Marriage has been a relatively rigorous thing since ancient times. Whether men or women, they should keep their eyes open when choosing a spouse in life. Never push themselves into the fire pit...
Nowadays people pay attention to freedom of love, marriage and autonomy, I am too willing to listen to the opinions of my elders, and finally make my life a mess and dare not complain to my family.
There is a famous saying on the Internet The tears shed after marriage are all the water in the head before marriage. If I had not made a rash choice at the beginning, I would not have lived such a miserable life. I could only swallow the pain in my heart.
After experiencing the tediousness of life, people will gradually discover that the so-called love is just a feeling. Only when they truly realize that the most important thing in choosing a spouse is that the other party is understanding, responsible and responsible in encountering things.
Recently, a single mother born in the 1990s shared her life on the Internet, saying that although her life was very hard, she was very happy to have two daughters by her side!
The woman was born in 1993. She just turned 30 and had a failed marriage and two daughters. After the divorce, she didn't want any of her ex-husbands. She could only live outside with her two daughters alone!
According to the woman's description, she and her ex-husband were in love on campus. The two met in junior high school, both failed the junior high school entrance examination and went to technical school together, and after graduation, they entered the palace of marriage.
At first, her parents were also very repulsive, asking her not to get married so anxiously. The two are still young and are not mature in their considerations. They will have a lot of trouble after getting married. She is crazy about love but she can't listen and insists on marrying her beloved. !
After marriage, life proves that the life experience of the older generation is right. Two young people are together, without basic life resistance, and often quarrel over trivial matters.
After only 7 years of marriage, the two divorced due to emotional conflicts. The parents-in-law prefers boys over girls, and the woman gave birth to two daughters in a row, which accelerated the pace of divorce between the two.
Whenever a husband-wife relationship breaks down, women will fight for custody of their children, but what the woman did not expect was that her husband did not want to fight for it at all, and directly gave custody to the woman generously.
According to the agreement during the divorce, the ex-husband needs to pay 1,400 yuan in child support to the two children every month, and he will give it to him when he first divorced. Unexpectedly, the ex-husband dragged it directly and refused to give it to him. The woman came to ask for it many times but had no money.
The woman had no choice but to take her children out to work alone. During the day, her eldest daughter took her younger daughter and took care of them when she got home at night. This kind of life lasted for 3 years.
Speaking of his ex-husband, the woman said that if he still refuses to pay the child support in time, he will consider filing a lawsuit in the court and letting the court enforce it!
Considering the problem of picking up and dropping off the child, the woman also wanted to help her in-laws with her two daughters, so she would meet her daughter's life needs, but her in-laws said she had no obligation.
In-laws refused to help, and their ex-husband didn't give them money. The woman said that life was under great pressure and life was difficult, but she did not dare to tell her family that no matter how difficult life was, she could only bear it silently.
Some people also questioned, what about their parents-in-law who refuses to help? Are they unwilling to reduce the burden on their daughters?
The woman also explained this. Her parents are in their sixties and have two brothers at home. Both of them are married. If they put their children at their parents' home to take care of their parents, they are afraid that their two sisters-in-law will be unhappy.
A woman gets up early and goes to bed late every day. Apart from work, she takes care of her children, and someone introduces her partner, but when she hears that she has two daughters, the other party has no more of the following.
The woman said that she would not deceive anyone and explained her actual situation. It would be better for others to accept my daughter. If others cannot accept it, it would be understandable, after all, it is not her own child.
From the woman's experience, the reason why she had such an experience was that she was too young at the time, obsessed with the so-called love, and insisted on getting married despite her parents' advice, but in the end she met someone wrong!
After divorce, she was under a lot of pressure in life and wanted to find someone to live a good life together, but she took two children and scared away several blind dates. It is impossible to say that those people are realistic. People will seek benefits and avoid harm...
The ex-husband and his family are indeed It's not a good thing. The child support promised during the divorce was not given for a while, and the parents-in-law were unwilling to help take care of their grandson. The burden of life fell on her, and she ran around for life with her two daughters alone.
