Introduction:
Zhao Yuying still remembers that she went to her boyfriend Song Yuqing's house for the first time. Her mother-in-law held her hand affectionately and said, "I fell in love with you when I saw you. You were born to be our daughter-in-law. You are so well-behaved, so I like a well-behaved daughter-in-law."
It was the first time I met her parents-in-law at that time. Her mother-in-law was so kind to her, which made Zhao Yuying particularly liked. She thought that after she married her in-laws, she might get along with her mother-in-law and become good sisters. Zhao Yuying later met her mother-in-law several times, and she would say to her every time: "You are really well-behaved. I believe you are also an obedient and sensible girl." At that time, Zhao Yuying was a little embarrassed by her mother-in-law's praise. She thought her mother-in-law really liked her.
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Zhao Yuying asked for a 150,000 bride gift when she got married. The 150,000 bride gift is not much or too little. When the mother-in-law heard the 150,000 bride gift, she smiled and held Zhao Yuying's hand like her biological mother, and said, "Girls should ask for a bride gift when they get married. With a bride gift, the marriage is considered to be legitimate." At that time, Zhao Yuying was very moved that she had such a reasonable mother-in-law. Because she had a good impression of her mother-in-law, she was the mother-in-law before marriage. He said to Zhao Yuying, "Yuying, can my mother-in-law owe you a few months first? My store has to buy a large amount of goods recently, which requires a lot of money."
mother-in-law runs a store by herself, so when her mother-in-law told Zhao Yuying like this, she immediately agreed, because she already regarded her mother-in-law as her own person, and thought that her mother-in-law would not harm her. She also believed that after marrying for a few months, her mother-in-law would naturally give her the 150,000 yuan gift. So even though she had not received the gift, she still married happily. Not only was the bride gift postponed, but the wedding was not even held. My mother-in-law said that the wedding would be held after the financial conditions were better in the future, and that it would be held in a grand manner. My mother-in-law promised to give Zhao Yuying a grand wedding within one year after the marriage.
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Zhao Yuying always thought that all her mother-in-law’s promises to her were true, so even if she didn’t get the bride price and did not hold the wedding, she was very happy at her husband’s house after marriage, and took out her salary to supplement the family income. She had a child in the third month after marriage, and her mother-in-law was very happy when she learned that she had a child. Because she had a child, Zhao Yuying quit her job. The various prenatal checkup costs, nutritious foods and fruits she had to eat during pregnancy suddenly increased her financial pressure.
Zhao Yuying suddenly thought that her mother-in-law should fulfill her promise and give her a 150,000 betrothal gift, and should have a grand wedding for her as soon as possible before the child gets older. Zhao Yuying told her mother-in-law about her thoughts. She thought her mother-in-law would immediately take out the 150,000 yuan betrothal gift, but her mother-in-law started to cheat: "You have all your children, what else do you want to have? What kind of wedding do you want? These are all requirements that can only be made before marriage. Anyway, you are our daughter-in-law and have our children, so don't make these requests anymore. In my heart, you have always been very obedient. You are not someone who makes unreasonable requests. Don't talk about these things in the future."
Zhao Yuying realized at this moment that all the promises her mother-in-law had to her were fake. She actually had no plans to give her a bride gift or hold a wedding for her. She kept praising her for being obedient and sensible, and was telling her: "Don't cause trouble for me." But her mother-in-law also misjudged her. She has never been a person who can be arranged easily. She didn't care about it before because she trusted her mother-in-law, but now she has children and no job, and her mother-in-law said the truth, and she was expected that she, a married woman with children, could not leave her in-laws' family.
Zhao Yuying didn't choose to accept her mother-in-law's trick. She pretended to be very obedient on the surface, but in fact she returned to her parents' home and told her mother-in-law what she did. Her parents said with heartache: "I should have stopped you when their family owed the bride price. If I stopped you, maybe the ending wouldn't be like this. Now it's troublesome to have a child and want to divorce."Zhao Yuying thought seriously for a moment and said, "I don't want to get a divorce, but I won't just forget it. Since their family refuses to give a bride gift or hold a wedding, then I am not a legitimate wife. There is no need for my child to take their surname in the future. I will change his surname to him in the future, and I will let him follow his maiden name. ”
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Because she obtained the consent of her parents, Zhao Yuying also had the confidence. In order to make the child born in a healthy and safe manner, Zhao Yuying was still very friendly to her mother-in-law on the surface, as if she had turned over the 150,000 yuan bride price and wedding ceremony, so her mother-in-law showed more and more real side to Zhao Yuying. She said to Zhao Yuying: "You don't have a job now, you can't be an idle person at home. You have to learn more about cooking, cooking, and housework, and take good care of my son. "
Mother-in-law showed more and more real faces. Zhao Yuying discovered that the white mother-in-law never regarded her as a family. Zhao Yuying did not quarrel with her mother-in-law, but often went back to her parents' home to relax, divert her attention, and make herself happy. The child was about to be born in a blink of an eye. The mother-in-law thought of the name for the child. Zhao Yuying praised the name for her child on the surface, and said that she would definitely give the child this name, but in fact she had already decided to change her surname to her child. Zhao Yuying chose to go back to her parents' home when she gave birth and confinement. She pretended to be considerate and said to her husband: "You concentrate on your work, I have my family with me when I gave birth and confinement. You don't have to worry about me specifically. "
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Because Zhao Yuying kept telling her this, her husband really did not show up during her childbirth and during her confinement period, but transferred a lot of money to her, so that she had no worries about her confinement period. That is, during her confinement period, Zhao Yuying changed her surname to her child, and did not let her follow her husband's surname Song, but asked her child to follow her surname Zhao. After Zhao Yuying came out of confinement, she never went back to her mother-in-law's house. Her mother-in-law felt that It was strange that I personally brought fruit to Zhao Yuying's mother's house. When my mother-in-law heard Zhao Yuying call her grandson "Zhao Deqian", my mother-in-law suddenly realized: it turned out that her grandson had been changed.
mother-in-law asked Zhao Yuying when she would go back. Zhao Yuying said, "You neither gave me the bride gift nor held a wedding for me. I am not your legitimate daughter-in-law. I will not go back to my mother-in-law. Anyway, the child I gave birth to is now my surname and has nothing to do with your family. "When the mother-in-law heard Zhao Yuying's words, she felt that she had no face. Everyone knew that her daughter-in-law had a grandson. If someone knew that the grandson had been changed, where would she put her face?
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In order to save face in front of the surrounding neighbors, the mother-in-law could only ask Zhao Yuying to go back and ask Zhao Yuying to change the child's surname. Zhao Yuying smiled and said, "If you want your grandson to be legitimate and have a bride gift to me, you can give me a 200,000 yuan gift, and hold a wedding for me within another month. If you want me to go back to my mother-in-law's house, I have to go back with legitimate meaning. "
mother-in-law asked: "Didn't you agree to only give 150,000 yuan in bride price? Why did it suddenly become 200,000? "Zhao Yuying said: "Because you postponed the gift for one year and did not give the gift, the price of the gift has increased. "After hearing Zhao Yuying's words, the mother-in-law felt very regretful that she underestimated this well-behaved daughter-in-law too much. She thought she was very obedient, but she also had a temper. Now she was led by her army and was in a difficult position. She really had no face.
Conclusion:
In the end, the mother-in-law could only give Zhao Yuying a 200,000 bride gift and held a wedding for her. Zhao Yuying took the child back to her in-laws' house, but Zhao Yuying did not change the child's surname for the time being. She said to her mother-in-law: "I will take the child back for the time being to see how you perform. If you perform well enough, I will change the child's surname. "
Although the mother-in-law has no choice but to agree to the daughter-in-law's request.
