Jia Pingwa said in "Temporary Sitting": "Some people have come and go. Some people have become closer and far. You see, it's autumn again and again, and the years are endless, and old friends are not as good as before. But they are sitting temporarily in this world, but they have

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Jia Pingwa said in " temporary sitting ": "Some people have come and go. Some people have become closer and far away. You see, the year is autumn again, and the years are endless, and old friends are not as good as before. But I am temporarily sitting in this world, but I have to go through thousands of vicissitudes."

Some things have never been put down; some people have never forgotten them.

has seen people's hearts along the way, experienced ups and downs, and increased experience, and found that I was middle-aged.

no longer dares to love and hate when I was young, and now I am extremely cautious when I take every step.

Entering middle age, life has entered a new stage. How to streamline yourself and control your heart is a compulsory course for everyone.

The best way to live is to hide it in the word "let go".

people are middle-aged, stop obsessing with the past and stop getting lost in memories.

both good and bad are both an experience, and it is gone.

Everyone will face some choices. When you are confused, you might as well stop and re-clutter your life, see how many regrets you have, and count how many expectations you have in the future.

Writer Honglu Peilin once said: "If you can't give up yesterday, you will waste your life in this moment of hesitation;

If you can't give up now, you can't find another vast sky;

If you can't give up the shackles, you will always let life control you, and you can't find another space that you control."

often times we feel unhappy, it's nothing more than being too heavy load and too much desire.

Only by taking back the hope of others and putting it on yourself can you keep your free and open life.

From now on, stopping meaningless entanglement, refusing unnecessary consumption and overdrafts, and reviewing the current life is the most advanced way of living.

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Author: Yichan Little Monk. The article comes from the Little Monk Yichan (ID: yichan6666). Use simple Zen principles to solve the problems of life. Please contact Yichan for reprinting.

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