For girls, marrying far away is really a painful thing. Because meeting a bad partner, marrying far away will become your nightmare. Even if you meet a good partner, you will still miss your hometown and your parents who have been away from you for many years.
This woman who married far away wanted to go back to her parents' home during the holidays, but unfortunately the man couldn't leave the local area due to work reasons. After learning the news, her reaction made people unable to help but her eyes were wet.
A woman who married far away could not go home for the holiday. The reaction was sad and
I saw that it was about to be Mid-Autumn Festival . This woman who married far away to Hunan discussed with the man and wanted to take her children back to her parents' home for the holiday.
At that time, the man felt that there was no problem and agreed, so the woman looked forward to the arrival of this day. Unexpectedly, as the holiday approached, the man needed to deal with work matters and had no way to take her back to his parents' home.
Everyone thinks that a woman has been married for so many years and has long been used to being away from her parents. Unexpectedly, on the Mid-Autumn Festival, the woman was in a very depressed mood. She woke up in the morning and stopped eating. She stood at the door with her child in her arms, her eyes staying in the distance.
The man immediately understood what she was thinking. It’s a pity that he couldn’t give up his job, let alone keep his promise and took her home for the holiday.
The woman just stared at the distance in a daze, and her eyes were already wet before she knew it. When she thought that others were talking about family matters with her parents, she felt very uncomfortable.
It is reported that the woman’s hometown is two thousand kilometers away from Hunan. Judging from this distance, it should be not easy for her to go home once.
A woman was homesick and affectionate, which caused heated discussion among netizens
Netizens saw the woman holding the child in a daze, and expressed their opinions one after another. A netizen thought the man's approach was too inauthentic. He clearly agreed to the woman to take her back to her parents' home for the holiday, but he began to regret it again at the end of the matter.
If the nature of a man’s work is not extremely special, he should have the opportunity to shirke away the tasks arranged by the company. After all, the woman has been married for so long and has not been able to go home to have a reunion dinner with her parents. As a husband, he has the obligation to satisfy the woman's wish.
Another netizen believes that the man should handle this matter well, otherwise there will be problems with their husband-wife relationship in the future. The woman chose to marry in Hunan for love, and also gave birth to a child for the man, helping him form a complete family.
If a woman has paid so much and the man still doesn’t want to consider her feelings, then this marriage will definitely not last. Even if a man can't take his woman home for the holiday now, he should find a way to make up for her. At least on Mid-Autumn Festival, don’t let her be so sad alone.
Some netizens also believe that the woman's actions are obviously warning the man and her in-laws. She feels that men should not neglect themselves because of work matters.
After all, the Mid-Autumn Festival should be with her family during the annual day. She has been married for so long, and the man’s family should consider her.
Of course, some people do not agree with this view of netizens. They believe that women have no appetite because they miss their parents too much, and there is no way to warn their mother-in-law’s family. If she didn't want to stay here, she would have bought tickets with her children. Everyone is adults. Could it be that if the man doesn’t take her back, she really can’t leave?
The author has something to say:
In the editor's opinion, there is nothing wrong with the woman's behavior. She just wants to go back to her parents, so she is not in the mood to spend the Mid-Autumn Festival with her in-laws.
I believe that after seeing a woman’s experience, many girls realize that marrying far away is something that requires careful consideration. First of all, before marrying far away, you must ensure that your husband and in-laws do not have any character problems.
Marrying far away means that you will be separated from your mother's family. If you have any conflicts with your mother's family, no matter how anxious your mother's family is, they will not be able to come over to help. In order to avoid this situation, girls must check in advance and do not wait until they get married before being bullied by others.
Secondly, before marrying far away, you must consider whether you can accept living apart from your parents.When we were young, we always hoped to leave our parents early and get rid of our parents' nagging and discipline as soon as possible.
Only when that day really comes will we know how much we value our parents. Since birth, our parents have been by our side, and they have witnessed every highlight of our lives.
Even if their nagging is boring sometimes, we still hope to stay by their side, as if we have never grown up.
is like a woman. When she chose to marry far away, she must have never thought that one day she would be so sad because she couldn't go home. If she has the opportunity to start over, I believe she will definitely give up the so-called love and will stay with her parents resolutely.
I hope every girl can think carefully when deciding whether to marry far away, and try not to make choices that make them regret. After all, marriage is a lifelong thing, and if you make a mistake, you will pay a heavy price.
