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Why is he born into a human being?
In fact, for this question, like some people, I used to think it is a question that is meaningless and has no definite answer.
horizontally and vertically, without our choice, our parents decided to give us life, and we were born and passively alive.
As a child, apart from eating, drinking and having fun, he doesn’t know what the difference between living and dying is. When playing house with my friends, I really pretended to hold my breath and learned the tone of Lin Daiyu and said, "I'm going"...
At least, the time to play house is short and the game is over. The person who "got" is still alive, but I don't know whether he is living well!
When I made a mistake, I was scolded by my mother or even served by sticks, I thought it was good to "go" and there was no need to be beaten or scolded.
At that time, people always thought that if they "got", two white wings would grow on their backs and fly in the sky. If they see which one is better, they would be reborn in which one, and then live...
is ultimately a fantasy. When they grow up, they smile when they think of it, and when they tell others, that's it!
As we grow older, we begin to have a deep understanding of being alive and "dead". Especially when people reach middle age and experience the departure of their relatives, they realize:
This life, the time of living is really not as long as it imagined. Once you close your eyes, you really don’t care about your affairs!
When my father was alive, he often said:
It's going through so fast every day, in a flash...
Yes, it's going through so fast every day, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash, in a flash,
What exactly is the purpose of people living?
for money, for profit, or for love?
Different people seem to have their own correct understanding of living.
Just, the only saying for money, profit, and love seems to make people feel too biased.
Love can change, and money and profit cannot be accompanied at any time. If these do not exist, how should people "live"?
Basically, a nonsense statement is: living itself is for living, because people who are not afraid of the end of life do not want to "dead".
The more you experience, the more you understand that there is only one chance of life in life. The real answer to living is nothing more than: live up to this life!
Why am I alive? The answer is tear-jerking and healing:
First: Live, in order not to regret,
Before my father left, he called me by his side and told me:
for a lifetime, very quickly. No matter you are poor and rich, don’t let your heart be “not full”. The sentence
is indeed a beautified description of what I mean by my father. But it definitely made me truly realize what the real meaning of life is.
As my father's words continue to grow older, every time I think of them, I will have a deep enlightenment.
In real life, everyone is living for the sake of living, and everyone is also living in pursuit of "the answer to how to live better".
The more people experience, the more they will understand this as a truth:
The best meaning of people living is to live up to this only life!
Lived up to life, which is the sentence my father once said, "Don't let your heart be unfulfilled" - don't leave regrets, no regrets, no guilt!
In this life, most people have come to an end in just a few decades. Before closing your eyes, look at the world again. If you have less regrets, less regrets, less guilt, you will not live in vain in this life.
In real life, when dealing with people, when operating various relationships, we always feel tired and unhappy. That is because we forget to do less expectations and ask less, which is the root of our own comfort.
No matter whether our efforts and returns are balanced or imbalanced, as long as we are at peace, this is enough!
Second: Living is to "not make things difficult for oneself"
In fact, living itself is valuable and meaningful, but people often replace the meaning of living itself with self-difficulty.
Why are you so tired when you live, and you still have so hard to persevere?
is because, in your subconscious, you want to get a sense of comfort by "surviving" the current difficulties and fatigue.
Some people have paid too much for this down-to-earth comfort, but in the end they failed to achieve their wish.
In the personal concept of too many people, they always think that others are happier than themselves.
In this regard, when my father was alive, he said:
People cannot be idle, and people will become idle as soon as they are idle. Once you are free, you will be more upset.
Yes, people can't be too idle. Being busy is the best medicine to cure everything. Once a person is idle, he will act irrationally and develop some unrealistic ideas according to his emotions.
Once a person is idle, he will make things difficult for himself.
Some people will say, I am very busy, but I just feel that living is too painful.
In fact, the so-called busyness is to devote all your energy to people or things that are valuable, meaningful, and worthy. Only in this way can people suddenly realize "contentment and happiness" while paying attention to themselves positively.
It can be said that people have too many self-defenses come from paying attention to "not worth it" and ignoring the worth it.
The length of life is limited. If you put your life time on people or things that are not worth it, then the energy you leave behind will be self-defense and nothing else.
Conclusion:
What exactly is the purpose of people living?
Different people have different answers. However, more often, people still feel that this problem is not a "problem" at all, but a way to seek troubles.
However, after experiencing it, we realize that in fact, people pursue the real answer to life is a true self-growth and maturity.
When you understand that living is to not leave regrets, regrets, and guilt, and when you understand that living is to not make things difficult for yourself, then you will really have an epiphany in this solo journey of life.
Only then will you know how you should live, how you should live, and for why you should live!
At that time, you will understand the meaning and value of living, just to embrace everything worthy of it!
people, why are they alive? In order to cherish every time, to give your all in every encounter, to face every loss and calmly in every separation.
Life is a painful and short practice. Once you understand it thoroughly, you will be down-to-earth, comfortable and contented!
Love is the purgatory of people in the world. Whether it is love or friendship, only by meeting the right person at the right time can you achieve the right result!
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