In today's society, divorce seems to have become a normal phenomenon. It is easy to get divorced if a child has no children. When a child has divorced, it involves many problems such as child support, inheritance of property, and retirement from one's own life, which need to be handled appropriately.
On that morning, stepfather Yang Dashan found his stepson Li Ting and asked Li Ting to support him in his old age. Li Ting refused on the spot. He said: You gave all your property to your daughter, why should I support you in your old age?
Yang Dashan said: Although I gave my property to my daughter, I raised you and you have the obligation to support me!
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Li Ting’s mother Li Yueying and Yang Dashan belong to a reorganized family. Back then, Li Yueying and her ex-husband divorced due to disagreement. At that time, because her son was tall and young, she followed Li Yueying. Li Yueying hated her ex-husband and changed the child's surname to Li Ting.
Yang Dashan died of illness when his daughter was five years old. Later, Yang Dashan and Li Yueying met and got married after being introduced. After getting married, Li Yueying said to Yang Dashan: You have a daughter and I have a son. We are considered to have both children. Besides, we are already middle-aged. One more child is more burdened, so there is no need to have another child! Yang Dashan agreed.
When Yang Dashan and Li Yueying got married, Li Ting was already eight years old. Yang Dashan treated Li Ting as his own son, treated him equally with his daughter, and supported Li Ting to study, and married Li Ting when he grew up.
After Li Ting got married, he did not live in the countryside. He took his wife to the city to work and rented a house in the city.
In a blink of an eye, when Yang Dashan's daughter got married, Yang Dashan still hid her selfishness, took out all the savings in the family, bought a house in the city as a dowry and gave it to her daughter.
Yang Dashan's approach made Li Yueying very angry. She said: If my son gets married, you won't buy a wedding house, and if your daughter gets married, you will get married with a house. This is too unfair! The stepson Li Ting was also very angry, thinking that his stepfather was unfair to their mother and son, so he took his mother to his family for retirement, and separated Li Yueying and Yang Dashan, the old couple who had lived with him for decades.
Li Yueying arrived at Li Ting's house. Yang Dashan lived alone in the village. He was also very angry and felt that he had worked hard to raise Li Ting, because the matter of the house separated the old couple. Li Ting and Li Yue were too unhuman. He doesn't go to find Li Yueying and lives alone.
In recent years, Yang Dashan has felt old and weak, and can no longer do farm work. He believes that he raised Li Ting and should support him. So he went to Li Ting's house and asked Li Ting to support him. Li Ting refused to support Yang Dashan on the grounds that Lao Yang bought a wedding house for his daughter but did not buy it for him, and gave the family's property to his daughter.
Because of a house, the four family who lived in harmony had a conflict. The wife and children were separated and old. Li Yueying and her son were gone and could not be with Yang Dashan.
After Yang Dashan's daughter learned that her father was rejected from looking for Li Ting to retire, she said to Yang Dashan: He is not your biological son, why should she support you? Don't look at you supporting him, no matter how good you are to him, in his mind, you are not his biological father, and sometimes you can offend him for a word, let alone for a big thing like a house. Don't expect him to support you when you are old. You just treat it as your mother, and you have been living with me. When you are old, I will support you!
Yang Dashan sighed and said: I'm not convinced. Li Ting was only eight years old when he came to his house. Li Yueying couldn't do anything, but I earned money to raise him. I didn't know how to be grateful!
Since then, Li Yueying and his son have almost no contact with Yang Dashan and his daughter. What is the problem? Can’t it be said that people who remarry their families and their children have such indifferent feelings? It seems that it is better not to divorce easily between husband and wife. If there are conflicts, try to resolve them as much as possible. Divorce people must be cautious when remarrying.
