Mr. Pan, 69 years old this year, has been retired for many years and is an associate technical professor of FAW Thermal Engineering. Since he has 43 years of working years, his monthly pension is more than 5,000 yuan. His biggest hobby is to read books and write articles at home, and then to have a few partners to play basketball. His daily life is positive, which can not only exercise his body, but also exercise his brain.
He said that he is currently in a very young state, at the age of 69 and 50 years old, and his mentality is similar to those of people around 45 years old. He has always had a mentality of loving life.
He said that there was a wife who had been in harmony with each other before, who had always been centered on him and was particularly considerate and gentle to him. He was also very conscious and handed over all his monthly salary to his wife. The two of them had never been blushed, and their relationship made neighbors envious. But fate is like this. No matter how loving a couple is, there will always be someone leaving first, and a disease takes his wife away.
What is touching is that her husband was still thinking about his family before his death. asked his family to eliminate all her things. One is that he was afraid that the living people would have taboos, and the other is that he was afraid that Uncle Pan would feel in love when he saw it. He also hoped that Uncle Pan would find another companion to spend his old age.
During that time, Uncle Pan was immersed in endless longing, loneliness, helplessness, and despair every day, crying and heartbroken. I miss my wife very much, so I can only live in pain, and my health is getting worse and worse. Fortunately, my daughter is very excellent and is a attending doctor. She regulates her body every day and slowly recovers. He decided to find another companion, wanting to find an html about 155 years old, who is beautiful and healthy.
According to Mr. Pan's requirements for choosing a spouse, the matchmaker introduced Aunt Zhang, 62, 62 years old, Aunt Zhang, is a well-educated, gentle and kind-hearted person, and she looks particularly elegant. During the time when her husband was sick, she served her husband while embroidering cross stitch. Now that the cross stitch is still there, she has already gone farther away.
She said that she had worked hard to serve her husband, but now she has been in the past 10 years and wants to take a step forward and bravely pursue her happiness in her old age. For her partner, she hopes that the other party is qualified, has a salary of more than 3,000 yuan, and find someone who retires in the car factory and is in good health.
After the two met, they were both satisfied with each other, especially after Mr. Pan knew that Aunt Zhang could not only play the piano but also dance, he was very happy.
And Aunt Zhang knew that Mr. Pan had to pick up his granddaughter to and from school every day, and expressed her understanding. After all, her children were busy with work and had to help.
Uncle Pan is also very happy about Aunt Zhang's understanding, and the atmosphere of chatting between the two is getting more and more harmonious. remarriage will inevitably talk about economic issues. Aunt Zhang asked, "If we are together, what are the arrangements for economics? "
Uncle Pan said generously: "You keep your salary and spend it yourself. I will take out all the 5,700 yuan monthly salary. If it is not enough, there is still someone to give it to you, don't worry about economic issues. ." Aunt Zhang expressed his satisfaction with Mr. Pan's attitude. The two decided to get along for a while and get married.
But unexpectedly, after returning home, Mr. Pan discussed with his family. After holding a family meeting, he felt that the two were not suitable. The main reason for was that the salary was too low and it was resident medical insurance, so he decisively broke off contact with Aunt Zhang and found a matchmaker to help him introduce his wife. The requirements for choosing a spouse have not changed.
matchmaker introduced him to 57-year-old Wang Guizhu, Ms. Wang
Aunt Wang, 57 years old this year, is very well maintained, looks very elegant, has delicate facial features, and has black hair. It is not an exaggeration to say that she is in her 40s. The house is clean and tidy, and she is a very simple woman.
She said that she had a flash marriage with a person who had no feelings at the time, and she was only 20 years old at that time. My life after marriage has always been unhappy. My ex-husband often deals with her for trivial matters and has never felt the warmth of love.
Until her son went to the army at the age of 18, she had no worries and resolutely went to the court to file for divorce. After so many years, she didn't want to look for her again. By chance, she saw many elderly friends on an emotional program on a blind date. She fell in love with Mr. Pan's sense of responsibility for the family and his wife, so she mustered up the courage to find the matchmaker.
After the two met, Aunt Wang expressed her appreciation for Mr. Pan straight to the point. She said: "The episode of yours was broadcast on TV that day. gives people the feeling of being steady, elegant, and very reliable. You gave me the courage to come on a blind date. I think if you are with you, you will feel down-to-earth. "
Uncle Pan also said directly: "You say directly, what are the requirements for me? ! "
Aunt Wang said: "There is no requirement. I don't pay the salary like others said. After all, it's a second marriage. If you raise money as soon as you meet, it will be looked down upon by people. If you have an idea, what money is needed for at this age? It's just to accompany each other."
Not to mention that Aunt Wang has a high emotional intelligence and is also good at chatting. She doesn't put money first, which is deeply loved by Mr. Pan.
Uncle Pan said proudly: "Our family is officially organized into state-owned enterprises and has pensions. I have 5,700 yuan a month, and my daughter is also a doctor at Grade A hospital ."
Aunt Wang also introduced her situation very realistically and said: "I am not as good as you, my salary is low, and I also pay the mortgage. I have to pay about 2,000 yuan a month..."
Uncle Pan asked in surprise: "You have a low salary, and you have to pay the mortgage! Then how do you live in normal times?"
Aunt Wang said: "Well, I will pay it back more than 20,000 yuan. As for living expenses, my son sometimes subsidizes some, and I still have some savings. Do you have to live in normal times? Do you mind? "
Uncle Pan said that he didn't mind the woman's salary. If the two were together, he would spend his money. Just when the matchmaker thought the two would succeed in holding hands, Uncle Pan suddenly asked his most concerned question. He asked : "Is your medical insurance the municipal medical insurance?"
Aunt Wang said: "No, it's the community medical insurance I paid by myself."
Uncle Pan said after hearing this, because his wife spent a lot of money when she was sick, so he cared about whether the woman had municipal medical insurance. , but he was very satisfied with Aunt Wang. He was really confused and couldn't make up his mind.
So he planned to call his younger brother and ask his family for their opinions. After he told his younger brother about Aunt Wang's situation, his younger brother meant that Aunt Wang's conditions were very poor, but if Mr. Pan fell in love, he would get in touch first. If the conditions are not good and the personal aspects are average, then let's get over it.
After hearing what his brother said, Mr. Pan decided to listen to his brother and reject Aunt Wang. He told Aunt Wang: "I am also a person with higher education. I discussed with my family just now. Our family attaches great importance to medical insurance issues. I don't care how much money you earn, but it won't work without municipal medical insurance "
Aunt Wang said angrily: "I have community medical insurance. Although the reimbursement is not as much as municipal medical insurance, I am also very healthy. I have a physical examination every year. And you are 12 years older than me. I don't dislike you. Do you dislike me for not having municipal medical insurance? You keep saying that you don't care about money. In fact, you are a person with no sense of responsibility and are afraid that your wife will become a burden to you in the future!"
The two are actually very compatible, because of the medical insurance issue. The two failed to date.
Conclusion
Uncle Pan’s family is very good and rich. He is a person with higher education. Every word he says doesn’t care about money, but in fact he still cares a lot. failed two blind dates, because there is no municipal medical insurance, mainly because he is afraid of being responsible.
And you can't make up your mind at such an old age. You have to discuss your lifelong affairs with your younger brother. If you don't have any opinion, you will be very tired when you are with someone with such a personality.
I think the problem is not medical insurance, because the difference between municipal medical insurance and resident medical insurance is 10% different. If there is no serious illness, it will not be used at all. It would be a pity if I missed a marriage because of this.
It is a good thing for the elderly to find a partner. To enjoy the happiness and happiness of the elderly, it depends on their own conditions. If you are suitable for your ideal partner, you must be healthy, kind, gentle, well-educated, and loving to each other, so that you can enjoy the happiness and happiness of old age!
