I finally decided not to wait any longer because I was afraid that when I caught them in bed with my own hands, I would do stupid things and ruin many people. That time would not have ruined two families.
I found that my wife was abnormal. It was a month ago when I lived with her husband and wife, and she actually felt a little resistant. After a week, when I came again, my physiological reaction was obviously half a beat slower than before.
At the beginning of September, I felt completely cold. I subconsciously hugged her at night, and she even became disgusted. A few days ago, after her birthday, she wore a ring, saying that it was bought for 260 yuan. Based on my understanding of her, she couldn't wear such a cheap ring for a few days because she disliked the diamonds for our wedding ring more than ten years ago and refused to bring them.
I started looking for evidence and secretly took her mobile phone. She is actually not very smart and has a lot of evidence, and she left it inadvertently. I opened my phone and found that the password had not been changed. It was actually nothing if I changed it. My boss often used her mobile phone and WeChat records to open it. Sure enough, there was someone outside her.
The chat record on my phone was opened and read, and it completely collapsed. They have been together for more than a year, and my wife even had the idea to divorce and be with him. The content of the chat was unsightly. I really didn't expect that the proud woman would be like this.
I could no longer bear it and decided to show off. I let her see the chat history I took. She blushed suddenly. After a long time, she confessed. As expected, the ring was a birthday gift bought by her male colleague for her, more than 6,000 yuan.
Under my urge to ask, she talked about many details about them being together, and I could hear the murderous heart. She said she knew she was wrong and would definitely change. She would break off contact with that man, love me well and love this family. We already have two children, but this is the case. What should I do?
or above is a self-reported by netizens. Gu Feng suggested: If this happens, in order to minimize the damage, you have only two choices: either completely forgive her mistakes, work hard to repair the cracks, and go through the rest of your life; or completely give up and leave. Here, the most important thing is your attitude. No matter what your final choice is, it must be thorough.
If you are born with a strong temperament and cannot tolerate sand in your eyes, and you will definitely not tolerate your wife's emotional betrayal, including mental cheating , then just choose to give up.
If you cannot give up your marriage resolutely, whether for your children, for both parents, or for yourself, then choose to forgive completely, forget her betrayal and hurt, and try to live the present and grasp the future with her.
If you choose to forgive, you need to have a thorough talk with her. Whether the other party wants to continue the marriage and whether he has completely cut off his relationship with the outside world must be clear, otherwise forgiveness will only hurt yourself again. If she has no regrets, she says she will make changes today and commits it tomorrow, and will not change it again after repeated instruction, then there is no need to maintain this marriage.
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