is brave because of self -love. By: Zheng Xiaomei
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If I am a "sexual assault" girl, what should I do?
has been recently troubled me.
yesterday, I got off from a bus station and was straight for 50 meters, a woman who was nearly 40 years old.
She is wearing a white short sleeve, light -colored jeans, thin face, and her hair is scattered with a few strands, shaking with the wind, like her situation at the time.
she sat at the side of the road at will, and there was a small hard paper brand in front of me, which said that the two lines were not very clear: I was sick, I was sexually assaulted by *** At a glance, I didn't stare at her opposite her, and I didn't remember the specific name).
has a large square sewer manhole cover near the
. The evil odor exuding around is like the victim behind this incident, which makes people disgusting.
passed on to her passersby who came and went, just stopped for a minute, and hurriedly left. When I passed by
, there was a elder sister beside her next to me, listening to her telling the hearty and creepy story. I stopped
. I stood behind her for a while. The clearest sentence was: "They let me go home and wait for a long time, he hasn't gone to jail."
I don't know what the eldest sister next to him said to her, but when she got up and left, the victim's woman turned to her, "I'm not afraid of him to kill me, and save me to commit suicide."
I was sad after hearing it. Tears have already gone in my eyes. I really want to do something for her, but I do n’t know what to do for her ...
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The process is also because Hurry up and forget to say a word of comfort and support.
along the way, her vicissitudes of cheeks appeared in her mind, and she had lost light in her eyes. Only tears that appeared frequently, and a hint of hope to live.
Perhaps, 's story has already talked to countless passers -by, and the memories and repeats over and over again are repeating the darkest time of life over and over again.
is like a blade, scratching the heart again and again, and finally, you can only go home with a scarred self, and a tired belief.
and more people, just use the scene of the scene in front of me as a passerby, and then tell the people around you.
only has sympathy and compassion, and does not feel the same.
I think a lot along the way. I actually want to tell her, "Let's expose it through the Internet." I also tell me that I "do not write this matter as an interview." Will it be effective? What if it is really effective, what does me mean to her? I did not find the answer in
because I haven't tried it.
thinks about it from another angle. What if the woman sitting on the ground is me? What should I do? Is
a swallowing sound? There is a bias for the opposite sex for a lifetime, and live in the shadows and fear of the past in the past. Is
fought in the end? At the expense of betting on his life to make bets, only to allow the victims to get legal sanctions, and even live in the point of pointing points of others? Is
end life? With the worst means, it is a hundred and quiet, just because of a bad person, do you have to put on your own life?
So, no matter how you choose the last, there is no way.
can obviously make mistakes for themselves. Why should they bear such a heavy price?
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has finished chasing " Joy 3" a few days ago.
has not been working hard to work in Beijing alone. She is very good and hard -working. She made dazzling results and soon promoted salary increase.
, however, when she sent the drunk boss back to the hotel's room at a certain time, the boss had to infringe her. He also blamed all Lucy's rapid growth on his support. The exposure of
has nowhere to escape from Lucy. In the end, he can only be innocent and liberated by self -cutting the wrist by glass sheet.
Lucy was the borrowing name of Fang Yanheng. Later, she was abroad to study abroad. After returning to China, she was stationed in Shanghai and designed a revenge plan for "parent debt". The ending of the
story is that her boss was destroyed in the industry, and his son was drunk in the hospital.
and Fang Xun, are just 1/9 of this boss.
Beijing, how many boss are there? How many cities are there in the country? When
finished watching this drama, I really strongly recommend that female friends must watch "Ode to Joy 3". This is not only the sequel of "Ode to Joy", not just a TV series, but the most real real life, but the most real real life. Feedback, highly educational significance.
did not tell me the "sexual harassment" that she experienced in the workplace until a friend told me that the original similar story not only appeared on TV, but also appeared on the hot search list. Everyone's side.
is just someone who chose to be at the same time, and a person silently bear the shadow; someone chooses to fight to the end.
and most victims will choose the former.
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Although "sexual harassment" has been included in the Civil Code , but in my country, the lack of sex education still has caused many victims to victims In the face of certain persecution, he is unable to resist.
is particularly on the workplace. Most of the harmfuls use power to infringe the disadvantaged opposite sex. Some victims of
did not have awareness of rights protection, and they were also afraid of publicizing these shameful behaviors to the public. They were afraid that public opinion fell on the righteous side, so he chose to forbearance.
then carrying heavy shackles in his life, becoming more sensitive and lacking of security. The shadow of is a dozen or even hundreds of times that love and warmth cannot be cured. Some victims of
choose to defend their rights, and then invest a lot of time, energy, and money on rights protection. However, the law may not be "equal" as specified in the text, so they can let some victims escape and leave the law.
is the most painful is that when you are the most helpless, you still have to worsen by the snow. then full of hatred and disgust with life, and finally chose to live light.
also has some victims. They are brave and worked hard. They also make "wicked people have evil news" and let more people with the same experience see hope.
they started to believe in the law and believe in themselves, but the psychological shadow brought by "sexual assault" should be healed with the rest of their lives, and they must be used to reconcile with the past. The problem of
back to the beginning:
If I am a "sexually assaulted" girl, I think I will choose the last one. But this is not the only criterion, because I have never experienced it and I don't want to have such an encounter.
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But I still want to tell more girls:
1. Try to wear casual clothes or professional clothes or too naked clothing or too naked clothing. ;
2. Make -up makeup is due to professional literacy and politeness, too exquisite Makeup or accessories, leave it to the weekend;
3. Do not show all the people who do not fully understand and familiar with anyone, including personal information and family conditions;
4. Don't believe it or accept that you have never worked hard and it is easy to make it easy What you get;
5. Be sure to have the correct values, don't be greedy for small and cheap, some get it, it means losing;
6. Look at some educational books and movies, more popular science knowledge in education;
7. When you suspect that you are "sexual harassment", you calm down first, then think of countermeasures, you must collect evidence to play the role of "rubber band";
8. Reduce the opportunity to eat alone with the opposite sex leadership, provided first to learn to identify;
9. The dinner table. Try not to drink as much as possible. You really come to work well, not to accompany the wine. For some forced behavior, you have the right to refuse;
10. If the level of damage is higher, do not swallow it, believe in your strength, believe in the group’s group’s Power must be more believed in the power of law. At the end of
, I regret that I couldn't walk to the sexually assaulted woman to send a sentence of encouragement, even if it was just a simple "I support you".
7 is more needed for understanding, support, and encouragement.
If you meet such an isolated person around you, remember to forward this article for her, and then send me a encouragement.
is even more brave only when the girl who loves itself is more brave. They have a fire inside, just to illuminate the darkness in their hearts.
Author Brief introduction: The entire network pen name "Zheng Xiaomei", healing the author, focusing on personal growth. I hope you will become a better person because you meet me. @我 小, let me grow up with you!
