The wife who has been waiting for 39 years before waiting for her is a "liability burden"...
Story provider: 39-year-old Mr. Zheng
My hometown is poor, I have no house or car in the city, and my job is not decent and my income is not high. So much so that I am almost forty and still a single male.
Home was very worried about my lifelong affairs, and the village within a radius of ten miles was previously damaged. The age-appropriate, divorced, single parents, widows...
arranged blind dates for me, but in the end I was disliked by them one by one.
Because my parents are in their 70s, my eldest sister is paralyzed at home and needs someone to take care of her.
Just like that, after spending, I reached 39 years old.
I thought I would be a bachelor for the rest of my life, but I didn’t expect that the sky opened my eyes and let me meet Ali.
Ali is 36 years old and works in a bath center.
Because I often press my feet, I got a lot of package cards from her. After a while, I got to know each other.
Ali is a very gentle woman, but she is also a miserable woman.
She got married three times and divorced three times.
The first time was when she was 19 years old, she was arranged by her parents to marry a 28-year-old man in the next village with some savings.
After marriage, she has been taking care of her parents-in-law in her hometown, and her husband has been working in the city to earn money.
Four years after marriage, Ali Lian gave birth to two daughters and was sowed by her parents-in-law and divorced.
Ali was kicked out like this.
When she was 25 years old, she was helping people wash their hair in the county hair salon and fell in love with a hair stylist who was 10 years older than her.
The hairstylist already has a family but doesn't tell her. Ali is confused and becomes a third party.
After they dated, Ali became pregnant, so she secretly registered for marriage, without a wedding or a wedding banquet.
They also concealed their parents, as well as all their colleagues and friends around them.
But less than a month after marriage, the hairstylist's ex-wife arrived at the hair salon.
Before everyone could react, she poured the red paint that had been prepared in her hand on Ali.
It turns out that the hairstylist has been married for 8 years and has a pair of children in his hometown.
But for Ali, he found a random reason to divorce his wife who was taking care of the children at home.
The more his ex-wife thinks, the more wrong he is, so she drags her friends in the city to secretly observe the hairstylist and discovers what happened to him and Ali.
His ex-wife was so angry that she secretly went to their workplace and made a fuss.
Ali couldn't stand the strange eyes of others and the deception of the hairstylist, and was so angry that she couldn't save the child in her heart.
What made her even more disappointed was that the hairstylist not only did not explain to her, but also filed for divorce directly. He said he couldn't bear to leave his ex-wife and two children and was preparing to go back to remarry.
Under the double blow, she resolutely left the county town and went to the city with the few money.
was hurt twice by a man, but she still believed in love.
When she was 30 years old, she was working in a bath center and was taken aback by a 60-year-old widowed uncle.
The uncle's pension is quite high. He treats her very well at the beginning and also spends money on her casually.
However, they divorced less than a year after they got married.
Ali said that the uncle likes to drink and will beat her when she gets drunk. She couldn't stand the repeated domestic violence and filed for divorce.
After the divorce, she returned to work at the bath center.
After listening to her story, I felt sorry for her.
She was hurt by a man three times and still believed in love, which shows that she is a simple and kind girl in her heart.
She entered marriage again and again, which shows that she longed for a warm home and a shoulder to rely on.
And she also said that she does not ask for money and looks of a man, as long as she never leaves her, beats her or scolds her, and gives her a bite of food.
I think she is the angel sent by God to me, otherwise why is her conditions for choosing a spouse so suitable for me?
I don’t mind her three marriage history, and she doesn’t mind I don’t have a house or a car.
We hit it off and got married after two months of dating.
I didn’t buy a house, but I rented a new two-bedroom and one living room for our wedding house.
I also bought new furniture and appliances to give her a better living environment.
After marriage, she was as gentle as ever. No matter what I do, she would support me and would say "ok".
I asked her to quit her job and find a job selling clothes in the mall. This is easier and her income is pretty good.
She never questioned my arrangements, but instead did whatever she asked her to do.
Marrying her is the blessing I received from the past life of accumulating virtue and doing good deeds.
In order to keep her, I took the initiative to hand over my monthly income and my wife's money that I had saved for many years. Although there are not many
, I felt that everything was worth it when I saw her surprise.
, but facts prove that I took the wrong step.
She is not capable of working and cannot sell much clothes. She was fired after two months of work.
My parents were anxious to hold their grandson, so they suggested that she not go to work and concentrate on preparing for pregnancy at home. We all agreed with this.
My job is to paint walls in high-rise buildings, usually in the suburbs. Because it is not convenient to take a ride from a long journey, I will go back for one or two days a week.
I didn't care about the big and small things in the family and let her take care of them.
But since I gave all the money to her to keep, I found that she was not restrained in spending money.
She buys whatever others say, regardless of whether the thing is worth it or not, whether our family needs it... She really doesn't have the ability to think.
Just two months, she spent the savings I saved for five years without me knowing it.
I am a casual worker who doesn't even provide insurance for insurance companies. I either sway in the wind or work in the dust...
The hard-earned money I earned was spent by her like this. I said I didn't feel sorry for and was sad, which would definitely be a lie.
I want to get the card back, but she doesn't want to, and she threatens me if she doesn't help me give birth.
We didn’t meet much and communicated less, and she became more and more indifferent to me.
Finally came home once, I will share the latest happenings around me in the past few days and find some topics.
But she was smiling and buzzing her phone with her head, not even glanced at me, let alone raised her head to give me a response or a smile.
She is still very lazy, she doesn’t cook housework and doesn’t cook. If I don’t eat at home, she orders takeout, or she doesn’t eat it directly.
She didn't even wash her underwear, and all the clothes were piled up, waiting for me to wash them home.
I asked her, and she said she didn't know how to use the washing machine.
When many things were not answered by her, I gradually lost patience and affection for her.
I went back once a week to half a month, sometimes a month.
Naturally, we became strangers under the same roof, not very familiar.
Sometimes she takes her to my relative’s house for dinner, and she never communicates with others.
Others chat with her, she either grinned and didn't say anything; or she just sat aside and swiped her phone.
often makes me feel embarrassed and embarrassed.
I feel sad when I see other couples talking and laughing.
I feel like I have married a soulless "fool".
What’s even more sad is that almost all my relatives and friends asked me if she had a problem with her head:
I don’t know if she had such a temperament, or did she become like this after she got married to me?
I used to believe that she was not lucky and was deceived by a man three times.
But now, I doubt the authenticity of her words.
The divorce three times must be true, because her divorce certificate has been kept by her side and has also been shown to me.
But I don’t really believe what she said about the reason for the divorce.
