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People are old and gradually hate themselves when facing their children. Don’t feel helpless. Otherwise, they will feel helpless. In fact, many times, by relying on themselves, changing their own small environment will affect the surrounding environment.
1. If you can not interfere with your children’s housework, don’t interfere with your children’s housework. You should work hard to get along with your children, and you should focus on the big and let go of the small, do what you do, and don’t do what you don’t do. When faced with small things in daily life, don’t interfere if you can, so that you will be at peace with your children, just like two parallel lines, and you won’t easily have intersections. Since children have already started a family, they will have their own family. The relationship naturally needs to be long-term. Don’t treat children as children as children as always. Letting go appropriately means retreating to advance, so that children can gradually learn to deal with all matters in life. And don’t worry too much about your children. As the saying goes, children and grandchildren have their own blessings. Worrying is often a worrying thing. Then again: children need space for growth and time for development. If you don’t want to be annoying, you need to avoid restraining your children everywhere.
2. When you go out, don’t scold your children’s partner to everyone
After your children get married, they will welcome their daughter-in-law or son-in-law. Even if they are dissatisfied with their daughter-in-law or son-in-law, don’t tell outsiders casually. In addition to watching the fun and not afraid of trouble, outsiders will also provoke discord and add fuel to the fire. Even if there is no ears between the wall, outsiders who are gloating will spread rumors through the way of spreading rumors, and even if they spread to their children’s partner, family conflicts will become more and more intense. Don’t think that just blaming your daughter-in-law or son-in-law is actually indirectly criticizing your children. After all, your children and your partner share honor and disgrace, so you will prosper and lose together. In order to avoid the trouble coming from the mouth, go out and say good things about your children and partners appropriately, and try to reduce the probability of losing your words to a lower level.
3. Eliminate disrespect for old people
As elders of children, they need to set an example. After all, what they do will eventually generate textbooks for teaching by words and deeds. If you are strict with yourself, it will become a positive textbook for your children; if you act recklessly, it will become a negative textbook for your children. In order to win the respect of children, you need to seek benefits and avoid harm in your later years, and become respected elderly people as much as possible, and prevent the tragedy of losing their health in advance. In the long run, you will find that children do not gradually hate themselves, but gradually like themselves, from being welcomed in a small family to being welcomed by everyone. Personal charm will become a source of popularity among people around you, and it is a universal truth.
Conclusion: When children gradually dislike themselves, don’t sit idly by. You should check for omissions and fill in the gaps first, and then correct them if there is something. If there is nothing, you should encourage them. The reason why you need to be prepared for danger in times of peace is because prevention is better than treatment.
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