an iron job, and being a kindergarten teacher is the most secure job. Even if they all know that I have never been suitable for me and do not want to be a kindergarten teacher.
What makes me speechless is what happened when they bought a car a few days ago. At that moment, I thought it was useless to say anything to them. Some people can't change anything because they don't listen to you at all.
"My children's money is mine!"
170,000 BYD has a down payment of 80,000 yuan, he paid more than 60,000 yuan, and my sister paid more than 20,000 yuan. He knew it was not easy to make money, but he still chose to buy a car during the epidemic situation that was not very good, and then smiled and said it was so expensive. They said that they were old and couldn't go to work, so they asked me and sister to pay them 10,000 yuan a month for living expenses, which made them feel very comfortable.
I said there is no need to buy a new car. Used cars are more affordable and more suitable for them who don’t go out.
But they disagree and would rather let the children help them with the car than lose their so-called face.
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3. The disaster comes from the mouth
Some words can be wrong.
trauma comes from words, and only after trying it can you deeply understand it.
When I was a freshman, someone in the dormitory couldn't stand a girl in the class, and then Aba and Aba complained a lot. They asked me what I thought of that girl, and I said it was pretty good, and then I got the girl's full of malice. How did people know? My roommate ran over to tell someone what he said, saying that I was scolding someone in our dormitory.
Later, people who knew me said that I don’t like to talk and said that I am taciturn.
4. Suggestions are just a pit
life suggestions, that is, don’t give others advice.
Otherwise, it is your fault for all your mistakes.
In the second semester of my sophomore year, the business sales teacher in our class suggested that we go to do some side jobs because he told the truth, that is, economic independence is the origin of a casual way.
She suggested that we learn finance and buy stable stocks. A classmate asked her if she could recommend a stock to us. After all, there were not many people in our class who had ever been exposed to stocks, but the teacher was silent for a long time before saying no.
Because a senior sister went to buy her recommendation, she lost more than 100,000 yuan. The senior sister asked the teacher to pay her money because she bought the stock after listening to the teacher's recommendation. She lost not because of herself, but because of the advice given by the teacher.
So, giving advice to others is equivalent to asking yourself to scold me.
