By chance, Xiao Ming (pseudonym) met his wife (Liu Ting). Not long after they met, they decided to enter the palace of marriage. Because Liu Ting is not only sweet-mouthed, but also has a high education, Xiao Ming's parents are very satisfied with her.
In order to marry Liu Ting, Xiao Ming's parents lent 260,000 yuan from their relatives and friends to marry Xiao Ming and Liu Ting. But what they didn't expect was that on the wedding night, Liu Ting actually let her two male friends sleep on their wedding bed, and the four of them slept in the same bed, and the scene was very awkward.
On the third day of the wedding, Liu Ting did not go home that day on the grounds that the school was busy with work, but Liu Ting did not come back for several days, Xiao Ming and his family were very puzzled, so Xiao Ming had no choice but to call Liu Ting.
But at this time, Liu Ting changed her normal behavior. Not only did she not go home, she also had an extremely cold and disdainful attitude towards Xiao Ming. They did not look like newlyweds at all. Xiao Ming dared not speak out. Although he felt bad, he did not dare to tell his family what Liu Ting had to do with him due to his affection.
After a few months like this, Liu Ting still had no intention of going home. Unfortunately, Xiao Ming had to confess everything to his family. When the family found out, they were very angry. They suggested that Xiao Ming go to Liu Ting to have a good talk.
If the two of them can continue to live, then Liu Ting will have to move back home. If the two of them cannot continue to live, then Liu Ting will have to return the bride money they gave to her parents at that time, because most of the cost of Xiao Ming and Liu Ting's marriage was borrowed by them.
So accompanied by reporters, Xiao Ming and his group came to Liu Ting's workplace. However, not only did the faculty and staff in such a large university who did not know Liu Ting for several years, but even the students said that they had not heard of a teacher named Liu Ting in the school. Xiao Ming was stunned after hearing this.
Because Liu Ting had sent him a photo of her teaching at this university, he was a little at a loss. After a while of silence, Xiao Ming led the reporter to search for Liu Ting's figure in the huge university. After searching for almost an hour, they found a staff table in the corridor of a dormitory building. There is a female teacher named Liu Ting in
. After inquiring, I learned that Liu Ting is not a teacher from this group of universities, but a teacher from an training school . After learning the truth, Xiao Ming was furious and he realized that Liu Ting had lied to him.
Finally, under the leadership of an employee in the training school, the reporter and Xiao Ming met Liu Ting, who had been missing for several months. Seeing the arrival of reporters and Xiao Ming, Liu Ting seemed very calm. She said bluntly that she was just for work, so she would live in her parents' home after marriage and never return to her in-laws' home again.
Liu Ting admitted that before she was thirty, she would put work first, and she would not give up her career for the sake of marriage. This was something she and Xiao Ming had already agreed before marriage. She even blamed Xiao Ming for making more than ten or twenty calls to her every day and sending her a lot of messages, which made her very disgusted.
Xiao Ming was very angry after hearing this. He said that everything Liu Ting said was fake, because before marriage, Liu Ting promised him that she would give up her career because she didn't want her neighbors to talk about their gossip, so she would put family first after marriage, but now Liu Ting's behavior backfires made him feel very sad.
Then Liu Ting accused Xiao Ming of sending more than 20 text messages to her mother. She asked Xiao Ming: "Why are you sending so many text messages to my mother? Why are your tone so arrogant? If you send so many messages and make so many calls every day, anyone will be tired of you."
Liu Ting also bluntly told reporters that she actually didn't love Xiao Ming. At that time, she was not in love with Xiao Ming because of a bad job and her grandfather passed away unexpectedly. The family changes made her sad. At that time, she met Xiao Ming, and she was not young anymore, so she married Xiao Ming in a confused manner.
She regretted it very much afterwards, but she couldn't change it, so she could only choose to escape reality.But Xiao Ming didn't think so, because according to Xiao Ming, when he and Liu Ting met Liu Ting, they ignored him. Until his family was about to be demolished, their attitude immediately changed, and they agreed to marry him.
Xiao Ming felt that Liu Ting married him because of the demolition payment from their family. Not only did Xiao Ming's family think so, but even his neighbors think so. Because Liu Ting moved back to her parents' home within two days of marriage, she did not return to her in-laws' house for several months, so her motivation has to be doubtful.
Then Xiao Ming took out the voice message sent to her by Liu Ting on his mobile phone to show the reporter. Liu Ting was very dissatisfied with Xiao Ming. She said bluntly that Xiao Ming not only was not as tall as himself or her own, but his education was still very low. Being with him would only waste time and energy, and there was no happiness at all.
Then the reporter suggested that Xiao Ming and Liu Ting sit down to mediate. Soon after, both sides and their relatives and friends came to the local mediation department to mediate. Liu Ting has his own opinion on the Xiao family's request for Liu Ting to return the bride price.
Liu Ting said that her household registration had already moved to the Xiao family in November of that year, and now the Xiao family's old house is to be demolished, so her family's demolition payment must be included in her, otherwise she would shirk it like this until the Xiao family yard gave her the demolition payment that belonged to her, and she was willing to divorce.
All the relatives and friends of the Xiao family were very angry after hearing this. Xiao's father angrily criticized Liu Ting, saying that her purpose of marrying her son was impure, and that she was a vicious woman. Xiao Ming's cousin told Liu Ting in a nice voice that most of the bride money given by Xiao Ming's family when they got married was borrowed by Xiao Ming's parents.
Some of the money was saved by Xiao Ming's parents' hard work in farming. They saved it for a long time to save tens of thousands of yuan, which was not easy, so they hoped that Liu Ting could refund the 150,000 yuan betrothal gift.
After hearing this, Liu Ting said that it was impossible because her household registration was in the Xiao family, and the bride price and the demolition money were different. She felt that she did not need to return the bride price to the Xiao family. The reporter and the village cadres quickly persuaded Liu Ting, but Liu Ting was unwilling to give in. She asked for a divorce, and in the end the two sides parted in an unhappy relationship.
The next day, the two parties came to the mediation department to mediate again, but Liu Ting regretted it. She said that she was willing to continue living with Xiao Ming, but after experiencing so many things, Xiao Ming had already seen Liu Ting's true face clearly. He was unwilling to continue living with Liu Ting, so he decided to divorce.
Liu Ting was very angry after learning about Xiao Ming's attitude. After mediation, Liu Ting told the Xiao family that she was only willing to refund the 20,000 yuan of bride price, and the remaining 130,000 yuan was considered as a mental loss to her. The demolition payment should be her, and she should not give it to her any penny. Liu Ting said that if the Xiao family was dissatisfied, she could go through legal procedures to resolve the matter.
After hearing this, Xiao Ming begged Liu Ting, saying that it wouldn't matter if it was his own money, but the bride price they gave to Liu Ting's family when they got married was indeed borrowed by their parents. He didn't want his parents to bear so much foreign debt when they were so old, so he begged Liu Ting to return the bride price and wedding ring.
But Liu Ting was unmoved. She still adhered to her principles. Everyone present, whether it was the relatives and friends of the Xiao family, the mediators and reporters, was very angry at Liu Ting's actions. Finally, after everyone's persuasion, Liu Ting promised that she would not pay a penny of the demolition payment.
But she didn't want to refund the bride price for that bride price. She felt that she had married into the Xiao family for so long, so the bride price should be hers. If the Xiao family felt that it was inappropriate, then they could go through legal procedures and finally mediation failed.
Afterwards, Xiao Ming told reporters that when he first got together with Liu Ting, he discovered that Liu Ting was a very realistic woman. He remembered that it was Christmas not long after they met, and he immediately bought a set of skin care products worth more than 500 yuan for Liu Ting, but Liu Ting was very angry when she saw the things he gave.
Finally, Liu Ting took him to the mall to pick up a set of skin care products worth more than 2,000 yuan. Liu Ting became happy after he paid the bill.On the wedding night, Liu Ting took her male friend to the wedding bed to sleep. He was very angry at the time and once asked Liu Ting what he regarded him as. Did the three of them think he was transparent?
What Liu Ting said was stingy and not generous. Liu Ting's various behaviors could be seen that she came for the demolition payment from their family. Now he can accept the reality. He no longer hopes that Liu Ting can come back and live a good life with him. He just wants to resolve the matter as soon as possible. Xiao Ming then told reporters that he would go through legal procedures to resolve the matter.
What people often say about the three blessings of life refer to: when you meet an old friend in a foreign land, and when you are on the list of gold. The so-called three blessings represent confidants (friendship), beauty (marriage), fame and fortune (being an official). Also written as "Three Happiness Events in Life".
But one of Xiao Ming’s three blessings in life is so helpless. The wedding night is when the four of them share the same bed. This is not like the wedding night between them? It was clearly Liu Ting who did it on purpose. She didn't want to marry Xiao Ming at first. If she really wanted to live with Xiao Ming, she wouldn't have done this.
Liu Ting is obviously a cheating marriage, and she is embarrassed to say that she is a university teacher. As a role model, is she just educating her students? No matter how born, no matter how high a person is, the most basic thing to be a person is to be honest. You cannot lose all your bottom line of being a person for your own selfish desires.
Fortunately, Xiao Ming finally figured it out. Stop the loss in time is the best ending, otherwise the loss will be greater. Moreover, living with such a scheming woman, how can there be any happiness? A gentleman loves money and gets it in a good way, but it is not his own wealth. It is best not to worry about it, otherwise it will only lead to both losses and the gain will not be worth the loss.
Although Xiao Ming and Liu Ting received the marriage certificate and also held a wedding banquet, they did not have sex after the marriage, and Liu Ting never returned to the Xiao family. She neither fulfilled her wife's responsibilities and obligations, nor fulfilled her filial piety. Then I think the bride price should be returned to the Xiao family.
After all, no one’s money is blown by the strong wind. Why is it that the money they have saved up with hard work given to you like this? Be kind-hearted. Since you don’t want to marry the other person, and since you don’t love the other person, you should not deceive others into getting married and let your family lose money. To be honest, people like Liu Ting should be severely punished, otherwise it will only encourage this bad habit.
text/Huang Xiaoguai
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