Author: Yiduan
Picture: From the Internet
As Shakespeare said, when faced with a relationship, men's expressions are often transmitted through their mouths. They always keep the word "I love you" on their lips. As for whether they love it or not, it is unknown.
Generally speaking, people are animals that are right and wrong. The stronger a man says love words of deep love, the less he loves in his heart. If he truly loves a woman, men will not just stay verbally, but will put the deep love into practical actions.
When women accept a relationship, they basically have the idea of spending their lives together. "A lifetime and a pair" is the love they want the most. But men are different. Most men have the mentality of having fun. While they are young, try a few more relationships. Only when they are tired of playing will they want to calm down.
So, how to judge whether a man is having fun or want to develop in a long-term relationship?
Three "body languages" that men will have if they want to develop a long-term relationship with you, don't not understand.
First: You are everywhere you look at it. When you turn around, he is behind you.
When a man truly loves a woman, he will be eager to meet her all the time. Deep in his heart, he will also develop a strong desire to protect himself.
It is no exaggeration to say that as soon as you appear, the man's gaze will no longer be removed, and wherever his eyes reach, it is only you. No matter at any time, as long as you need him, he will come immediately with a phone call or a text message, even if he is busy with a difficult job or is in a different place thousands of kilometers away.
This is the exclusive permissions a man gives to his beloved. If the man around him is in trouble and needs him, the man takes the excuse of being busy and disappears. Stop deceiving himself, he will not love you at all.
The second one: Be willing to spend money for you and hand over all your savings
If a man wants to develop a long-term relationship with you, he will not be on you on money.
is willing to spend money for you. At the beginning of dating, men will tell them all their financial situation truthfully. Some men will also hand over their bank cards. A man who expresses this "body language" means treating you as an indispensable partner in life. It is natural for a man to hand over financial power to his wife.
On the contrary, after years of dating, men never tell you their personal financial income. Every time they go out for a date, they always ask you to pay. During the holidays, we will not send you red envelopes, nor will we prepare gifts for you. If you ask for them, he will give you the high label of "material money-worship". There is no doubt that a man does not intend to spend his whole life with you.
The third one: Have a clear life plan, and the plan also contains you
No matter how beautiful love words you say, what's the use?
Dating for many years, a man has never given you any promises. Every time you mention marriage, he refuses in all kinds of ways, blames you for thinking too much and lets you enjoy the present.
This kind of man does not have a clear life plan in his heart, but he does not have you in his life plan. A person who truly loves you and even plans his future and marriage matters seriously before he dates.
Before you can speak, he made all the preparations and was always planning for the proposal, for fear that you would be snatched away by others, thinking about marrying you quickly, hiding you, and enjoying it alone slowly.
or above, a man just plays with you, or wants to develop a long-term relationship with you, "body language" has long exposed his true heart. If a man appears as soon as you have a need, the economic power is actively handed over to you, and has a clear plan for the future with you, it means that the man is taking this relationship seriously.
If you are lucky enough to meet such a sincere relationship and such a sincere man, you must know how to cherish it.
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