Love Uncle Introduction:
After marriage, husband and wife will be a community. Many things should be communicated and discussed so that their marriage life can be more satisfactory.
However, even such a community still often faces a disaster. It can be seen that although husband and wife are a community, they are based on the premise of stable and happy life. Some things between husband and wife can only be broken in their hearts and cannot be said, which will be beneficial to the happiness of marriage.
Ex-love
There should be no secret between husband and wife, but sometimes being honest does not necessarily help happiness in life. Sometimes life also requires people's kind lies, and everyone also needs their own free space.
Some things between husband and wife cannot be stated explicitly, because once they are given explicitly, these things will affect the trust between husband and wife. The first thing a couple cannot say is the ex, because many times the ex can hurt people's hearts like a thorn.
Many people have had unforgettable love before entering marriage. This is the mark of youth, this is the memories of the past, but these things cannot affect your current life. If the couple puts the feelings between their ex into their current lives and even tells them about their current partner, it is not conducive to the development of emotions. Some things can be buried in your heart appropriately, this is what smart people do.
Brother evaluation
Couple relationship should be the closest relationship. Some people say that couples should talk about everything, and some people say that there should be a quota between couples, but the premise is that the relationship between couples has reached a certain level, and they trust each other and understand each other. Only when the relationship between husband and wife can reach this point can we talk about everything. Otherwise, no matter how good the relationship between husband and wife is, there should be something that should not be said or done by each other.
Some things between husband and wife should be kept in mind, because once some things are said, they will directly affect the relationship between husband and wife. For example, if the husband’s brother evaluates or opinions on his wife, if the husband has no principles and says all these things, if it is some bad reviews, it may affect the relationship between the husband and wife. Therefore, husbands can choose to say something, and husbands also need to retain some mystery.
Relatives and Even though the relationship is good, there should be space for each other, so that each other's feelings can be sublimated. There is no need to tell the other party about some things, because the other party may not necessarily play the right role if they know it.
Everyone has their own circle before getting married, and has their own relatives and friends. Some relatives and friends’ affairs do not necessarily have to be explained to their other half, because some bad things may have a bad impact on your relationship. Especially for the big and bad things of relatives, if these things violate the principles, try not to inform the other party. There are some things you can know by yourself. This is not a disrespectful marriage, but a way for smart people.
Uncle Love Conclusion:
Couples are a community, but they also need space for each other. No matter how good the relationship between husband and wife is, it needs to be managed with care and skills to protect it. The above three things are the best management and protection of feelings in your heart.
Frankness is the basic principle in marriage, and leaving room is for better emotional development. This is not a lack of honesty, but an effort to make each other happier.
