: We must let go of the past things. We always remember the joys, sorrows and sorrows of the past. If we immerse ourselves in these, it means that we have not let go of our hearts. No matter how good or bad the past is, it has no meaning to us now. It is right to devote ourselves to the current people and things with all our might. When our affairs are pressed more and more, our hearts will become more and more tired, so we must learn to internalize them, forgive and forget them, so we must learn to internalize them, to .
is confused because it is unclear. Everything happens and there are traces of its occurrence. If such a result is not what happened now, it is because of this cause before! When we lack wisdom to observe, it just happens suddenly, and there is actually nothing that happens suddenly. Even the sudden thing has signs!
" The Doctrine of Mean " is almost like learning! That is to say, we have to constantly learn to understand the truth and understand the way to deal with things!
The kind of kindness will not worry! Usually, we worry that our business will be difficult in the future, our children will not study well in the future, we will not have a good future, our work will not go smoothly, and we will wait! We will find that many of our worries are based on selfish desires. We will not worry about how other people’s children will be in the future, whether other people’s business will be done well in the future, and whether other people’s work will go smoothly in the future!
These worries are based on selfishness, and the more you want to seek it, the more painful it is!
Before we learned the culture of sages, we did not understand this principle and thought that the more we obtained, the happier we could be. In fact, the opposite is true!
A person who corrects benevolence, his approach is the opposite. He wants to do something for the other party every day,
For example, a couple will not desperately ask the other party to do something, but are willing to do something for the other party. Natural family harmony.
Don’t ask how much I can get at work, but do my best to complete my job. The same is true for my own children. I don’t ask my children what they can do, I just want them to follow their development direction. !
