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Many people should have heard of this saying: In a relationship, women need to spoil, men need to coax them.
This is not a groundless rumor, but an experience summarized by many people in their relationships.
You will find that those smart women will not ask men to spoil themselves at all times when they are with men. They will give men the same care and respect.
After all, if a man and a woman want to have a beautiful love that goes to two directions, both parties must give what they want.
Just like Roman Rolland said: In marriage, everyone has to give and at the same time take back something. This is the law of supply and demand.
is actually not just marriage, but love is the same. What you want to get and what you have to pay. Similarly, if you give something, you will definitely get something.
Women at high rank never ask for anything in their relationship. While they ask men to give them something, they will also spoil and coax men to let them know that they are loved.
Some women feel that their relationship path is always unhappy because they do not have outstanding appearance and men are too shallow and only like good-looking women.
But in fact, whether the relationship between the opposite sex is often not about whether it looks good or not, but whether there are any means.
In real life, we often see beauties without anyone chasing them and being single for a long time.
And those women who don’t look conspicuous at all are particularly popular, and there are many men around them.
This is the difference in thinking between men and women. We think men only like beautiful ones, but in fact they prefer to get along more comfortably.
Dating opposite sex, three women in high ranks all "coax" men in this way.
Li Ruochen, 28 years old, cashier: In fact, many women have mistakes in their understanding and think they can attract men if they are beautiful enough, but in fact, men also have concerns. They are afraid of taking the initiative but you don’t “go to earth”. Therefore, getting along with men makes it easier to find a partner.
Although some men are very brave, they are actually unable to speak once they come into contact with women and are very timid.
If you are very cold at this time, then the two people are like parallel lines and it is impossible to have a deeper development.
This is also the reason why many women obviously look ordinary, but men are very lucky, because they are very easy-going and can get along with men, and men have the opportunity to get close to them.
So, sometimes it is not a good thing to be too reserved and too slow to warm up between men and women, so you will isolate your love luck.
I just say that one of my friends is a carefree personality and can quickly get along with men, then go out for dinner, play mahjong, and drink.
There are many development targets on her list. Many men confessed to her, and she simply lived among the men.
We are all envious of her. Why is she so popular? Men like to play with her.
This is the bonus of personality. The lively and cheerful and mature personality is actually particularly popular with men and can easily make men feel good.
Luo Tingke, 27 years old, accountant: It seems that in the cognition of most women, sweet words are spoken by men, and they only need to play the moving role. In fact, men also long to hear love words and enjoy the passion of hormones.
In my life, I am actually a person who is particularly good at "observing words and expressions". I will capture a little expression of my boyfriend.
For example, we sometimes discuss movies, but our views are different, and it is easy to cause friction. As long as I see his eyebrows frowning, I know his emotions have changed.
At this time, I will change the topic and say a few love words, and I will not deliberately make him laugh immediately.
Usually, although I don’t often say sweet words, I won’t be stingy, because the effect of the woman saying it will be different.
If the man takes the initiative and only speaks love words by himself, over time he will lose his sense of gain and feel that he has not received feedback.
If you say love words a few times occasionally, he will feel that his efforts are meaningful and he will not feel that he is singing a solo show alone.
Moreover, men are actually easy to coax. If they say a few good words, they get angry. They don’t really want you to apologize. In fact, what they want to see is you, who is very soft by his side.
pay 6 months old, 36 years old, lawyer: I usually don’t coax my boyfriend, but when he is angry, I will give him a gift to calm him down a little.
I have always been the kind of person who is not good at speaking. Even my boyfriend said to me. There was a fire in my heart, but on the surface, it seemed that I was very cold.
This leads to the fact that when I get along with my boyfriend, I can’t open my heart. In fact, this is particularly bad, and it will cause a gap between the two.
But I am also slowly changing. For example, I thought of turning what I said into what I did, and my boyfriend could also feel my feelings.
Just my boyfriend is a typical jealous bun. He is particularly prone to being jealous and sulking alone. Sometimes he even makes himself so angry that he can cry quietly.
At this time, I will go to coax him, and I will buy a gift to him, such as sneakers, jerseys, etc.
And he knew what I mean, he would take the initiative to break the ice and we would be reconciled as before.
But after reconciliation, my boyfriend will definitely give me a gift that is more expensive than me, so I won’t suffer anyway.
He doesn't want to receive gifts, but when I pay attention to what he likes, he will feel very happy and feel that I care about him very much, so I will definitely not sulk again. The method of
has been tried and tested. My boyfriend will come to me for a while. As long as I put my posture a little softer, I will be able to make up as before.
I always feel that one party cannot give in a relationship, otherwise that party will have an unbalanced relationship, less and less sense of accomplishment and gain, and the relationship will change.
Time and Emotional Class:
In a relationship, women cannot always play the role of being arrogant and cold. You should also be a little more proactive and enthusiastic to give men a chance to get in touch. Otherwise, the relationship between men will become worse and worse, and I don’t know where something is wrong.
If a boyfriend is angry, say a few love words, send gifts, and coaxes him more, he will definitely let go of all his grudges.
You must understand that feelings are the business of two people, not a man who strives to go to you, but you enjoy everything he does for you with peace of mind.
Men also need to coax and spoil, otherwise they will feel that their love will not be responded to and will leave if they are disappointed.
