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Herabal once said: "When you meet the right person, he will spoil you, love you and tolerate you. Even if you were covered in armor and thorns in the past, you would become childish as a child, laughing and living like a child."
But what kind of person is considered the right person? When choosing a partner, every woman will always be told by her parents to find a good partner. But some women often ignore it for love, ignore it, and end up hurting themselves and implicating their parents.
After Wang Lei refused to give a 100,000 yuan gift at her in-laws' house and asked Wang Lei's parents to marry a house, she completely lost confidence in marriage and love. Regardless of the opposition of his parents and the opposition of his in-laws, he beat the child in his stomach and broke up decisively to stay away from scumbags.
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If it weren't for the child of her boyfriend, Wang Lei might not have been willing to talk about marriage so soon. The family gap between Wang Lei and her boyfriend is a bit big, but her boyfriend looks handsome and has a sweet mouth, so he is good at making girls happy.
Although Wang Lei has more determination than ordinary girls, under the bombardment of her boyfriend's long-term flower gifts, she had to hand over her gun and hand over her weapons, and was willing to be captured by her boyfriend.
Just three months after the two confirmed their relationship, Wang Lei agreed to the other party’s request for cohabitation under her boyfriend’s soft and hard work. I thought this was just the beginning of trial marriage , but unexpectedly it became the fuse for the two people to break up.
Lived together for more than a year, and Wang Lei became pregnant because of her boyfriend's selfishness. The pregnant Wang Lei naturally couldn't hide it from her parents. If the parents originally persuaded to break up, they could only start preparing for the marriage after seeing their daughter's confirmed pregnancy report.
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Both parents quickly sat down together to discuss marriage. Wang Lei's parents insisted on a 100,000 yuan bride gift and a wedding house for her husband's family. However, my husband's family said that the wedding house was not a problem, but the 100,000 yuan bride price could only be given 50,000 yuan. After all, according to their customs, there is no need to give a bride gift when you fall in love freely.
Wang Lei’s parents are unwilling to do so. No matter how bad their daughter is, they cannot marry her. The 100,000 yuan bride price is the importance and sincerity of her daughter. The prospective mother-in-law not only disagreed, but instead proposed to Wang Lei that she would marry a house, which must be in the city center and cannot be less than 120 square meters. In the future, they would also have to go to the city to find their son to support her.
Wang Lei's parents also have a temper. Her daughter is pregnant. This is a happy couple for the other family, but the in-laws are unwilling to pay the dowry gift, and in turn asks them to buy a dowry house in the city center. Those who don’t know about it thought that their family was marrying their daughter, not their daughter.
Both parties could not hold on. Wang Lei looked at her boyfriend, but he lowered his head and said nothing, obviously letting his parents arrange it. Seeing this, and seeing her parents who were so angry that she shouted that she felt heartbroken, Wang Lei decided to abort the child and break up.
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Wang Lei's decision was unanimously agreed by his parents. But my mother-in-law jumped up in a hurry. You are pregnant and want to be arrogant because of your favor. Isn’t it too overestimated? You are pregnant with my son's child, and you break up and see who wants you?
After being angrily criticized by the prospective mother-in-law, Wang Lei pulled her parents and threw them away. After that, my boyfriend tried to keep and persuaded him all failed. Wang Lei abolished the child and blocked her boyfriend. After half a year, she accepted the blind date arrangement from her parents.
After breaking up, his boyfriend was immediately arranged for a blind date by his parents. But no matter how many blind dates are there, the woman requests no less than 100,000 yuan in bride price, and some even require 200,000 yuan. The parents who are stingy naturally don’t want to give so many betrothal gifts, and just want to trick people into getting pregnant before marriage and make money.
After several times, the ex-boyfriend's reputation became completely bad, and no one was willing to introduce a blind date to her ex-boyfriend. After seeing that his son became a poor-selling product and no longer became popular, his mother regretted it. After
, my ex-boyfriend also went to find Wang Lei to get back together. But Wang Lei avoided it and got engaged to a boyfriend who was quite fond of her as quickly as possible.Seeing that the other party not only gave her a 100,000 yuan gift, but also added her name to the real estate certificate, Wang Lei deeply realized how important it is to be a good match.
Today’s topic:
How do you think of a woman being pregnant before marriage and being embarrassed by her in-laws?
