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Birth, old age, sickness and death. No one can escape, no one wants to face it but has to face it.
If that day really comes and your wife is gone, please be mentally prepared and make plans for the future.
No matter how strong you are, you will learn to give in and bow your head when you get old, especially after your wife leaves, you need to take the initiative to rely on three people, which is the guarantee of your life in your later years. These three people,
, can provide you with help when necessary, become your retreat, and make your old age more quality.
1: Your children don’t have to rely entirely on them, but they should be treated as a way out
The wife is gone, your greatest dependence and way out in your later years is your children. Although they may not be considerate in everything and take your emotions into consideration, with them, you will at least not be able to live in old age.
As long as you handle family and parent-child relationships well in your daily life, they will naturally not treat you too badly. After all, most people are filial and kind-hearted people. If you raise them and grow up, they should take care of you for the rest of your life.
However, they also have a lot of burden and pressure, and may feel overwhelmed.
As parents, we don’t want to cause trouble for them, so we won’t rely entirely on them and can help them when necessary, but no matter what, we must learn to treat them as a way out.
In this way, only when you can’t walk anymore and can’t take care of yourself can you have a place to go and someone can rely on it.
2: Enthusiastic and kind neighbors can provide timely help when you need it
There are many people who are unwilling to live with their children when they get old, feel uncomfortable and are afraid of causing trouble for their children, so they choose to live alone. Even if my wife is gone, she is lonely and lonely every day, and she will still happily accept the time she is alone.
In this case, you must know how to maintain good relationships with your neighbors, because when necessary, they will provide you with great help.
Once read a news that an elderly man living alone accidentally fell while taking a shower and almost lost his life. Fortunately, the neighbor heard the news and went to his house to knock on the door in time and sent him to the hospital, which saved his life.
As the saying goes, distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors.
Although those enthusiastic and kind neighbors cannot fully bear your life, you are together day and night and are familiar with each other. They can not only chat with you, relieve your loneliness, and give you spiritual comfort, but also provide you with substantial help. With them here, your later years will feel more secure.
3: Relatives who know how to repay kindness can be in line with you and take on the responsibility of taking care of you if necessary
In this world, everything has cause and effect. You may have forgotten the good things you did when you were young, but God will remember them, and those who have been helped by you will remember them.
If you are always a kind-hearted person and sincerely treat others, then you will plant Easter eggs for yourself along the way. You will never know how grateful you will be to you by chance.
Until one day, you find that you have something to do and need help, and the other party appears in time and provides help.
Only then will you wake up, it turns out that no good thing is done in vain.
Those relatives who know how to repay kindness are such an existence. If you have helped him, he will always remember that when you get old in the future, he will not even mind taking on the responsibility of taking care of you. Sometimes it is more reliable than your children.
This reminds us that we should maintain good relationships with relatives and see clearly who is worth dating and who is not worth dating. Only by giving your sincerity to the right person will you have more protection and blessings in the future.
Don’t be afraid of getting old, and don’t be anxious about what has not happened. You must believe that everything is the best arrangement. As long as you do everything well within your ability and manage every relationship well, then you have a clear conscience and just leave the rest to time.
If one day your wife is gone, don’t feel that you can’t live anymore. Adjust your mindset and you will have a new life and encounter new scenery.
Learn to take the initiative to rely on some people and learn to leave a way out for yourself. Your old age will be more guaranteed because of your wisdom.
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