Keywords: Men's SPA
Hello, baby sister and little assistant, Happy New Year, follow one of your diving fans for almost 10 years.
I am a 27-year-old female, full-time mother
husband 43 years old
We both are independent, non-resident, has been married for 7 years, has given birth to one child, and is now in the four months of pregnancy (with photo)
Before I found a promotional coupon for men's spa on my husband's bus, His reply to me was: forgot to throw it away.
Yesterday I saw a voucher for a men's spa in his car again. he couldn't remember the same answer and forgot to throw it away. It is indeed normal to receive this kind of voucher, but normal people will definitely glance at it and throw it away. If is left in the car, I will definitely think that if I need
because of this, I am in a bad mood, but I don’t know how to deal with it. kept asking him, and he must also think that I have no evidence and keep twisting and keeping it unreasonable
Please ask my sister, What kind of mentality should you treat this matter now? Thank you. Thank you. My sister and the assistants, I am very grateful if you can win the lottery~
You said in the description that you had discovered a promotional coupon for men's spa on your husband's bus before, and your husband's answer to you was "forgot to throw it away"; and then you saw a voucher for men's spa in his car, and his answer to you was still "forgot to throw it away".
Your husband "forgot twice" on the same issue you mind, which is actually unreasonable. In addition, the "selling coupon" has become a large "voucher", so I have every reason to suspect that the previous sales coupon was left by him, and he had already taken the sales coupon to spend it. Now the large voucher is the discount given to him by the merchant in order to win over the return customer. In other words, it is very likely that something you are worried about has already happened.
Considering that you are four months pregnant, the most important thing for you right now is how you view this issue and how you view this marriage.
You and your husband have a big age gap, and you are a full-time mother again, which means that when you choose to marry the other person, his financial strength is taken into account, otherwise you would not choose a boy who seems to have completed a heroic race to get married.
If the economic strength of the two people is indeed very different to a certain extent, then you may not have as many choices as you think. When the other party marrys you, he wants to be a da house.
If this is a relationship where you take the initiative in your relationship, the other party will not be so perfunctory to you, and will explain it to you seriously until you completely dispel your doubts, and will reflect on your own problems to avoid similar behaviors that will bother you. If the other party dares to perfunctory you, you will not look timid and dare not make it clear inside and outside.
Your inference of his behavior is "He must also think that I have no evidence to keep twisting and making trouble, that is, that I am unreasonable." I think this can truly reflect the relationship between the two of you. The "unreasonable" you infer is not that you have no evidence, but that you are still twisting and making trouble, but that he thinks you are a da house and is not qualified to ask about these things, but that you do not recognize your identity as a da house, which is unreasonable.
does not have enough choice. No matter how good your mentality is, it will not change the pattern of this relationship.
The most important thing for you now is how you choose, whether to continue or end the relationship. If you continue, he will not change. If you leave, you already have a child and are no longer so young. Whether the child in your belly is kept or not, it will be difficult for you to find a boy with the same financial strength. However, you are still in the best mate selection period, and the choice is good. It is still possible to find a boy who is willing to live a lot of different aspects of life with you (because it is definitely more difficult to choose a mate in the second marriage).
We can only help you sort out this relationship clearly. What decisions to make depends on what kind of future you want. I personally think that the child is innocent and should be given a chance to be born, and the rest is up to you.
