All my ambitions are, but free life
text: Little Moon | Typesetting: Moon Lane
Grandma Moses In her book " Life is never too late to start ", said : "Some people always say it's too late. In fact, now is the best time. For a person who really pursues something, every period of life is young and timely."
Grandma Moses' legend must be well-known, but compared to her when she started painting at the age of 76, and persisted until she was over 100, until she became famous all over the world. What is even more admirable is her spirit and attitude of never procrastinating, never making excuses, and starting immediately after she said something.
Perhaps, we all thought of changing ourselves and changing our lives like Grandma Moses, but we have been plagued by trivialities and have not started for a long time.
2022 has the last three months left. The cycle for a person to change himself is 21 days. When you start to change and persist for 21 days, this change will be a good habit to change.
Xiao Yueliang has helped you organize 6 good habits for personal testing and share them with you. Below are pure dry goods. Friends who like it can also like and collect them. Take it out and take it out in your spare time to motivate yourself☀
1. Personal Habits
If you want to change but don’t know where to start, it is strongly recommended that you try the [Micro Habit Strategy].
A small change is enough to have a huge impact.
√Water half an hour early, wake up half an hour early
√Water a cup of warm water in the morning, clean the intestines and promote bowel movements
√Carrange the desktop every day, keep the desktop clean
√Eat less takeout and cook more, save money and be healthy
√Soak your feet before going to bed to improve your sleep quality, especially cold body , girls with poor skin condition
√Get out of carbonated drinks and milk tea, when you don’t know what to drink, boiled water is the best choice
√Read every day, make a book list in advance, refresh your mind, and the most important thing is to rescue you from the endless self-consumption
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√Read every day, make a book list in advance, refresh your mind, and the most important thing is to save you from the endless self-consumption
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√Read every day, make a book list in advance, refresh your mind, and the most important thing is to save you from the endless self-consumption
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√ The next day's outfit is ready one night in advance.
√No entertainment-consuming short videos (try to brush as little as possible or effectively control the duration is also good)
√ Once a week, throw away (send) visible substances, baptize the invisible world
√ Correct sitting posture, do not cross your legs (especially sisters whose legs are turned outward and do not straighten)
2. Interpersonal communication
"The Courage of Being Hate" says: "All worries come from interpersonal relationships."
instead of being deeply troubled, it is better to change bravely and be yourself appropriately, which is the core of interpersonal relationships, otherwise all relationships are irrelevant.
√Don’t echo when others make fun of themselves
√ Stay away from friends who have long-term low pressure (staying together for a long time will be deeply affected)
√Learn to listen instead of saying
√Don’t treat low emotional intelligence as true temperament
√ Make people who actively say hello in social occasions
√Don’t participate in the choice of friends’ life events
√Please put down your mobile phone properly when you are with others
√Don’t participate in the choice of friends’ life events
√Put down your mobile phone properly
√When you are with others
√Forget the worries instead of keep nagging
√Learn to refuse (this is the most important thing. If you don’t want to be treated as a soft persimmon, you must have the courage to reject others)
3. Financial consumption chapter
There is a saying in the documentary "Human": "What you pay when you consume is not money, it is the time you have to spend to earn this money in your life.”
So, have you recognized the [consumerist trap] in life?
√There is a big promotion festival at the end of the year. Pay attention to rational consumption and avoid stocking up. Do not buy unnecessary
√ Think twice every time you pay, whether you need essentials
√Reject the ingenuity and poverty, only buy the needed
√ Make good use of idle platforms
√ Take out 20% of the income and force it to save
4. Skill improvement chapter
There is a saying in "Planning": "You will not be lazy when you are with diligent people."
has more skills and will not suppress your body, and this is absolutely true.
√When you leave work, consider developing side jobs
√Select a skill improvement: baking, tea art, musical instruments, dance, design, bartending, chess, makeup…Watch magazines to improve aesthetics
√When you leave work, consider developing side jobs
√Select a skill improvement: baking, tea art, musical instruments, dance, design, bartending, chess, makeup…When you read magazines to improve aesthetics
5, watch documentary
Why do girls have to watch documentaries?
Because there are too many unsatisfactory things in life. However, the further you look and think more, the more you will find how small you are and how insignificant the trivial things in front of you are.
People’s lives are limited, and we cannot measure the world in person, but through the window of documentary we can learn more and discover more possibilities.
√Historical and Humanities
《Hexi Corridor 》
《Seven Years of Life》
《If the National Treasure Can Talk 》
《What Things in History 》
《Southwest Associated University》
《State-West Associated University》
《Museum Wonderful Night》
《I Repair Cultural Relics in the Forbidden City》
《National Treasure》
《The Power of Art》
《Tang Rhyme 》
√Earth nature
" Dolphin Bay "
" aerial photography of China "
" Blue Planet "
" Earth Pulse "
" Beautiful China "
√ Make money and financial management
" Become Warren Buffett "
"Intimate Billionaire"
"Money and Me"
"The culprit of uncontrolled consumption"
"Surveillance Capitalism"
6. Reading books
If you don’t read books, you will never see another self.
√Financial management
《 puppy money 》
《Habit of control》
《 Poor dad Rich dad 》
《 Advantage negotiation 》
《The nature of poverty》
《The nature of poverty》
《Has a convenience store by the cloud 》
《Kite chaser》
《 Little Prince 》
《Great Gatsby》
《Dear Andre》
√Learning method
《7 habits for high-efficiency people》
《control habits》
《 principle 》
《Energy management》
《 You just look very hard 》
《 You just look hard 》
《Psychological communication
《Influence》
《Moon》
《Courage to be hated》
《Social Psychology》
《Misconess》
《Miscourage》
《Miscourage》
《What word do you want to use to describe 2002? Self-discipline? Making money? Running around? Frustration? Happiness?
3 months left, and everything is still in time. Let’s start doing it now. By the end of the year, your answer will definitely be very different.
When a person tiptoes hard and touches the sun, no one can stop your sunshine. Let’s start now✊
or above, encourage each other!
