" Ferryman " writes: "Every soul is unique, with its own virtues and faults. You look to the east and look to the west and see the shadows; the stinky tofu you like is something that others hate.
When you are walking with the wind, the person on the opposite side is moving against the wind. If you don't know how to think about from the perspective of , then you make the mistake of "save others' hearts with your own heart".
Writer Su Qin once said: "Life is actually very simple. If you don't cause trouble for yourself, life will not be messed with at all. No matter what situation you are in, you can't be confused.
We must understand after all: hating someone is the most expensive consumption in the world, because what we put in is our own efforts. When faced with cold and harsh words, don’t take them to heart. You must know that your mood is the most important thing.
In life, let yourself win in harmony and not lose to temper. When we open up the situation, our horizons will also improve, we will have a sense of energy in our hearts, and our mood will be more peaceful when dealing with things. When you are entangled with irrelevant people, it is your torture. Don’t show off your temper for a moment and let yourself fall into the trap of “emotions”.
A mature person often masters the good recipe of "not fighting, not paying attention, not being angry". May you cultivate a peaceful heart, in the noisy and noisy life, have a broad heart and eyes, stick to peace, and live the way you like.
However, in " Caigen Tan ", it says: "Transferring one step is high when dealing with the world, and regressing is progress; treating others with a little bit of blessing, benefiting others and making selfish foundation. The dilemma of life often lies in the comparison of interests and conflicts of emotions. Many times, if you choose to give in, things will have unexpected results.
Those who know how to hide their edge and keep their sloppy and give in within their bottom line are truly powerful people. The strong retreat because they are fearless; the wise let go because they have a lofty situation; the wise are indifferent, just for their own life.
Shakespeare once said: "Wisdom is part of fate, and the external environment that a person encounters will affect his mind. In the long journey of life, those inseparable friends are actually the helmsman who guides you.
During the days they spend together day and night, they will subtly shape your ambitions and morals, and participate in your growth and development. Choosing friends means choosing a lifestyle, which in turn determines your own destiny. Keep your eyes open and distinguish right from wrong, so that you will not be pushed into the abyss by people with ulterior motives.
Life is short, we don’t have to be obsessed with right and wrong, right and wrong, stay humble and restrained, and do whatever we want, so that we can laugh to the end. May you and I be calm when encountering problems, not fight or rob, let it go, and never regret the rest of my life, and never return to the old road.
In life, many times, we are walking alone in the postscript. Even if we have lovers around us, relatives depend on each other, and friends, we always feel that our world is separated by a thin layer of veil. You cannot see through others, and no one can see yourself clearly.
There is a kind of fatigue in your heart. Because no one understands it, you have to pretend to be strong. If you are so tired that you can't hold on, find a quiet corner, stay quietly alone, silently, give yourself a hug, give yourself some encouragement, and have a silent conversation with your heart.
In fact, this society has always been very realistic. Many people only care about how much wealth you have earned, but no one has ever felt sorry for how much suffering you have suffered. Walking on the noisy and lively streets, people are everywhere, and passers-by are everywhere, but no one is willing to stop the hasty steps for you.
No one can tell the pain; those pains are hard to say and difficult to stop! Countless thoughts are buried in the dark heart, unable to cross the river of one's heart, unable to reach the other side ahead, and can only swallow all emotions alone.
I don’t know when we started, but we became less talkative and silent; I don’t know when we can smile indifferently and feel relieved. As a human being, the stronger we need to be; the more tired we feel. The more you need to hold on and learn to be your own support. There is a kind of grievance that no one understands.The sufferings of life cannot be explained clearly or understood. No one understands grievances, so he can only hide them and endure them.
I don’t know if you have such a time, there is a smile on your face, but sadness is hidden in your heart; you say it doesn’t hurt, but turn around but burst into tears. No one understands that kind of grievance. When all the grievances gather, you can only count the sad despair alone. No one understands, and even the boundless night dare not cry.
How many times have you been crying silently in your heart, wanting to tell someone about your heart, telling your grievances, searching through WeChat, but no one can say a word. I thought I had many friends, but I finally realized it.
are just passing by, with a deep conversation, and there are countless friends around you, but there are really no one intimate. In fact, there is a story in our life that is unforgettable. Some can be shared with others, while others can only be savored by themselves.
There are not so many empathy in this world. There are always some grievances that no one can understand, and no one likes to suffer grievances, but no one can avoid being wronged. Some grievances are destined to be understood by no one. If you suffer, you will suffer. There is no need to let others understand. What can make us come out of grievances is only ourselves, and only ourselves, who understand ourselves the best, and resolve the knot in our hearts.
In life, someone understands it, it’s really good! There is a kind of happiness that someone understands. In the world, a cup of hot tea warms the body; a word of understanding warms the heart; the truest possession is me; the most beautiful feelings are I understand. What we seek in our lives is nothing more than someone caring, someone knows you, there is a smile in your eyes, and there is a warm heart.
Those who understand you will understand your heart and your world. When you are sad, those who understand you will accompany you. Even if you don’t have too many words, companionship is the longest confession; when you want to speak but stop, he can see through your loss, feel sorry for your hardships, understand your sadness, and understand your efforts.
This understanding is the tacit understanding between the hearts. That touch is enough to dispel the fatigue in your heart, warm your life, help you release your troubles, listen to your heart, be your companion to speak freely, and let your spirit soothe; give you a love that never leaves, and let your soul rest.
Sometimes I am really lonely on the road of life. If someone can understand you, worry about you, and comfort you, you must be content. The greatest happiness in life is that someone holds an umbrella for you in the wind and rain, someone stretches out his hand for you in the suffering, someone understands it, it is gratitude; someone hurts it, it is satisfaction.
I like Yu Hua in " shouting in the drizzle ": I no longer pretend to have many friends, but I returned to loneliness and started my own life with the real me. There is joy everywhere in the world.
A truly sober person no longer goes to one bustle after another, and no longer needs to draw satisfaction from the crowd. They know how to settle themselves, and they can enjoy all the scenery wherever they see.
Life is like the sun and the moon, using its own light and heat to sense every flower and grass in the world. Life is like wind and rain, and you use your own mood and attitude to echo the ups and downs in life.
The years passed by are kept in memory, and it has become the background color of life experience in a beautiful way. The future self is beautiful in your mood, and with a healthy mindset, it turns into sunny every day of your life. Write to the years with your heart, inspiring the neon colors of life; write to yourself with your love, inspiring the real experience of life.
Faced with the years, we are worthy of our original choice. Everyone lives in a specific era, and we cannot choose the era, just as we cannot choose our own parents. No matter which era, there are life scenes under the background of the times.
Life is personal, we are lucky to have our own life choices. Choice is the only power in life that reflects self-esteem, freedom and autonomy, and no one can replace us.
Life is like the scene of the four seasons, and there will be wind, rain and sunshine in anyone's life. The sun lives in the moon, and the pearls flow and jade turns. Looking back on the years, we deserve it.
Facing with the years, we don’t complain about the hardships we have ever been.We walk on the path we choose, although there are wind and rain, we are still strong; although there are difficulties, we are willing to strive forward.
Those storms sometimes become reasons for parents to complain about us, and sometimes they also become determination to strengthen our will. We have always lived in our ideals and always believed in the truth that "there is effort and hope".
Times are like a small boat, carrying us all the way to this day. Today's happy life is far away from the sky and has faded the hardships of the past. Thinking of the hardships I suffered back then, it has become a topic of conversation that I am interested in now.
Facing with the years, we are moved by the tranquility of the present. People grow old for a year and rice grow old for a night. We walked into the ranks of the sunset without knowing it. When I was young, I loved being lively and following the trend, not afraid of staying up late, not afraid of working hard, working overtime, and being full of energy. Now that I have retired, I have become quiet.
The meaning of quietness is to be content with your own life and not cause trouble to others; quietness means not bothering or catching up with others, and living a life of regular work and rest.
In the years of old age, let us be at peace with the evening scene of life, not running or busy, just for good health; not fighting or robbing, just for cheerful mood. Life tells us that change is the norm, and mentality affects life.
Facing with yesterday's self, we understand the true meaning of gains and losses. A person's life is a process of constantly understanding oneself and understanding one's life; a person's life is also a process of constantly understanding oneself and understanding one's life; a person's life is even more a contradiction between gain and loss.
In order to gain fame and fortune and happiness in life, we have spent our time and effort, and sometimes we ignore the filial piety for personal progress or the growth of our children.
When you are old, calm down and look back at the path you have taken. You can't help but wake up. There are trade-offs of gains and losses in every stage of life. How can you generalize it?
Facing with our current self, we understand the meaning of right and wrong. " Platform Sutra of the Sixth Patriarch " says: "If a true practitioner does not see the faults of the world; if he sees the faults of others, he is wrong, but he is the only one who is wrong." If he is a true practitioner, he will not see the faults of the world; if he only sees the faults of others, then it can only indicate the deviations and mistakes of one's own thinking.
Huineng Master tells us that everyone has their own perspective on things, and everyone lives in their own philosophy of life. There is no need to argue about the truth, and there is no standard for things outside of the truth. Keeping your heart well and staying away from the arguments of right and wrong is the best care for yourself.
Facing with tomorrow's self, we let go of the source of our worries. Yesterday’s living state is the cause of today’s physical and mental state; today’s physical and mental state is the result of tomorrow’s life. Everyone lives in their own cause and effect.
Cause and effect tell us that every trouble has its source, and every happiness has its cause. After experiencing the ups and downs of life, we understand this truth.
As long as you don’t care about other people’s business, you will feel free and clear; as long as you don’t ask for a discount, you will not be deceived; as long as you are kind and moderate and do not seek rewards, you will not be angry and regretful. As long as we cut off the source of troubles, our mood will get better and better.
years are the record that life gives us to perceive the course of life; ourselves are another me who we learn to reflect on life in life. The reason why life is beautiful is because we have a beautiful heart; the reason why life is precious is because we understand the love for life and the concern for our relatives and friends.
Since ancient times, anyone with outstanding talents and strong abilities has suffered more hardships than ordinary people, and even their lifespan will not be too long. Because having anything higher than usual is a special grace from the Creator and requires a particularly humble heart to carry it.
If a person is given grace that transcends ordinary people, but he does not know how to be humble and low-key, does not know how to be grateful and thank, and regards this grace as his own ability, he will turn from a benefactor to an ungrateful person.
The world is a world of fate, but it is just a matter of destiny; a little deep love is just a matter of destiny. An encounter is a splendor of flowers blooming; a sorrow of separation is a desolation of flowers falling.
A thought of flowers blooming, deep love and long meaning; a thought of flowers falling, the fingertips are slightly cool.The days I want are flowers, tea, poetry, wine, you and dreams, old friends will not part, the world will not be too late, the years will be safe, and the rivers and mountains will be expected!
The ancients said that wood is outstanding in the forest and wind will destroy it. This means that only by focusing on one's own affairs, not being too arrogant, not being able to show off, and putting all his thoughts on polishing oneself can one make one's own better.
The principle is very simple. If a small seedling wants to grow into a big tree, it must first take root and then slowly grow upwards, so that it can withstand the test of wind and rain and thrive. If there is no deep root system, the higher the growth, the more dangerous it is.
Look at a person’s beliefs, it depends on whether his attitude towards people is humble or proud. If it is the former, it means that he has awe in his heart. If it is the latter, it means that his faith only stays on the surface.
The former knows that everything comes from the Creator and that everything will eventually belong to the Lord, so he will never be arrogant, will not be arrogant, will not be arrogant, and will not be arrogant. A truly faithful person takes himself very lowly, down to the dust.
When a person bent down, his backbone is upward. This is a posture that carries grace, and it also means that he is on the way uphill. When a man performs five times on time, it means that he is ready to welcome the grace of the Creator.
He is a true humble person, and he will definitely be helped by the Lord. The merciful Lord said: "People who believe in and do good, and who are humble to their Lord are all residents of the paradise, and they will live forever."
A person's lifelong moral cultivation, including all aspects, can be said to be endless, in continuous improvement. Among them, what is particularly important and is particularly easy to be overlooked is a person's oral moral cultivation.
There is no need to make real efforts or achieve any brilliant results when speaking. With a population, you can say whatever you want and say whatever you want. It depends entirely on your own habits, and it is determined by the situation at that time, mood and mentality at that time. I inadvertently committed many sins for no reason. It can be said that a person who can truly control his "mouth" has won the last one and laughed to the last one.
Don’t easily evaluate the good or bad of others, because it’s all other people’s business and they don’t affect your meal. Everyone has their own instinct to speak and do things, and they have rights and obligations. What the other party says and does is determined by his own knowledge, habits, and literacy.
If you can't stand it and can't understand it, it's best not to read it. Because you may not fully know the purpose of others doing this, and what you see may be just a superficial phenomenon. If you make comments, it may have a bad impact on others.
Don’t evaluate other people’s virtues at will, because you may not be nobler than him. If you see others doing something badly and judge them with the so-called "moral standards" and think that they have no quality, no cultivation, and their moral character is corrupt, there is no need to do so.
Because people may not have done it on purpose, it may be an unintentional act, or they may not understand such rules and principles. You can make good-willed reminders and may get better results.
If you directly contempt or even criticize and scold, it is not a wise move. We should reflect on ourselves more, and how are we doing ourselves?
Don't give guidance to other people's families, because this has nothing to do with you. As the saying goes, "It is difficult for a clean official to make a decision on family affairs." There are many trivial matters in a family, and there is no conclusion on the contradictions and disputes, right and wrong. Because family talks about love and has special emotions, they cannot be copied strictly using the so-called "theory".
How are other people's families doing? They will deal with it themselves, slowly digest it, and slowly integrate it. As outsiders, it is best not to intervene casually. How did you deal with your family relationship?
Don’t evaluate other people’s knowledge, because learning is endless, and what is most lacking in the world is knowledge. The so-called "knowledge" does not mean that you have as much knowledge as you read or understand.It is how many people you really apply it to your actual life and work and actually produce good results.
If you have read a lot of books and have a high education, but in fact you are not good at all. It is not as good as an ordinary person who doesn’t know big words and has never read books in a day, then such knowledge is fake knowledge and is not worthy of the envy of others.
No matter what other people’s “knowledge” is, it is the result of their own cultivation and practical application. It is best to learn from the good and reflect on yourself when you see the bad.
Plain seems simple, but it is actually very difficult. Peace is not only an external manifestation of a person's inner richness, but also the best cultivation on the road of life.
Life is like the sea, sometimes turbulent, sometimes calm, always in a dynamic balance. A true strong man can face it calmly when encountering wind and waves and not be afraid of danger; when encountering tranquility, he can enjoy the beauty without fear of loneliness.
Emotion is a true portrayal of a person's inner heart. A peaceful person often has a peaceful and comfortable heart and a rich and beautiful state of mind; an irritable person often has a petty mind and a villain's inner world. Therefore, only by controlling your emotions can you discover different beauty.
A person with a calm mind is not because of his own weakness and incompetence, but an attitude of knowing how to control life. If you treat problems in life in a rough and barbaric way, it will only expand the problem and will be of no use to solve the problem. Therefore, you must think calmly and deal with it calmly in order to develop in a good direction.
In the road of life, you are often walking alone. You must learn to regulate your emotions, because when telling others, others may not understand you, comfort you, and may even laugh at you. There are many things that are not suitable to tell others, and they are more suitable to be buried in the heart.
Life is impermanent. Even if your heart is already in chaos, you must maintain a peaceful attitude towards life. Because if you always put your emotions on your face, you will not be able to break through the constraints that emotions bring to you.
will bring endless troubles to your life. So, the way of life is important. In life, it is impossible to be as satisfactory as possible. Learn to maintain peace of mind. Only in this way can the path of life be smoother and smoother.
Life is a platform that requires you to keep climbing. Only when we dare to move forward, constantly break through ourselves, and become better selves can we have the opportunity to succeed on the big stage of life.
Some people have always been confused about their work because of their poor character, thus losing many opportunities. Guo Degang said: If a person loses his character, he dares to do anything. However, if a society loses his character, everything may happen.
In dealing with people, we should maintain the minimum kindness and keep the bottom line in our hearts so that we can better show ourselves to the world and become a truly powerful person.
On the road of life, don’t be confused when you are sober, so that you can become a truly powerful person. Work hard and don’t pretend to be confused. There is a saying that goes very well. Work hard may not necessarily lead to success, but giving up will definitely fail.
Some people like to pretend to work hard. For example, when you were in school, you sat in your room and read at night. Others thought that this was you working hard, but in fact you were reading novels, but something that had nothing to do with learning. This is not hard work, but a fool of yourself.
Many times, the reason why people cannot succeed is because they fool themselves, but reality will not fool you. Whether you have worked hard or not, reality will eventually write the answer in your future life. Being confused may cause you to fall into the abyss and not keep up with the progress of the times.
Many people habitually think that they have worked very hard, but they don’t know that people who are better than you have to work harder. What qualifications do you have to fool yourself? A truly powerful person never pretends to be confused, especially when it comes to working hard. Only those who have worked hard can grasp it, and those who pretend to work hard can't seize the opportunity even if the opportunity stays by your side.
Fellowship, don’t pretend to be confused about others. Whether it is family, love, friendship, or business contacts, colleagues in the unit, etc., don’t think you are very smart, and you can fool others unscrupulously. Everyone is an adult, and no one is stupid!
Getting along with people will involve feelings, and fooling is a very unfriendly approach. However, many people think they are very smart and think that pretending to be confused can fool you. They don’t know that you can’t deceive anyone except those who truly trust you. The little monk Yichan once said: The stupidest person in the world is the person who pretends to be confused in his relationship.
Show your sincerity to get along with others, and you will receive sincere feedback at any time, so that your life path can be smoother, and meet more people who are willing to treat you honestly. If you can't do it, you will naturally not be able to win people's hearts and will eventually pay the price for it.
Really powerful people often do not pretend to be confused, and they will not pretend to be confused in their relationship and dare to face this bleak life. Dare to be sincere is something that many people will never do in their entire lives. Don’t fool anyone like a fool. In fact, what you fool is not others, but yourself.
error, don’t pretend to be confused and fool anyone. Many people make mistakes, and the first thing they do is to find reasons to comfort themselves, and then comfort the people around them. Then they will be fooled by themselves, thinking that everyone has made this mistake and they can’t take it seriously at all.
There are also some people who will quickly push the blame to others, as if they have not made any mistakes. They always want to pretend to be confused, but never really learn from their mistakes.
not only offends people because of this, but also does not really grow up. This is the most confused behavior of a person. It seems to fool everyone, but in fact you are the stupidest one.
admits errors and is a good quality. Because only by daring to admit your mistakes can you learn from them and make up for your mistakes. Next time you encounter the same thing, you will know how to solve them.
Really powerful people often dare to admit their mistakes and analyze well why they are wrong. They will naturally do better next time, and at the same time help others around them.
Dare to take responsibility, know how to lower your attitude, and not pretend to be confused by anyone at critical moments, so that you can strengthen yourself and make yourself better.
In this life, we need to constantly correct our attitudes. In the process of hard work, when interacting with others, when making mistakes, only by real efforts, real feelings, and real responsibility can we achieve ourselves, live a more pattern and become more powerful.
Character should be thick and personality should be high; feelings should be concentrated and passionate to others; be generous and strong in doing things; people should be warm and get along with each other; hearts should be warm and image should be graceful; look at people, have an angle, and have an attitude towards others.
A rich life lies in personality and character, and a full life lies in quality and enthusiasm. As long as you have a good attitude, you will have a good life; if you have a good mood, you will have a good life; if you have a good attitude, you will have a good future. Cultivate a normal mind and look at worldly affairs with a smile. As long as you have a good attitude, you can enjoy the blessings of the world.
When dealing with people, you must first be passionate, then sincerity, then thickness, and finally respect people's character. But it is not easy to truly obtain good character. We need to sow with sincerity, water with enthusiasm, and cultivate with principles. Only by understanding how hard it is, can we experience and cherish it with our heart.
In the slow journey of life, no one can go through his life alone, so it is really not easy to gain true character. It is hard to buy, and it is the precious wealth you have obtained during the long growth process of a person. You must cherish your cultivation.
What a man gives women is love; what a woman gives men is love. In life, if you give in front of your family, the family will be more harmonious; if you give in front of your brothers and sisters, the blood relationship will be closer; if you give in between friends and colleagues.
Interpersonal relationships will be more harmonious. These give in to one’s kind of family ritual, and give in to one’s kind of sincerity and friendship.Don’t regard concessions as a loss. People who can make concessions must be people with good education and high quality.
let, not a kind of surrender, but a kind of generousness. Let it be reduced, unnecessary worries, and more visible beauty in your life. If you can give in, you are the winner. If you give in, you are the wise man; if you give in, you will accumulate your character step by step.
The clearness of water is not because it contains no impurities, but because it is about knowing how to settle; the transparency of the mind is not because there are no distracting thoughts, but because it is about understanding choices.
This is also the true manifestation of a person’s personality charm. All those who have achieved great enlightenment have never been hopeless. If the heart is not dead, the Tao will not arise. If the road is at its end, then it will be like a broken bamboo.
When your heart begins to become cold and alone, your eyes become more and more firm, your actions are decisive, and you are only thinking about how to improve yourself, you will know that you are reborn in golden armor. If the body is not bitter, then the blessings and wealth are not strong, and if the heart is not bitter, then wisdom will not be opened.
Your temperament hides the path you have walked, the books you have read, the people you have met, and the things you have experienced. Everyone is unique and the most unique. Be brave and love yourself.
There are two ways to turn around: one is to do it, and the other is to learn; if you don’t know how to learn, and if you have any ideas, you do it. Please cherish the moment in your mind when you want to make money, which is the signal that the universe sends to you to save yourself.
The beauty of life has no boundaries, and every encounter will make this beauty more and more abundant. The more you experience, the more you can appreciate the beauty of life, and the more you will become.
nothing is destined. The external world is a presentation of our inner world. We are the creators of our own lives, and we are the masters of our own lives. I do everything, I change everything.
When you have a low status, you are humble to others. This is not a great thing. But it is a great and rare act to remain humble when you are praised. Sincerity and integrity, love is invincible, faithful, conscience is grateful, compassionate, tolerant, and joyful, selfless and innocent.
Emotion is a feast of life. If you can have the company of your heart, it is the highest level of resonance and empathy with . Although we do not see each other, we are still happy; although we are guarding time and space, we are warm in our hearts; although we are silent and quiet, we become eternal.
Cherish your acquaintance and cherish your fate. No matter how far or short you are, you will leave your warmth in your memory. Let’s join each other, sing happily, laugh and be happy all the way, until eternal.
Our stormy life is indeed full of emotion. Although it is so painful that it is far beyond words, there is no need to say it out loud. Even though love has reached the end and penetrated into the bone marrow, I can only experience it with my heart. Although sometimes we may be abandoned at the bottom of life, we must be the most simple and purest people in our hearts.
In fact, life is the rise of fireworks and the distance. Life abused me thousands of times, and I treated life like my first love. If you treat life as happiness, it will nurture you; if you treat life as leisure, it will enrich you; if you treat life as gymnastics, it will temper you.
If you treat life as sunshine, it will nourish you; if you treat life as a paintbrush, it will shape you; if you treat life as a interpretation, it will bloom you. If you treat life as a platform, it will make you successful. So no matter how busy we are, we cannot forget life and love life.
As you get older, you will find that the truth is thorny, the truth is toxic, and you will have fewer and fewer things to say, and more and more things to keep in your heart. The road you have walked can be remembered; the person you have met.
cannot be forgotten; those who are destined to be cherished even more; may we all be healthy, happy, happy and happy. You must remember those who hold umbrellas for you in the heavy rain, those who help you block out things, and those who silently hug you in the dark.
Life is a storm, health is the vault, kindness earns peace, happiness wins wealth, tolerance hides contentment, gratitude adds longevity, three treasures in life: happiness, happiness, and good health.
's true generosity to the future is to dedicate the most outstanding efforts to the present and cherish everything in the present; intelligence is relative, but diligence is eternal.In life, one must have a thickness; one must have a height; one must have a strong relationship.
In the process of getting along with people, you can see a person clearly through some details. It is said that the glory of the world is not as good as a true friend. In the long years, we will meet many people, and time will leave behind sincere people.
Some people will accompany you for a while, and some people may accompany you for the rest of their lives. A true good friend is always the one who will accompany you until the end. Everyone has their own temperament and meeting the right person is a blessing, and meeting someone who looks down on you is also a normal state.
There is no need to pay attention to those who look down on you. No matter how good you do in this world, there will always be people who don’t like you. There is no need to be sad because someone who doesn’t like you and looks down on you. Therefore, we must learn to stay away from those who look down on you and leave time to those who care about you.
People who look down on you will not sincerely hope you will be well. In this world, some people may be polite on the surface, but in fact they don’t know how dark it is. Those who look down on you are always people who don’t want you to live a good life from the bottom of their hearts. If you live a good life, they will ridicule and look down on you.
Human nature is always like this. If you live a good life, others will be jealous and even slander them in various ways. This way to comfort yourself. In fact, such a person has never only himself in his eyes and he doesn't care about others at all. No matter when, you must learn to distinguish whether a person is sincere or false.
The kind of person who pretends to be good to you on the surface, but puts some damage when you are in the trough, says it is luck when you succeed, and never really sees your efforts. Such people stay away as soon as possible. When getting along with others, stay away from those who consume you and look down on you.
People who look down on you habitually deny you. There is always such a person who always habitually denies it, which will hit your self-confidence no matter what you do. Such a person has never really understood you and will not treat you sincerely.
A true friend has always been the one who knows how to encourage, comfort you, and give you strength. People who look down on you will be very little tolerant of you and will not understand you. Instead, they will deny your value and cannot see your highlights.
Life is long, don’t be consumed by those who deny you. Learn to stay away from people who consume you, look down on you, and give you negative energy. Maybe you are not perfect, but you should not be slandered. You also have your own qualities and deserve to be loved.
People who look down on you will not treat you with care. Many times, whether a person is sincere or false is actually based on his attitude towards you. Sometimes, people's hearts can be seen from the details. Those who treat you sincerely will treat you with their heart.
In our lives, we will encounter various setbacks and difficulties, and we will encounter storms. Those who love you will help you when you need it and stay by your side. And false people will only stay away from you when they encounter difficulties and will even hurt you.
I have to say that people who look down on you will only hope that you will get worse and worse, and will never treat you sincerely, because they believe in their hearts that you are not worthy of this. Therefore, stay away from those people in life, and don’t let them consume your life and block your development.
On the road of life, we will meet all kinds of people. Some people will teach you how to grow, and some people will make you a better person. For those who look down on you and attack you, stay away as soon as possible.
In fact, it is important to see people clearly in life. If you are with different people, you will have different lives. Never be influenced by others. Only by staying away from those who consume you can you become better. Don’t waste time and energy for people who are not worth it. You should spend your time loving yourself.
Life is too short, I don’t have time to hate that long time for a person.” It is best to use precious time to read books and study, drink tea and enjoy flowers, and travel and relax.
When you plant flowers in your heart, you will see fragrance, and your feet will step on a smooth road; when you are full of seeds of hatred, you will be full of loneliness and sadness. In this life, no matter how hard you work, you will not be able to get out of the siege of regret and resentment.
In life, be the one who heals yourself. Go out, watch the birds calling friends, watch the flowers blooming, watch the lush growth of grasses, watch the white clouds dancing. There are so many cute and romantic things in nature that are worthy of our deep love and exploration throughout our lives.
Those countless lovely and romance in the world are like pieces of sweet candies, sweet and intoxicating, making people forget their sorrows and worries, and put into the arms of relief and tranquility. A heart will be resurrected without realizing it and full of fighting spirit.
If the beauty of nature and lovely creatures is still not healing the wounds that lie in the heart. It is not placed at dawn or dusk, facing the wind and the fragrance of flowers, letting all limbs and bones stretch and move. When every cell in the body is activated by movement, happiness is born from the heart, fulfillment is fulfillment, and we are healthier.
People live for a lifetime, and the fame, wealth, money we pursue will not belong to us in the end, only health is our greatest capital. Only by having health can you have happiness and happiness.
When you give up your health, life cannot get out of the trough and life cannot escape from the shackles. Only by not competing for life is wisdom. Only by not competing with trees and grass can we become pillars of the masses, and only by not competing with the sea and river can we achieve magnificent waves.
. There is no need to live a life without being able to live with others, and there is no need to live with ourselves and make ourselves unhappy. We have always been happy that we are brewed by ourselves, even if we don’t have flowers or wine in our hands.
only has limes and persimmons. You can handle every gift of life with your heart. In the end, it can become a gift of destiny and a powerful auxiliary to our transformation and growth.
On the road of life, if you have help, cherish it, and rely on yourself if you don’t have help. When we take advantage of the gains and losses, love and hate, do not fight, do not complain, do not hate or give up on ourselves, fate will extend an olive branch to us.
On the way of life, don’t create regrets for the sake of regrets, and don’t brew pain for the sake of pain. Go forward, don’t look back, walk through the troubles of troubles and resentment, and get out of the troubles of loss and confusion.
Go close to the sun, listen to the song of birds, meet interesting people in life, and let life open a new chapter in the endless progress, and you will naturally encounter new surprises and new harvests.
"This person is like a rainbow, and you will know that there is something when you meet it." In the depths of time, there will definitely be someone with feelings, love and hope to stop and wait for you. Although love will be late, it will come eventually. It’s just that before it comes, you must try your best to be yourself.
You must live a sunny, interesting, fulfilling, warm, cute and charming life. You must live bravely, strongly, and dare to take responsibility. You must be healthy and happy. In this way, the God of Luck and the people who love you can find you in the light.
Life is full of gains and losses, and if you do something wrong, you will bear it. If you lose love, you will search for it. If your heart is broken, you will repair it. As long as you are unwilling to be trapped in the dark city, no one can stop you from moving towards a happy future, and no one can stop you from finding a better self.
For the rest of your life, be a warm person, warm yourself and warm others. For the rest of my life, be a lovely person and use the cuteness of the purpose to heal all the unlovely things in my heart.
For the rest of our life, be a person who can heal yourself, use the medicine in your heart to relieve the poison of the years, and use the sweetness of life to relieve the bitterness of life. In this way, we can become a person who can live a happy life without relying on others.
Life is a journey, from crying, going to suffering, and thorns everywhere, allowing us to deeply feel what the "sweet, sweet, bitter and spicy" in the world is. Everything you experience is actually a good thing.
We have never tasted the "taste of the world", so our life is a bit regretful after all. If we have not experienced "twisting and ups and downs", then our understanding will not be much higher in the end.
In your opinion, what is the biggest "destiny" in a person's life? Some people may say that they have countless money; others may say that they have accomplished an amazing career. However, all this is just a passing cloud.
In the face of time, all fame and fortune will disappear. Only our "enlightenment" can "highlight extraordinary" in time.You should know that the meaning of a person in this life lies in "having the power of thought".
Regarding the various aspects of life like a journey, Mr. Yu Qiuyu wrote in "Cultural Journey": "Great wisdom is not a group, great kindness is not a helper, why not be afraid of being alone, and why not be slander."
These four points are the great wisdom of ordinary people to "establish themselves in the world" and are also the "understanding" brought to us by this journey of life. It can be said that being at ease when you hear the truth is the greatest wealth in life. There is a kind of wisdom called great wisdom not being a whole. A sage says that a gentleman is not a group, but he is not a tool.
roughly means that a gentleman chooses to be unsociable, just like a vessel with no fixed purpose, can freely choose his own life, consciously cultivate his character, and live out his true appearance in the complex world. We have heard the word "not group" for
, but how many people can do it? Generally speaking, in the world where people come and go, those who choose to "ungroup" will face great pressure on "interpersonal relationships".
Some people will be excluded by others because of being unsociable, some people will be targeted by others because of being unsociable, and some people will become thorns in others' eyes and thorns in their flesh because of being unsociable.
Especially in the interpersonal relationship field, who dares to get rid of the "group" and live? , however, because people are too fond of themselves, they become more and more numb as they live, as if they are puppets, and they have no room for their own choice in the group. In this way, how could it be wisdom?
has a kindness, called "Great Goodness and No Help". In your opinion, what is true "good intention"? It is a pity that in daily life, many of the people and things we come into contact with actually do not have good intentions, but have more "hypocrisy". The essence of this hypocrisy is "evil".
For example, those who are morally kidnapped think that they are on the commanding heights of morality and are good people. For example, those who speak benevolence, righteousness, morality and are overly artificial, are just trying to cover up the truth.
True kindness is not about being full of benevolence, righteousness and morality, nor about helping others at will, but about knowing how to treat people around you equally and maintaining a heart that "it is better to teach people how to fish than to teach people how to fish".
First of all, the overflowing kindness is useless because it cannot help others. Secondly, the real help is to let others learn to "make a living for themselves". This is the right way.
The so-called "great goodness is helpless" seems contradictory, but in fact, it is a "open source" way, allowing yourself and others to explore the source of your own life and live a healthy life. Although it is hard work, it also gains a lot.
has a kind of courage, called "Why fear of being alone. The "why fear of being alone" mentioned here is actually related to the "great wisdom is not a group" mentioned above. Only by first achieving great wisdom and being alone can one achieve the state of being afraid of being alone.
What is the fear of loneliness? It is our heart that will no longer be affected by "lostness". Even if you are a person, you can continue to advance like an army, becoming more and more courageous as you live, and become more confident as you live.
Why can’t modern people be afraid of being alone? First of all, it is because they are afraid of being "isolated" by others. Secondly, they do not have strong strength or courage in their hearts.
Someone says a few words and we will feel uncomfortable inside. If others are a little bit excluding us, we will feel that we have done something wrong. Isn’t this a manifestation of “not confident”?
People come to this world not to live for the opinions of others, nor for the words of others, but for their own pursuits. Walking like a lone wolf without fear is the real courage.
has a kind of indifference, called "why fear of slander". The word "slander" is actually very interesting. Although it is very similar to the word "slander", its connotation is completely different. It can be said that no fear of slander is a state of extreme indifference.
The so-called "slander" is to slander others tell lies and add fuel to the fire to frame us. The so-called "slander" means that others not only belittle our personality, but also suppress our value of existence.
In the world, what you and I fear is exactly the word "slander". For the sake of others' words, we will fight with others, and for the sake of other people's contemptuous eyes, we will die with others.
Such practices are actually too impulsive and immature. Mr. Lin Yutang once said that in life, you are just laughing at others, and others laughing at you.
Some words are good as jokes; some ridicule are good as ignorance; some doubts are good as ignorance. Only when a person has such enlightenment can he stand firm in the world where material desires are flowing.
encourage each other!
Author: Qingmiao
