My aunt did not reconcile with her eldest daughter until she died. She left this world with regrets. Why? It is in the eyes of the eldest daughter that she does not treat her children well.
The old lady gave birth to two daughters, one named Shui Lian and the other named Shui Yi, both of whom were graceful and beautiful as flowers. It’s just that the two daughters are eight years apart in age, so the old lady always prefers her younger daughter, and the balance of love always tilts towards her younger daughter.
When both girls were at their parents' home, my aunt loved both daughters very much. Although sometimes preferring the younger daughter, the older daughter is not at ease. I thought to myself that my sister was eight years younger than her, so my mother should prefer her. But later, something happened that made his eldest daughter Shui Lian very unhappy.
In the past, because my family was poor, Shui Lian and Shui Yi's clothes were replaced by my mother. Every year when the season changes, the clothes that my mother doesn’t wear are always changed to wear for her eldest daughter. The clothes replaced by the eldest daughter will be slightly changed for the second daughter to wear. This seems to have become a rule in their family.
However, as the supplies in the mall gradually become richer, people's purchasing ability will increase, and their clothes will no longer be covered in gray, and gradually become colorful. That is, the year after Shui Lian started working, my aunt pulled three feet of navy blue fabric in the store. When I returned to my doorstep, the conversation between the old lady and the neighbor Gao Madam made the eldest girl Shui Lian listen to it sincerely.
Grandma Gao asked, "What did you buy? You were so happy that you couldn't even close your mouth."
Grandma Gao said, "You bought a piece of good material and can make a pair of pants."
Grandma Gao said, "Let me take a look and see who is more suitable to wear it!"Grandma Gao expressed her opinion while looking. "This material is a good material, but the color is a bit beautiful, so it is definitely not suitable for you to wear it. If you want me to see, it would be more beautiful to make pants for your daughter."
The old lady shouted in surprise and said, "She has the eyesight, I just want to make pants for my daughter."
The eldest daughter Shui Lian was secretly happy when she heard it. I thought, I was the boss, I just started working, and I handed over the money I earned every month to my family. No matter what, my mother should make a new pair of pants for me, right? She prefers Xiao Shuiyi for so many years, so she should caress me!
But the eldest daughter Shui Lian was wrong again, and the eldest aunt gave these navy blue pants to the second girl Shui Yi. Shui Lian was so angry that she and her mother asked her aunt for an explanation and asked her why?
The old lady was silent for a while and said, "Why? Just because she was young, you are a sister, and now she has a job, and our Xiaoyi is still studying. I asked her to dress more brightly and have face in front of her classmates. Is there a light on your sister's face?"
The old lady said this, which made her eldest daughter Shui Lian have nothing to say. Since my mother explicitly said that she wanted to favor Shui Yi, what else would she say?
What made the eldest daughter Shui Lian most angry was that when she got married, her aunt gave her 1,000 yuan, but when the second girl Shui Yi got married, her aunt gave her 1,000 yuan. At this time, the eldest daughter Shui Lian said she would not do anything and started a fight with her aunt that night.
"It's okay if you prefer her, but when it comes to sending your daughter to get married, you are so partial, so I can't help but say a few words. Shui Yi and I are both your biological children? Don't we both marry once in our lives? Don't you give us the dowry money for marriage once in our lives? Why do you want to be an old man? One is apart, one is close, one is far away, and one is far away, and you can't just serve a bowl of water."
The old lady was also angry, thinking why I couldn't serve a bowl of water? When you get married, I will give you a thousand. When is that? That was more than ten years ago! How much money did your dad and I earn at that time? How much money is earning now? How many things can I buy for one thousand yuan at that time? How much can I buy for a thousand dollars now? If at this time, I will only give your sister one thousand yuan, can I take it?
There is certainly some reason for the old lady to think this way.If she could make it clear to her eldest daughter calmly, she might not be able to understand her eldest daughter. The eldest daughter is just a matter of reason, and she doesn't have to fight for much money. But my aunt felt uncomfortable and was not in the mood to express her thoughts with her eldest daughter. So, he said tremblingly, "What's wrong? I can't make the decision on my own money? I'll give as much as I want to give. Don't talk about you, even God doesn't care!"
The old lady's words completely made her eldest daughter feel heartbroken. She looked at her mother's familiar face and suddenly felt a stranger she had never had before. Is this still the mother who gave birth to me and raised me? Since you prefer your little daughter so much, then you can just let your little daughter kiss you in the future. If you don’t kiss me, I will stay away from you to avoid annoying you.
From then on, Shui Lian has been alienated from her mother. Of course, after all, it’s still my daughter and mother, and Shui Lian can see the big face. For example, during festivals, Shui Lian's family can come and walk around, but they usually don't eat at their parents' home, and they leave after saying a few words. The old lady also knew in her heart that the eldest girl's heart was alienated from her, but she insisted on enduring it and wanted to see who could survive whom?
But as I was slain, my aunt was put in the hospital. It was only then that my aunt realized that it was not a big deal to be so stubborn with the eldest girl. She really wanted to see Shui Lian smiled happily at her on her face.
But fate is so cruel. If you miss it, you will never be able to find it again. My mother was hospitalized, and Shui Lian actually knew it that day. She thought to go to the hospital the next day, after all, that was her biological mother! But it was so coincidental that when Shui Lian was about to get off work that day, a business accident occurred in the area where she was in charge. She had to deal with it quickly, and no one could replace her. There was no choice. Shui Lian didn't even go back to his home that day, so he hurriedly took the high-speed rail on a business trip. By the time she came back, my aunt had already left.
How much does my aunt want to say caring words to her eldest daughter before leaving this world! But this most ordinary wish has also turned into a bubble. But who can blame for such a result?
With the innovation of the birth policy, parents will definitely raise a few children in the future. How to caress one's own love and make children feel impartial is a science and an art of being a parent. If the bias is too obvious and cannot be evenly matched with a bowl of water, it will not only burn your hands, but also very likely to hurt your love.
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