As the saying goes: a son quarrels with his daughter-in-law, he can be a parent who knows how to be a child. A mother scolds his son, and a parent who knows how to be a child, and the mother helps his son! This is true in life. When the son quarrels with his daughter-in-law, the parents who scold their son have a good relationship with their mother-in-law and a harmonious family. The parents who help their son have a tense relationship with their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and a disagreement, and some even have their wives and children separated.
Wu Gang After Wu Gang , Li Fang decided to hire a nanny because both of them were busy with work. Wu Gang said: It costs money to hire a nanny, and the nanny is not close to us, so cooking is not necessarily hygienic, which makes people worried, so let my mother come.
Wu Gang's mother, Grandma Yang, is farming in the countryside. Wu Gang picked her up at home to do housework, and she came happily. In fact, Wu Gang took his mother to the house, which was very purposeful.
Wu Gang has two brothers, he is the eldest, and he also has a younger brother named Wu Qiang. After Wu Qiang got married, he lived in the countryside and mainly farmed. After her father died of illness, her mother, Grandma Yang, lived alone. She usually planted half acre of land and raised some chickens and ducks, and supported herself and did not allow her two sons to support her.
The people in rural areas are very busy in the busy farming seasons of summer and autumn. Whenever in these two seasons, the youngest son Wu Qiang, regardless of the age of Grandma Yang, asked Grandma Yang to help them harvest crops. When working slowly, the youngest daughter-in-law would quarrel. Sometimes Grandma Yang was tired and didn't want to work anymore, and the youngest daughter-in-law even quarrels. Grandma Yang was often angry with her younger son and daughter-in-law at home, and she often called her eldest son Wu Gang to tell her. Wu Gang wanted to bring his mother to his side several times, but was afraid that his wife Li Fang would not want to do so. This time Li Fang wanted to hire a nanny, so Wu Gang took this opportunity to pick up his mother.
Grandma Yang came to her eldest son Wu Gang's house. She was very diligent, doing everything. In Grandma Yang's opinion, this is much more aggravated by the youngest daughter-in-law than doing farm work for her youngest son and exposed to the wind and sun in the countryside. Wu Gang and his wife basically stretched out their hands for clothes and opened their mouths for food.
One day, Li Fang wanted to go back to her parents' home and bought a lot of gifts, and the price was very expensive. Wu Gang was a little dissatisfied and said: Is it worth it to go back to her parents' home to buy such expensive things? Li Fang said: My parents worked hard to raise me so old, and I rarely go back to see them. What is the point of buying this little thing?
Grandma Yang is afraid that her son and daughter-in-law will quarrel, so she immediately scolds her son Wu Gang: What is disobedient and unfilial, and her father-in-law and mother-in-law are like your parents. What is Li Fang’s purchase of this thing? Then he took out a roll of money from his pocket and handed it to Li Fang and said: This is some money I usually save. You can take it to buy something. I can't go, it's also my little intention for my in-laws.
Seeing that Grandma Yang was like this, Li Fang smiled on her face. Grandma Yang patted her son Wu Gang on the shoulder and said: Go with your wife quickly. Don’t be a guest at your mother-in-law’s house. Be diligent and do more!
Usually, Grandma Yang is very kind to her daughter-in-law Li Fang. Whenever she finds that Li Fang is unhappy, Grandma Yang asks her son Wu Gang whether she makes her wife angry again and scolds Wu Gang. Wu Gang said: Mom, you are so directing your daughter-in-law to live in my house for a long time! Grandma Yang said: Do you want to drive me away if you are disobedient and unfilial?
Grandma Yang lives at her son's house and has never had any conflicts with her daughter-in-law Li Fang, and her family is harmonious. Therefore, when getting along with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, especially when being mother-in-law, as long as they do not regard their daughter-in-law as an outsider and are sincerely good to their daughter-in-law, it is difficult to have conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
