Do you prefer to fall in love with such people?
When you are wronged, the other party will not only encourage you, comfort you, and coax you, but will also help you relieve stress.
When you share happiness, the other party will affirm you and will respond happily and positively.
When you give, the other party will be very grateful to you, hide your love in your heart, and love you with your actions. People like
are people with high emotional value.
so what is emotional value?
From a psychological perspective, emotional value is a person's ability to think of other people's emotions.
A person can bring comfort to others and have stable emotions, the higher his emotional value will be.
A person always makes you feel awkward, angry and embarrassed, the lower the emotional value you will see.
Maybe you are not as good as you thought, but you went there when you were with him. Very happy and very happy.
He will complain with you when you are wronged and want to complain about others, and then take you to eat delicious food to heal your inner pain.
He will give you firm affirmation when you fail to do things and fall into self-doubt.
When you are successful and proud of something, will he tell you to be humble and low-key in time?
It is obvious that this woman enjoys the emotional value provided by the other party in her marriage.
In the book "Intimate Relationship", Roland Miller proposed the interdependence theory .
points out that in intimate relationships, we all obtain the greatest reward value at the lowest cost, so we only maintain intimacy with partners who can provide sufficient benefits.
The so-called rewards here refer to two types:
1 is to obtain physical and satisfying items through contact with people, that is, material value;
2 is to invisible rewards such as pleasure and sense of accomplishment brought by contact with people, that is, emotional value.
In an intimate relationship, whether a person can provide emotional value to his partner largely determines the success or failure of a relationship.
Two people spend a long time together, and they will be more or less affected by each other's emotions.
The higher the emotional value of people, they know how to be responsible for their emotions, and can also provide positive emotions to the people around them and their lovers.
. People with low emotional value always want others to bear and relieve their bad emotions.
All comfortable and long-lasting love must provide enough emotional value.
emotion is essentially an exchange of value.
What did you bring to the other party? It determines whether your relationship can be maintained for a long time.
For ordinary people, when you can provide special value, then emotional value will be the greatest help in your journey in love, and you can gain the favor of the opposite sex more than others.
Many times your partner communicates with you may just need an outlet similar to emotions.
You can comfort her and follow his emotions first. Then he quietly solved the problems he revealed in time.
We should allow the other party to have emotions, and secondly, give the other party a sense of identity, and then give the other party a positive feedback.
You should know that feedback from positive positive content can guide your lover to shift his attention to positive things.
then put forward constructive opinions rather than negative ones to solve the problem.
Emotional value certainly has a great positive effect on a person, but at the same time, you must also learn to avoid being excessively demanded by others, otherwise it will be easy to be regarded as an emotional trash can by others and constantly consume your energy.
If one day you feel unhappy, you can try to organize your home, sweep away all the dust, give up the things you don’t need at home, and leave behind things that make you feel excited when you see them.
When you sort it out, your whole heart will be refreshed, so that you will be surrounded by the value of high energy every day, and your state will change accordingly.
Your state changes, which will also affect your object, your heart becomes soft and loving.
The higher the emotional value of a person, the higher the happiness.
Let us all become people with higher emotional value. May our love be sweet and lasting forever!
