Some elderly people always think that they can help their children, but they don’t know that when they reach old age, the correct way is to live a good life for their old couple and interfere with their children’s affairs. They will not hurt their hearts, but their children will respect you more.
You should know that the generation gap exists. Many people think they are still very powerful. You should know that young people have their own ideas. Let your children go out and do not set up obstacles, which is the greatest love for your children!
78-year-old Mr. Guo was engaged in business when he was young and earning money made people around him envious. He built a three-story western-style building at home and five houses were rented in the county town. His son is like his wife, but he is too timid. The reason is that Mr. Guo himself has sent him to school since he was a child. When his son was in college, he also sent him to school to register. Other students brought his luggage to school.
In response to this, my son also said that he would not give it to his father, but Mr. Guo was just worried, which caused his son to graduate from college and could not live independently.
Uncle Guo’s friend A Guang is a teacher. A Guang told him that in his old age, don’t worry about his children’s affairs. The old couple should travel and go shopping. If you have any problems at home, the old couple should negotiate and do not act arbitrary. Although their abilities exceed that of their spouse, they should also respect their spouse and respect their son’s choices.
Now, my son has also started working, and Mr. Guo and his wife are in more and more conflicts. For example, Mr. Guo likes to be lively and often brings a few friends to drink at home. Sometimes he gets drunk and fights with each other. After a few days, friends who have fought come to drink again. After getting drunk, they fight again. The TV in the living room is broken and the wine cabinet is broken. My wife joked: I will buy ten TVs at a time next time. After the blow is broken, I can replace them in time. Now Mr. Guo is angry again and said that my wife is talking too much!
Every time a friend disperses, the living room is in a mess. My wife is sanitating and complains quietly. If Mr. Guo hears the complaints, the old couple will have a big fight again.
Once, a friend A Guang came to visit, and his wife introduced her drunkenness in detail. After hearing this, A Guang pondered for a moment and issued a serious warning to Mr. Guo, telling Mr. Guo to quit drinking, otherwise the family would be disbanded sooner or later. Then he told Mr. Guo about the facts and reasoning, and persuaded him with great sincerity. After listening to A Guang's advice, Mr. Guo also realized his shortcomings. He made up his mind to quit drinking, and the doctor also told him to quit drinking, because he was hospitalized several times after being drunk.
Now, Mr. Guo has quit drinking and is far away from his friends who love fighting. He goes shopping with his wife every day, and sometimes goes to square dance with his wife. When encountering troubles, the old couple will communicate in time. The old couple bought vegetables together and went home to cook.
Friend A Guang was also relieved when he saw Mr. Guo’s changes. Uncle Guo told A Guang excitedly that fortunately he had advised him, otherwise, how could he be so happy in his later years?
Conclusion
In the old age, couples should tolerate each other, understand each other, live their own lives well, not participate in their children's private affairs, not sulk, be open-minded in everything, and face every day optimistically. When you encounter troubles, the old couple has to discuss and deal with them. If you have difficulties, face them together and have happiness. Everyone can share.
