Plato said: Love is a feeling. When this feeling no longer exists, I still force myself to love. This is called responsibility.
In today's society, many husband pictures are derived from the Internet. They are together for the rest of their lives. They are not just right, but driven by responsibility. Because of responsibility, they love each other. The couple who can truly love each other feels like it is the difficulty of working together, and they are truly unfamiliar with each other.
I.M. Pei is an architectural master, born in the last century. The expansion project of the Louvre in Paris and the new museum of the Suzhou Museum have become landmarks. He won the 1979 American Architecture Society Gold Award, the 1981 French Architecture Gold Award, and the Freedom Medal awarded by President Reagan.
But people know very little about his life. The wife behind him is called Lu Ailing . European media said: They are "immortal couples".
Anyone who knows them will say, "The couple is really a match made by heaven. In the past, and in the future."
From them, it is not difficult to find that the love between them is nourishing each other and is connected to the soul.
The two of them fully demonstrate the five characteristics of true love:
sense of security, I want to protect you for the rest of your life.
During the summer vacation of 1938, I.M. Pei went to the New York Railway Station to pick up friends and accidentally discovered the Chinese girl Lu Ailing who moved him in the crowd.
At first, it was just passing by, but hurricane forced the train to be delayed. Lu Ailing wanted to go to Wesri Academy, but because of the train, he had no choice but to wait quietly for the train to start. Pei decided to chat with her and drive away the lonely journey.
Stepping on a strange land and encountering unexpected situations, women will inevitably be afraid. But it is very different to have someone who cares about her at this moment.
A man uses his strong arms to support a fate, and even if the sky falls, he will try his best to withstand her.
If a woman meets a person holding hands with her to face the darkness, then her life will be the safest.
No one knows which one will come first tomorrow or accident, but someone around you tells you not to be afraid, I am here, don’t worry.
As Murakami Haruki said: For those who love each other, the other person's heart is the best house.
care and care more carefully, and it is more practical than reinforced concrete houses. The house is fixed, and the protection area is limited; if your heart is put into you, I can protect you forever.
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sense of complementarity and mutual success.
I.M. Pei encountered several setbacks in the construction industry. He faced difficulties like a man and was not afraid of failure; Lu Ailing was delicate, handled problems in a tactful manner, was good at maneuvering, and was never tired of it.
For example: Fighting for John·In the design task of the Kennedy Library, Lu Ailing asked Kennedy ’s wife Jacqueline what she has and what flowers she likes. From the perspective of Jacqueline’s thinking, she devoted all her efforts to dress up as I.M. Pei’s architecture studio.
For example: In 1943, the design of a temple was maliciously evaluated, which led to I.M. Pei having to drink wine. Lu Ailing found the relevant professor and held the child, trying to find out the reason. In the end, hard work pays off. Finally, the professor smiled and said: I.M. Pei's success was attributed to an afternoon in Ailing Lu.
Yuan Li said: Two people love each other and don’t care about gains and losses. They are devoted to each other and integrate themselves and each other into it.
Many couples overemphasize appropriateness, so they become tit-for-tat, hoping that the other party is as rich as themselves, and paying attention to the consistency of the three views, but in the end, it gradually evolved into a strong blend of the three views, and did not allow any friction between each other.
Two people who really love each other are very different - your shortcomings are my strengths; I need to correct your mistakes; the three views of the two people are always different, but they can adapt to each other.
Two identical people live together and become you and shadows. The person who can help you is not a shadow, but a person who can look at the problem from another perspective when you have no clue about one thing.
Relax and comfortable life.
After getting married, Lu Ailing focused on running her family. The outside world was very exciting, that was the world of her husband.
When her husband is in trouble, she stands up and when her husband succeeds, she is happy with him.
In the United States, they have many Chinese elements in three meals a day, as well as window flowers in their hometowns, house decoration, and very Chinese style. They also specially asked someone to mail the four books and five passes for study.
High family will make people feel at home. After returning home, you can relax yourself and communicate with each other smoothly.
As the saying goes: Being a person is like water. If you are low, I will surge, and if you are high, I will retreat.
Couple and wife are always there, like water, if two stones lean against each other, they will hurt each other.
Many people are tired of life, not because they are tired of work, but when they go home, they hear nagging, and see their faces, and are physically and mentally exhausted.
A person who makes you feel relaxed must love you very much. He accommodates everything about you and carries you.
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directional sense, heart is in one place.
Where is life going?
I.M. Pei and Ailing Lu knew very well that no matter how far they went, they had to love their country, so their children's names all had Chinese characters.
They are particularly concerned about China's changes and read information about Chinese society every day. .
In 1974, they officially returned to China and said: In their lifetime, they always came back again. At that moment, tears were spinning in their eyes.
In addition, they insist on a low-key life, and when a magazine wanted to introduce I.M. Pei, Lu Ailing refused to provide photos.
Where should I go in my life? Some people will get lost, so they meet a third party and think that true love is coming; some people will feel confused, lose themselves, and immerse themselves in desires; some people will stop, start at the age of forties or fifties, waiting for death.
House and wife are with each other. If both of them are confused, they will lose hope for their family, just like entering a dark place.
What will happen in the future is like waiting for a ray of dawn. What is truly happy is not the moment of dawn, but the mutual dependence and waiting quietly.
Lyrics: The most romantic thing I can think of is to slowly grow old with you, collect a little laugh along the way, and then sit in the rocking chair and chat slowly.
We especially like this lyrics, it only has the scene of waiting for aging.
If you are waiting with your beloved for time to pass, wait for the children to grow up, wait for the elderly to travel... and then walk hand in hand, each step will be determined, and you will also look at each other affectionately.
Whether you love or not is inseparable from you is the most real feeling.
If you don’t love him, he will not feel dependence in front of you.
If you love deeply, it is like being close to you at the end of the world, and I am always by your side.
In our lives, meeting someone who makes you happy and sad is the wisest choice.
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The best love is probably: You make me moved, I make you feel at ease.
So, true love must end with you.
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